On Saturday my dad set me up on a date with his best buddys nephew (His name is Roy) to go to the "Steve Miller Band" concert. It was grate I had met this guy before at there family get togethers, but hes just got out of a relationship with a girl who he doesnt love but hes in love with her kids (who are not from him). So before Saturday night we havent talked much more than "Hi, how are you" --Hug-- and thats it...
On Saturday I really got too know the real man he is and he was everything I would "look" for in a man, but theres one thing....
I have a boyfriend and he just got out of relationship. We didnt "hook Up nor kiss"... But it was wilde how we were so much a like and hes only 24 and I'm 21 and my man is 32 BIG diffrance between all of us...
I tried to break up with my boyfriend because I cant cheat oh him and I wanna do it now before I get too far in...
I tried to do it today but I couldnt have the word come out..
I just need HELP asap
2007-03-12 05:32:45 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one in my family know i'm with my 32 year old man... (who I have been dating since Oct. 2006)
But here know about Roy and they love him and we arnt even going out...( Who i've know for 6 years)
2007-03-12 05:34:10 · update #1
I know that the fact that your family loves him whereas you can't even tell them about your boyfriend can make a difference in your decision (and it should, esp. since you've had to hide it all these months), but try not to focus on that because that can take the focus off of how you really feel and what you really want.
You didn't mention anything about your feelings towards your boyfriend. Do you love him? If you're OK with breaking up with him, how come the words weren't coming out? Did you feel bad about telling him or where you unsure of your decision?
You have lots of chemistry with Mr. Saturday and he's also closer to you in age. However, keep in mind that if you break up with your boyfriend, things might not necessarily work out with this guy. He also just got out of a relationship. How about spending some more time with the 24 yr old and get to know him better (strictly on a friendship basis and stick to your rule of not cheating on your boyfriend) and then see how you feel?
If you are ready for the break-up though, then take your experience on Sat. as a sign that your boyfriend might not be the one for you, since you were so strongly attracted to another guy. Then start dating other guys, including Mr. Saturday, until you find the right guy for you.
2007-03-12 06:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he is still in love with his ex ans just says he is not cause of bitterness and not wanting to hurt you.
The best bet would be to wait for a few months and see what happens. He might get back with the ex and you will have a new ex and might not get another chance with him.
but in the end you might be left out in the cold if the break up with you is definite then do the break up and take things slow with the other guy.
2007-03-12 05:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up with your boyfriend. If you are having such strong feelings for someone else it is the right thing to do. Tell him that you have come to realize that you love a close family friend that you have known for years. And a hidden relationship never works out too great anyway.
2007-03-12 05:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u love the new guy more than ur bf than break up with him. and u are dating a guy who is 1o years older than u. whats wrong with u? good luck...
2007-03-12 05:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all knows what this means. he thinks you can't get a guy and hooked you up with someone he can find.
the guy won't be up to as he described. :D
2007-03-12 05:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋