I have been going out with this guy for 6 months now and i just dont love him anymore, i dont want to dump him incase i hurt his feelings.
What should i do?
2007-03-12 05:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let him down gently, let him know how you feel have a long talk to him and just say look im sorry but this just isnt working for me i hope we can still be friends and let him down gently.
Good look !
Hope this helped
2007-03-12 05:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I dont think you were really IN love with him because you guys have only been going together for 6 months, so I think yo were in strong like with him. Since the relationship is 6 months and its not longer, I think if you both sit down and talk about whats going on in both of your heads, you can come to the same conclusion. But DO NOT AT ALL start the conversation off with "we need to talk..... its not you, its me!" DO NOT START IT WITH THAT LINE!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT EVEN SAY THEM WHILE YOU GUYS ARE TALKING.
2007-03-12 12:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Vonne W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices - dump him or stay. Only you can make up your mind. If you really dont feel the same way about this guy its really best for both parties in the end if you break it off.
2007-03-12 12:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's silly. "i don't want to dump him?" So, your only option then is to stay in this relationship FOREVER, without love? You know, he will eventually figure out that you don't love him - and that will indeed hurt his feelings. Only then it will be years from now, and you'll hurt the kids, and have to argue over who keeps the china hutch. Ugh. Just break up with the guy and get it over with.
2007-03-12 12:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Steven D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we take the word love lightly...u never did love him or it wouldnt be like this...you might have loved being wanted or having attention or maybe ur in love with being in love lol
but to me it doesnt sound like you were because love means through thick and thin....when you dont like them and you cant stand them at the moment youd do anything to makeit better and you still love em.
it would also hurt his feelings more if you keep hangin on...u should say something now vs later..."never a right time to say goodbye" thats a good song for you, listen to it!:)
good luck
2007-03-12 12:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him. If you don't love him you can't help it. You are going to end up hurting his feelings. I don't think anyone yet has found a way to do it with no ones feelings getting hurt. Just keep in mind if you don't break up with him thats not fair to him either. You should break up with him so he can find someone who does love him. Good Luck.
2007-03-12 12:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love him anymore then thats what you kinda HAVE to do, he'll be hurt but its better than leading him on more when you dont feel the same.
2007-03-12 12:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by ElizabethKay™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People fall out of love all the time. It's not the end of the world. I bet the guy won't even mind if you tell him the truth.
2007-03-12 12:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your lucky your just going out with him,some of us either live or are married to someone we know we don't love...I say leave him. talk to him there is no reason to be mean about it you feel what you feel. Tell him you have tried but the feelings are just not there.
2007-03-12 12:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by BarbaraJean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't love him anymore,you better tell him,because just to stay together because you are afraid to hurt his feelings,its totally wrong,because you hurt him more if you stay together and have no feelings for him,that's wrong. go ahead and tell him,its the best you can do
2007-03-12 12:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by prinzessoflove2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋