He drinks 3 six packs a day,smokes crack every night and takes pills.The pills were given to him by his doctor.My boyfriend's room mate gives him money and he too smokes crack after he gets home from work.My boyfriend doesn't work
nor cleans the house.
My boyfriend has at times called his room mate "sugar daddy' and talks about how all his life he's found gay men to be his "sugar daddy" so he'll have a place to live.
He has a very temper and when he gets mad he'll start throwing things and calling me names like dumb *****.This guy
calls me no fun because I don't want to be wasted 24/7.
This guy and I live in the same condo complex.I can't get away from this guy.He walks around high & drink.He moons the cameras that are in the lobby and will cause trouble in the complex.
I don't know what to do.Even if this guy leaves me alone I don't want to run into him nor do I want some other woman to get sucked into his wasted life.
2007-03-12 05:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should take a break from him until he gets himself back together...He obviously doesnt care about anything except himself....If you leave him you would be doing yourself a huge favor and you shouldn't worry about other people getting sucked in...Just worry about yourself not getting swallowed into his bullshyt lifestyle...Good Luck!
2007-03-12 05:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you live in the same complex, move. That will help you get over him and move on with your life. Why have someone like that in your life? He'll only bring you down. And I'm not just talking about his drinking and drug habits, which is bad enough. It's his lifestyle. The no job, the mooching off of other people, the laziness. Pretty soon, you'll either be the one supporting him or he'll bring you down. You want to surround yourself with positive people who will uplift you, encourage you to grow, and who you can learn things from. This guy offers you none of those things and will only make your life harder, not easier.
Get over him by thinking of how your life will be a year or two from now if you stick with him. Help him by researching some rehab clinics around you and try to get him to help himself. This stuff is going to kill him and he needs help to get off it and to learn to live responsibly (i.e., a job, independence, quit causing trouble, etc.), and there are professionals for that. Contact any of his sane, drug-free friends and family to help. And remember that helping him doesn't mean that you have to stay with him or even be around him, so don't let that keep you with him.
2007-03-12 13:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get help and leave him he aint ur husband so no commitment help him recover as a friend how and why do u date a guy doing crack i think u also have some self esteem issues find God and help him find help but leave him thats paramount
2007-03-12 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need someone like that in your life because you can do better
2007-03-12 12:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by norman g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt you'll have to worry about him much longer. it sounds like he may be in jail or dead soon.
2007-03-12 12:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by craig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And he's still your boyfriend?
2007-03-12 12:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋