I thought i wouldn't see him again... after we graduated, and he was 1 of my 2 bestest friends! This is really hard because, he said he's in love with me! And I don't want to lose him. I went to meet him and got seriously shy! I really think he changed his mind... and now it feels like i've lost him all over again! I'm all crazy inside ....What do I do! He won't text me back... and I'm too shy to try to call! I need help!
2007-03-12 05:10:07 · 13 answers · asked by larua_2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is always a sticky situation. You really need to call him and express your feeling towards him. If you treat him only as a good buddy and NOTHING more, you need to let him know flat out that you don't have that kind of feelings for him. If you have just a slight feelings for him but you're not ready, let him know too. But you need to be ready to give up this friendship all together if he cannot accept neither. Good luck ;)
2007-03-12 05:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by C L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like his telling you ruined your relationship as best friends. You should find a way to make him feel like things don't have to be so drastically different just because you're in love. If he was your best friend then you have no reason to be shy around him, he probably loves you for the fact that you've been so open with him.
2007-03-12 05:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to call him, never mind shyness, do you feel the same? if so then talk with him, he is probably thinking that he has lost you and feeling same way, embarrassed and feeling stupid. Just be frank take the bull by the horns, and go for it. You only live once, dont waste oppertunities, go for it and good luck.
2007-03-12 05:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where are your guts?? a best friend makes a good lover. he is someone you have known for long and its easy to understand each other in such situation. i believe he is scared to call or text back cos he isnt sure of what u fell. gather the courage and call him. it hurts more when u love some1 and dont tell them than when you express hw u feel. Good luck
2007-03-12 05:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him! If he's your best bud and he's come out to tell you, then believe me, he means it. This could be a great thing. Don't be afraid of what might happen if things go wrong... be excited of what both of you can become.
2007-03-12 05:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by namojaro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound to me you have strong feeling for him to , if he wont answer your txt write him a letter if you just wont to be friend then your going to have to tell him , your going to have to do something make the first move even if you txt him something hes still going to get the message . you no i married my best friend i was in the same boat that your in now 11 yrs later hes still my best friend and also my husband . good luck
2007-03-12 05:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pull yourself together and make that call, if you don't you will be regreting it for a long while to come.
remember fortune favours the bold, so just do it, go on, pick up the phone and do it right now, while you're still reading this. you dialled yet?
do it, do it, do it!
2007-03-12 05:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The very best romances start as friendships. Don't let this one get away. Call him and invite him over. Otherwise you will regret it.
2007-03-12 05:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take the plunge & call him, or forget him.
Sorry to sound brutal, but those are your choices. So make the call: at least you'll know you tried. Good luck.
2007-03-12 05:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i know someone that the exact thing happened 2...they r no longer friends. so either love him back if u feel hes ur soulmate or let him go.
2007-03-12 05:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by grasshopper9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋