Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

Has anyone had an outdoor wedding and what was the things you loved and hated about it? I'm thinking about doing it but nervous because only seen it on movies and can't get an idea of how it will really be.

Thanks

2007-03-12 05:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by Island Girl 2 in Weddings

Relationship?
ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and then over the next few months you started to see a lot of changes in him that he has made for himself and it turns out that he wants everything in a relationship that you do, do you think that you would regret it if you didn't give him another chance? Do you think that you would always be having these "what if" feelings and wondering what could have been if you didn't give him another chance?

2007-03-12 05:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

Due to past consequenses my wife treats my stepson like an 8 yr old and he's 16. I try to teach him facts of life and how he has to earn his way but 90% of the time all I get is grief.He sits in his bedroom, very rarely helps with chores and if I say anything a row starts. Even if I can get him to do something it's done halfway and I have to redo it. He finds every excuse in the book to try to weasel out of it. She gives him nearly anything he wants and I tell her she's losing any respect he might ever have had for her. She had an operation recently and not once did he ask how she was doing or went to visit. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can remedy this problem?

2007-03-12 05:10:29 · 10 answers · asked by herring56 1 in Family

Why is it that whenever I (or any guy for that matter) talk to a pretty girl I always tend to hold my breath and/or not be able to breathe? How can I fix this problem? Do alot of guys have this problem? Guys and girls can answer.

2007-03-12 05:10:11 · 13 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

I thought i wouldn't see him again... after we graduated, and he was 1 of my 2 bestest friends! This is really hard because, he said he's in love with me! And I don't want to lose him. I went to meet him and got seriously shy! I really think he changed his mind... and now it feels like i've lost him all over again! I'm all crazy inside ....What do I do! He won't text me back... and I'm too shy to try to call! I need help!

2007-03-12 05:10:07 · 13 answers · asked by larua_2005 3 in Singles & Dating

I got an email from my ex boyfriend over the weekend. We have always been good friends. Anyways, the contents of the email basically said he wanted to start new and he thought we could work. We had a couple of issues but those are resolved now and those are the only reason we broke up in the first place. This just came out of nowhere. He has been contacting me more recently but I wasn't expecting this. A little over a week ago a girl was shot only a few feet away from me. It was scary thinking it could have been me. Would that made him realize I was important to him? Well I told him about it. what would make him do this? We have been broken up for a little over 2 years and have been speaking as friends during that time.

2007-03-12 05:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Do men perfer a woman who's down stair compartment that has an slight odor? Not to get too personal but, I recently had a discussion with a man about this subject. Because I made a comment that a woman should not have an odor down stairs and he was amazed because he told me that all women have an odor and he said most women that he has been with has an odor. I told them if she has an odor then something is wrong, what do you think.

2007-03-12 05:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by VON 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been spereated for almost 2 months, And sometimes i get this feeling inside my stomach and chest like something has been ripped out, or something is missing. Than i start to get sad, i almost break down and start crying. I didn't feel this at the begining. it's hurts....any cure for this?. it's makes the days difficult.

2007-03-12 05:09:15 · 21 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

so my bf of 9 months broke up with my saying he didn't see the relationship going anywhere...but that he'd still like to be friends. he never before persued a friendship with an ex, but he said he felt compelled to do so with me. i told him fine, but i would need some time, because the breakup really hurt and surprised me. and suddenly he's calling me to just say hi, texting me at 5am, emailing me every single day. he tells me at a party he went because he knew i was going to be there...tells me he misses hanging out with me, and then apologizes and says everything was his fault. but i KNOW he doesn't want to get back together...i guess i just don't understand why he seems to have this need to keep in such close contact (i NEVER contact him)

2007-03-12 05:08:50 · 6 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me in the very beginning of Febuary. Before going out her and I were friends and we hung out a lot. When we were going out we hung out pretty much every day. After breaking up she insisted on remaining friends with me. I agreed and we are now friends. I treated her really well and was there for her through a rough time in her life (brain surgery, and depression), and i helped her get through it. She knows that i care about her and that i will always be there for her. Here is the problem. Before breaking up she would contact me to hang out or even just to talk either through the computer or telephone. Now after breaking up she does not contact me. If she does it is a rarity. It seems like I have to initiate all contact with her. I have not really talked to her since the last time we hung out (about a week ago). (i did once to get a phone number for somone i needed to call for work.) After hanging out she always says she had a great time and....

2007-03-12 05:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend told me that marriage is hard. Why? Just curious?

2007-03-12 05:07:37 · 12 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 05:07:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i discovered this when he left his mailbox open and he comunicates with the ladies from the adult friends finder help me wat can i do with a cheating husband. i have a child with him and we have been married for 2and half years.

2007-03-12 05:07:21 · 29 answers · asked by vanessa m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My back is a little sore from some outdoor work. What about you?

2007-03-12 05:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think he said it, could be my imagination.
was he saying it really quietly to see if I would respond, and If I didnt he would pretend nothing happened?

do guys do that?

I don't love him yet.

2007-03-12 05:06:35 · 1 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Singles & Dating

well i gave my stupied b/f a second chance, we had been back togther for about a week, we finally got time to see eachother and spent the whole day togther we even got "physical" well by the end of the night he started acting strange and really wanted to take me home, i really had a werid feeling that after he dropped me off he didnt go home so i jumped in my car and found his car at his friends house...as i got closer i found a girl on top of him! i freaked out and yelled and he drove off with her...well he cheated right after we hung out! im so hurt i cant get that picture out of my head! how do i stop thinking about it? i hate him i dont miss him im just so hurt! and advice to let it go? we were togther 2 years....sad.

* we were only broken up for about a week and talking the whole time, and all he ever said was how much he loved me and needed me, the whole time he had a girl on the side, i hate him.

2007-03-12 05:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Singles & Dating

......or should I play them in another room? I love spooning. It's a sexy form of entertainment. Do you agree?

2007-03-12 05:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He lies about the type of his work, the company he works for, hours of his work, etc.

2007-03-12 05:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 05:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by Peggy P 1 in Family

This weekend was a total bust for me. Sat I got up and cooked breakfast, cleaned up after wards, cooked lunch, cleaned after words, cooked dinner, cleaned afterwords. My family made me so mad. Here I am cooking and cleaning all day while they play in the beautiful sunshine. On Sunday I woke up and said eat cerial Im not cooking. Well, my 6 year old started to cry cause she wanted pancakes and my 9 yr old was like I don't like cerial and my bf was like fine, so everyone make their own food, but left the mess for me. I screamed at them and said "CLEAN UP YOUR MESS, IM NOT DOING IT".

What can I do to get more help around the house. I ask and ask but I feel like all I do is yell. I work 40+ hours a week and my bf owns his own company so he works allot too. I have chores for the kids to do, but I feel like im constantly yelling at everyone. Weekends are the only time I actually have to relax and don't want to cook and clean by myself.

Any thoughts on how to change this?

2007-03-12 05:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by 2shay 5 in Family

I'm 22 years old and have met the man of my dreams! I know for sure he's the one because I feel it with every inch of my being. We live togehter and our starting up our own business and our sex life is great however, the problem is I feel jealous of his time spent with other people.

I feel I cant trust him and am afraid he will cheat on me. Whenever I can get a chance I sneak a look at his mobile phone to check his texts and calls, I have occasionaly found texts from girls nothing untoward but that doesnt stop my demons from thinking there is something more going on. Its driving me mental.

We argue every few weeks just when things are looking like they are going amazing i have to go say something about girls that hes texting or checking his phone bill for numbers and people he has texted. I love this man more than anythingin the world, i dont want to lose him, i have made the first step and talked to a support group who i can call at any time when im feeling down also

2007-03-12 05:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by MICHELLE T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 05:03:58 · 22 answers · asked by billu b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband tottally humiliated me to a person who is ripping him off into buying Oil shares. Reason being: I tried in my
"tinpot" way to intervene by passing my opinions voicibly whilst he was answering her telephone call. Unknown to me he declined her offer and she then called him later & he said he had changed his mind & the reason he had declined was because of his "WIFE"!!! I overheard and am furious not to say feel let down and humiliated. He says I am wrong! Please may I have your opinion. Thanks.

2007-03-12 05:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do u like a lady to wear some makeup on?
Im talking about a simple clean natural make up.

2007-03-12 05:02:11 · 12 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf says he wants to take it slow - well we are broke up because I am tired of him tlaking to his exs, going out all the time and we took a break. Now we talk and he said he wants to be with me loves me and wants to take it slow.
Would it be a bad idea to go out with other guy friends and not hide it from him? Just to show him that I am tired of waiting and tired of him going out with all of his friends guys & girls all the time?

2007-03-12 05:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

headed. She knew when she met me that I'm set in my ways and opinionated about them. Why does she try to change me still?

2007-03-12 05:01:43 · 16 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 2 in Singles & Dating

I am or was dating this guy whom I have known a week. The last time I talked to him he told me he loved me. Freaked me out!!!!! Is there anyway this is ok or is he a psycho?

2007-03-12 05:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my gf. in fact , i dont love anyone more than i love her. not even myself! and i know that she loves me too. my love is reciprocated.
but she still keeps in touch with her ex .. her first love apparantely. no matter how many times i tell her that i dont like it or that i am disturbed by it, she doesn understand me. she promised me that she wont keep in touch with him, but recently i saw some offline mess from him to her.
i dont suspect her. she is not that sort. but i want her to understand that i feel insecure abt this. why wont she understand. i give her love that can even compare to what her parents can dream to give. she is everything to me.
i dint take this issue with her serisouly cos i dint wanna a have fight and its almost gonna be a year now since the relationship started.,
what should i do? help!

2007-03-12 05:01:12 · 24 answers · asked by aryan_vikas2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Never alone - how do you not get down about this? IN OUR 30s!

2007-03-12 05:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Family

I was a friend of his in college, and all of a sudden while I was kind of spacing out at work, I wondered what he is up to these days? He is about 27 or 28 now. Went to SIUC.

2007-03-12 05:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Friends