Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I have been married since 10years.At the beginning of my marriage I stayed with my mother in law as joint family, then we had misunderstanding and I went separately. 1year back my father in law died and now my mother in law is with me. My husband doesn’t want his mother to be alone. I have one brother in law he ignored my mother in law completely. Now my problem is I don’t want to face her. I hate my mother in law when I saw her face I remembered the things what she done earlier to me. Sometimes I feel like slapping her. I don’t have any other option. Because she doesn’t have any option she is with me and acting that she loves my family. What can I do now? Give me some solution.

2007-03-12 05:33:43 · 17 answers · asked by poppy 1 in Family

I have known my friend for nearly 10 years. We were close ( I was holding her leg has she gave birth to her twins) but since I moved away from her 4 years ago I feel our friendship is very one sided.
Its always me that phones or text her unless she wants something or to come for a holiday. Everytime she and the children come, I pay for everything. Which is quite costly (1 adult and 2 8yr olds) she always leaves a lasting impression on my home, last time pointed heal marks all over my wooden floors, She also asked me to lend her £5000 for cosmetic surgery and was not happy when I refused, she is a bit of a tart with men and always goes for mr wrong, I told her to get some self respect!!! and she went home early and we havn't really spoken since.
So do I call it a day??????
The problems is I think the world of her children and don't want to lose contact with them
Ps this may sound petty but she dos'nt even send my children birthday cards and it really pisses me off!!

2007-03-12 05:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by JO74 1 in Friends

He drinks 3 six packs a day,smokes crack every night and takes pills.The pills were given to him by his doctor.My boyfriend's room mate gives him money and he too smokes crack after he gets home from work.My boyfriend doesn't work
nor cleans the house.

My boyfriend has at times called his room mate "sugar daddy' and talks about how all his life he's found gay men to be his "sugar daddy" so he'll have a place to live.

He has a very temper and when he gets mad he'll start throwing things and calling me names like dumb *****.This guy
calls me no fun because I don't want to be wasted 24/7.

This guy and I live in the same condo complex.I can't get away from this guy.He walks around high & drink.He moons the cameras that are in the lobby and will cause trouble in the complex.

I don't know what to do.Even if this guy leaves me alone I don't want to run into him nor do I want some other woman to get sucked into his wasted life.

2007-03-12 05:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heterosexual couples only, If you are standing at the foot of the bed looking at the pillows, What side does the male sleep on Left or right?

I'm just wondering what the most popular side for males is.

2007-03-12 05:33:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out with this guy for 6 months now and i just dont love him anymore, i dont want to dump him incase i hurt his feelings.
What should i do?

2007-03-12 05:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On Saturday my dad set me up on a date with his best buddys nephew (His name is Roy) to go to the "Steve Miller Band" concert. It was grate I had met this guy before at there family get togethers, but hes just got out of a relationship with a girl who he doesnt love but hes in love with her kids (who are not from him). So before Saturday night we havent talked much more than "Hi, how are you" --Hug-- and thats it...

On Saturday I really got too know the real man he is and he was everything I would "look" for in a man, but theres one thing....

I have a boyfriend and he just got out of relationship. We didnt "hook Up nor kiss"... But it was wilde how we were so much a like and hes only 24 and I'm 21 and my man is 32 BIG diffrance between all of us...

I tried to break up with my boyfriend because I cant cheat oh him and I wanna do it now before I get too far in...

I tried to do it today but I couldnt have the word come out..

I just need HELP asap

2007-03-12 05:32:45 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Not in that kind of sense but im writing a poem and I'm trying to describe her. I have talent, looks, but I don't want to put personality because it would throw off the rhyming sequence. Can anyone help me? I need to come up with another word for personality or another trait. I'm having writers blokc. Please help!

2007-03-12 05:31:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff B 1 in Singles & Dating

When me and him is on the phone, we just be like hi and yeah. That's it. I'm like, why can't I say nothing else? I have so many things plan in my mind and it just don't come out right or it just don't come out at all. We always end it with I'll call you back. Help me please.

2007-03-12 05:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Friends

OK, here's the situation. I
've noticed that everytime I leave for work my boyfriend looks at naked pictures of girls on the internet. It's not so much porn or videos but just naked girls posing different ways nude and exposing their you know what.

I accidentally came across it in the history files once and now I check all the time and EVERY single time I'm away he looks at this stuff. I don't think it's lack of sex in our life....for example, we'll have had sex and the same day once I leave for work he looks at the naked pictures.

What does this mean? I brought it up once a few weeks ago by making a joke and he just laughed it off and it never got brought back up again. This bothers me but I don't know whether to make an issue of it or just pretend that I don't know what he's doing at let it go cause apparently most guys look at some form of porn. Please let me know why he might be doing this and what I can do about it...

2007-03-12 05:31:05 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend, because of some problems, but now her bf is asking me for help and he cant stop thinking of her, and it hurts him that he cant get her back, i know this is the man for her, she is just a little hard headed sometimes, but what would be a good song that he should sing outside her window, i know she likes simon and garfunkel, but do ya'll know any good oldies to sing to a girl.... thanks in advance for ya'lls suggestions ;o)

2007-03-12 05:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is hard to forget really cruel words from someone you love and trust - how do you get over it ??

2007-03-12 05:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by sprtek 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHAT IS WRONG with wanting someone that I find physically attractive. I don't mean to be shallow, but I also look at personality. If the guy is a handsome jerk, of course I'm not going to go out with him. But if I like his personality AND his looks, what's wrong with that? I've tried dating ugly guys before, and it never works out b/c I'm just not attracted to them and cannot force myself to be. I can't help the way that I feel, but am I really wrong for wanting someone physically hot, as well as personality?

2007-03-12 05:29:55 · 20 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi does anyone know a really romantic place to take this guy I reallyy like too pleaseee

Hes coming down to see me and I want it to be a really speacial time The only food he dosn't like is fish!

Soooo can anyone come up with any ideas

Thanks x

2007-03-12 05:29:21 · 12 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so 2 guys asked my friend if i was a virgin and one of them told her to swear not to tell me and he also told my friend his had bad experiences with virgins..what does this mean?? and the other one asked his friend to ask my friend if i was a virgin...why do they want to know??

2007-03-12 05:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by lilianna_babe17 1 in Singles & Dating

The answers you get are from total strangers who don't know you or your situation. Most answers seem to be written by people under the age of 15 - why do you think their advice is worth the time of day ? I'm genuinely bewildered !

2007-03-12 05:28:28 · 47 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so here it is i have been with this girl for almost seven months i love her i really do...i have seen her about ten times in those seven months..she lives an hour away...i met her at a juvenile detention center and we fell in love ...in the beginning of our relationship i found out that she cheated on me and i stayed with her now i havent been able to trust her 100% but i do trust her...i miss her and havent seen her in months but i know that this girl could be the one i spend forever with its just so hard tryin to keep the distance from gettin to us...what should i do

2007-03-12 05:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by ghetto_livin88 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this cute guy at work and this other girl told me he was 19. then he told me his real age. 22. my mom found out and said that hes too old for me. he's the only man i dated who is sweet and sensite all the other guys just use me as a popularity tool. so he gets more friends.

If. no tell me why

2007-03-12 05:27:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I wasn't officially going out with this guy, but we have been going places together and I know he liked me, but I didn't feel the same way about him, so this morning I texted him on my phone and told him that I didn't think this thing between him and I would work out, and that I was sorry and that he deserves someone who wants a relationship with him, because I don't. I also told him that I don't like him as a boyfriend and that I was tired of him asking me for sex and trying to paw all over me all the time, and that I still have feelings for someone else, and I think he's a nice person who doesn't deserve to be lied to by someone that really doesn't have feelings for him. He kept asking me for a reason why I felt this way, and I ALREADY TOLD HIM!!!!!!! Do you think what I did was mean, or acceptable?

2007-03-12 05:27:20 · 15 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

It makes sense to me. Two people already get along and enjoy each other's company. Why is it such a jump to just add making out to that equation.

2007-03-12 05:26:53 · 2 answers · asked by darkyhatur 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 05:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by craig (hacker)howarth 2 in Singles & Dating

do truly bitchy women get what they want. bc it seems like guys dont want nice girls they stay with the bitchy women. but yet me as a nice person and have a lot going for my self get stuck by my self. do you think i should start being a biatch and then i start getting everything i want

2007-03-12 05:26:38 · 1 answers · asked by ♥live life to the fullest♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

here's the problem. 4 years ago my mom died. 2 years after that my dad has a girlfriend. and of course i want him to be happy. but thats not the problem. the problem is that since they got together she has been always tryna tell my little brother wat to do. im in a group home now and i aint home to be there for my lil bruh. i hate my stepmom and i always wanted to tell her how i feel. not in a disrespectful way. i just dont look at her side of the family bein being family to me. i dont do the step family thing at all. my dad and my stepmom want us to be a big happy family n im like no cuz this aint the brady brunch. baisclly i don't like that we gotta be around them when they together. cuz when i seethem hugging and kissing it hurts ya know cuz i miss my mom. when i get out of here in two months ima tel her how i feel. but would it be wrong to tell her that i dont care bout her and my dad's relationship. i dont wanna hurt anyone's feelings.

2007-03-12 05:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by MAC ROY 1 in Family

We used to look after my partners daughter every 3-4 weeks at the weekend. He has now changed this to every fortnight without consulting me. I am being unreasonable thinking this is unfair?

2007-03-12 05:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by sara y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here i go, 7 years ago my stepchildren came to live with us after their mom passed away. one is great, the other who is now 16 has been a living nightmere. let me start by saying mom let them do whatever they wanted. this child smoked at age 6, started fires, stoled, and terrized other kids. we tried to get control, seeked out help, etc. but this child would have none of it. it is either his way or he will spend a lifetime making u suffer. he is in the system and is right now in detention. problem is they don't no what to do with him. they tried foster treatment where in one he had sex with one of the adults there (he was 14) then the next he terriozed the young children, he also ran away when he did not get his way (same as home) then they tried a 30 day high adventure program where he did not parcipate and at best managed to start trouble with other youths, upon returning home from there he thought he had us where he wanted us and that we would give in so he would not run away,

2007-03-12 05:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by Kim N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 05:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by playboy_carioca 2 in Friends

my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of times but then we always get back together. we don't break up in a fight or argument or anything. after breaking up she gets strong feelings for me and when i ask her why she broke up with me she says she just doesn't want to be with me... which is weird because while she has those strong feelings she wants to be with me but this time she doesn't want me back anymore... i still love her a lot! what should I do? (dont tell me to forget about her though)

2007-03-12 05:24:51 · 5 answers · asked by metalhead #666 1 in Singles & Dating

what you think?

2007-03-12 05:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by jts2thelimit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 05:23:19 · 14 answers · asked by Albert G 2 in Friends

its happening in 1 month and she would like me to come out a week ahead of time to meet with her. I don't know her fiance, but I hear from others that she is the leader in the relationship and tells him what to do all the time....

Any ideas?

2007-03-12 05:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my ex fiance recently broke off our relationship and I told her i just feel like giving up but I tell myself not to and she says you just have to stay strong and have faith. anyone ever had this type of problem before and what does it mean?

2007-03-12 05:21:19 · 12 answers · asked by rusptsmed 1 in Singles & Dating