Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

Ok, I sent my friend an email say i think we used to be closer, is anything bothering you and sorted it out and became close again. My friend called me and asked if she wanted to have a sleepover. I had the night before with a girl named Anna and i told her that so i couldnt have one. Then she asked, is Anna your best friend? And i said we are really close, but you all are my best friends. Then she said that bugs me that you sent me that email and then talk about Anna and that you are really close. I didnt know why she was upset. Then today I called her to see if she wanted to go to a movie maybe to sort it out, but she wont answer her phone and i know shes there, shes just mad!! WHAT DO I DO??????????

2007-03-12 06:04:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have lived with my boyfriend for close to a year now. I sometimes feel like he isn't that into me bc he's not a touchy-huggy-feely guy...doesn't like to kiss me goodbye, never hugs or likes to snuggle (save wrapping his legs around mine when we sleep). He will kiss me if his co-workers/friends are over at our house...but when we're alone he won't...I have to beg for a kiss when he heads off to work. Are some guys just like that? I mean, he wouldn't still have me living with him if he wasn't interested anymore, right? (PS, I know for a FACT that he couldn't be seeing anyone else...he comes home right after work every day). Thanks for any and all input! :)

2007-03-12 06:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 in Singles & Dating

Since my divorce 2 years ago, I handle all responsibiltiies for my house mortgage, car, etc. for me and my kids. I don't think it is my boyfriend's responsibility to take care of my kids, but when he spends 3-4 days a week at my house, I find that I am more conscienious of how much he isn't contributing, while enjoying the perks of chilling at my house, watching big screen with cable, internet, etc. His house has none of this.

Those would be my bills anyway because this is the lifestyle I choose to live, but am I wrong to feel that he should contribute something?? He is willing to "loan" me money if I fall short once in a while, but I find myself "hurt" at the idea that he is laying up at my house with no inclination to actually help (without the loan attached). These feelings are starting to damage what I feel for him. We discussed moving in and splitting bills 50/50, but his daughter is an issue so we aren't doing that. Am I wrong to think he should contribute something?

2007-03-12 06:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Nutzzzzz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 06:03:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me that he was lonely when he cheated on me. he told me i wasnt caring and bla bla. and the girl could give more.
but im confuse now cause he wants me back. i still love him but its just the fact that he did all that and more. i dont know. he seems to take an effort to go back to me.help me pplease.

2007-03-12 06:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by miss tini 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc

she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.

what the hell went on?

2007-03-12 06:02:14 · 29 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm spending way too much time on the internet. But Geeeeeezzzzzz!!!!! it's so addicting, esp. in here.

2007-03-12 06:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in this wonderful roller-coaster of a relationship with my boyfriend for about three years now. For the last one month he has been out of the states....visiting his family back home. He's coming back this month around the 20th. And i would really like to surprise him, leave him astonished, amazed with something never anticipated and very unexpected..
so what are the things you have surprised your lover with?

2007-03-12 06:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by DesiGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 06:01:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and what happens next?

2007-03-12 06:01:11 · 21 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thank you all so very much for taking time out to reply to my pathetic problem!!
I will go now & try to regain normallity! which i am sure you girls know is not easy! but we are the ones who have to do it.
we are the ones who have to gloss over, ignore & carry on.
Thanks alot, God Bless You All . T.

2007-03-12 06:00:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been dating for 6 years and married for 5 months. He has left the house and is staying on peoples couches for the last month. He says we are not right for eachother and he has been unhappy for years. He says he never agrees with me and all I do is put him down and he wants a divorce. He never calls to check on me or our dogs or anything he has just shut down. I want to save my marriage I love him so much. He says he can't agree to disagree with me and we are just not meant to be. Please help... can I get him back

2007-03-12 06:00:36 · 23 answers · asked by Tina G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I haven't been seen her more than 2 years, and she is Indian, honestly, she love to smile, but she don't smile much and never show her teeth, probably because she don't like to be in photos. What I can't forget about her is her smile. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wore braces.)

2007-03-12 06:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We Love each other sooooo much and have been married for almost seven years. We are best friends, are with each other all the time, and have no jealousy or wants besides each other. She sadly confessed immediately to me in the hopes that I would understand and that we could get through it. I Love her so much and she returns the gesture. I truly believe her because she never drinks and never looks outside the marriage. She is not flirt, nor does she have agendas. She has never done anything like this before. I have forgiven her because I truly, truly feel it was a mistake. If she was sober I am confident that she would not have even been talking to the guy. I can tell that she regrets the action so bad and has made no excuses whatsoever. She knows the hurt she caused me is so deep in our relationship. Am I overreacting? It was a hurtful action, but it could have been worse. I have already forgiven her, but how do I get past the pain?

2007-03-12 05:59:53 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a good relationship and after a few months have gone by we finally said "I love you" to each other, but the problem is we ran out of things to talk about and I really don't want to lose him, so what can I do?! Please help me!

2007-03-12 05:59:51 · 18 answers · asked by julygirl_101 2 in Singles & Dating

HE IS COOKING LUNCH FOR ME..? AND HE SAID HE IS MAKING CURRY WHAT IS CURRY?

2007-03-12 05:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

alright so here's the story!

I'm a senior in high school and my best friend and I both have the last period lunch of the day. None of my friend's have that lunch and those that do leave for an internship so i can't really eat lunch with them. I give my friend rides home EVERYDAY because she doesn't have a car. Every single day she has been telling me that she has to go to guidance. Litereally every day to find out about colleges. Today she told me that she had to go to guidance during our lunch (again for the 5th day in a row) i saw her at her locker i said are you coming to lunch she was like "no i have to go to the libary" I said didn't you say you had guidance? she told me she went during homeroom but she sits RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME in homeroom and she was there! So now i'm refusing to give her rides home considering i have to sit by myself at lunch now. Is that mean of me? I just keep making up excuses and she gets REALLY MAD AT ME...am i really being that big of a jerk?? Am i?

2007-03-12 05:58:49 · 23 answers · asked by pantherkick07 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend are gunna have sex...im pretty shure im ready to have sex with him...but the thing is is that he is not a virgin so he has alredy had sex before. i am a virgin and latley ive been really horny i guess in a way i want to have sex but im kinda scared about how its gunna hurt...i heard form alot of people that it hurts and i wanna kno is there anything i can do to make it not hurt and also anything else i can do to make it look like im experienced in this thing...im ready for it so if your goin to tell me something diffrent then dont answer...

2007-03-12 05:58:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to wright him a letter and put it in his locker but i dont no what to tell him cause i think he might turn me down i mean everythime i see him in the hallway at school i smile at him and he smiles back but im not sure if he would consider me as a gf or a friend ever although i kinda dont want him to know its me i wanted him to guess who it is what should i do or say

2007-03-12 05:58:23 · 3 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this new guy in school, but he's a year under me..but i think i reallly like him. But i'm scared of what he'll think, or my other friends think. Then im scared that i might feel kinda weird ..... what do i dooo

2007-03-12 05:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by HiLovely 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey, im in highschool, and is totally in love with a college guy. We both want to get married. he seems so perfect in every way. but when he gets mad he really gets mad. he yells and cuss a lot. but never laid a finger on me. i asked my friends if there are any signs to tell if he might become a cheater or abuser or even something worst. but she said you cant tell till your married, but i wanna know before i say my "i do's". im just worried if im making a mistake being with him. i seen a lot of situations on tv and real life. and i just dont want to make a mistake in my life. i just wanna be happy. so please help me out. is there any signs? or is just a risk i must take? please and thank you's

2007-03-12 05:58:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 and the guy i like is 18,we were driving along listening to our favorate music and when we stopped at a red light he looks at me smiling and pats his hand on my leg and rubs it fast then he put his hand back on his steering wheel smiling,i know it means hes affectionate,but it almost seems like he was triend to tell me im glad your here i dont know.why did he do this like what does it mean??

2007-03-12 05:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel liek my life is ending!! i dunno how im gonna survive inhell!! please help!!!!

2007-03-12 05:57:16 · 2 answers · asked by zany 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating two guys for very different reasons. How do I chose between them?

2007-03-12 05:56:59 · 10 answers · asked by Hooter'sgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My mum is 77. She's been set-up & robbed systematically & I've only cottoned on recently. Her will has been arranged so that if she dies, the beneficiary is the person who has robbed her! She has high blood pressure, she's overweight & house-bound. I don't want to upset her or make her ill. She doesn't like me. The chances are she wont believe me. But I feel I should tell her what's been going on behind her back.
I've been in touch with Elder Abuse (in UK). I believe any complaint has to be made by my mum (that's she's being ripped off).
The total amount of money beguiled from her is £344,000!!!
Please advise me. How can I tell her gently?

2007-03-12 05:56:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its wrong if all women do it, but i cant help to love her less every time she does. is this wrong? do other guys do the same thing?

2007-03-12 05:55:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'v been in a relationship for 6 months and in the beginning i did not see this controlling characteristic. Now its completely holding me back.

Is it possible he will change his controlling ways?

2007-03-12 05:55:19 · 23 answers · asked by starQt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have these two friends, and of course they are guys..will i am dating one of them and to say, i am not really in to in anymore..you know peopl emove on.. and well the other is my ex. Well my ex's sister asked me to sleep over. and i am like 16....well i did...and me and my ex kinda were like making out on the couch and we were up till 5:00 a.m.....we didnt have sex or anything, but were were kissing A LOT....now, i just told my boyfriends, and he hasnt reponded to me yet, do you think he will forgive me? what you would do in thais kinda of situation? would you forige me or just move on? People make mistakes....

2007-03-12 05:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by ImLost 2 in Singles & Dating

So i seem to atracked bad boys for some reason and last 2 bf's were jerks. i am sick of being treated nice while they try to get me then being forgotten just so they can move on the the next female walking by... i just want a guy i can trust and that will love me and respect me! are there any left???

2007-03-12 05:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Singles & Dating

so me and my friend were talking and she told me that eric wanted to go out with marina and that he liked her too so then today i had class with eric he sits in front of mei was all like you want to go out with marina!! and then he told me how did you find out i was like oh ****! then it wasnt like 3 minutes later that i remembered i wasnt supposed to say anything so i told him i guessed cuz i always saw youguys talking abd blah blah blah i feel bad i told him i would keep it on the down low but yeah i dont know i think he is going to find out cuz the truth always comes out should i tell him the truth that my friend told me or should i keep the act please help if he finds out i lied he wont ever trust me again!

2007-03-12 05:53:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating