he told me that he was lonely when he cheated on me. he told me i wasnt caring and bla bla. and the girl could give more.
but im confuse now cause he wants me back. i still love him but its just the fact that he did all that and more. i dont know. he seems to take an effort to go back to me.help me pplease.
2007-03-12 06:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by miss tini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hunny he likes the chase not you and i always say once a cheatere always a cheater sorry hun but this guy is playing you and you are falling right into his trap
2007-03-12 06:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what I told my ex when he supposedly changed.... and he didn't' even cheat his just treated me and my kids from a previous marriage bad.... YOU SHOULD HAVE LOVED ME AND TREATED ME GOOD WHEN YOU HAD ME....that is what i told him... Any good therapist will tell you that your spouse or significant other should want to treat you good and want to be nice to you and want to do what is right by you. It should not be forced on them because if you force it on them they don't love you period... goodness should come naturally ....hope this helps but I wouldn't take him back... their are too many other ones out there......
2007-03-12 13:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to keep this jerk out of your life. He is blaming you for his cheating. What a jackhiney! Keep away from this man. I know it is hard right now but in the long run you will be happier.
2007-03-12 13:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll be sorry if you go back to him, trust me. You need to love yourself and think about your happiness. Both of you are only thinking of him. There are some good answers above... take heed.
2007-03-12 13:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bluebellringy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you said bla bla, maybe u are not caring...
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... give him a chance if u want! just take it slow.
2007-03-12 13:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser and a punk, he will not change find yourself a real man that you can trust and make you happy.
2007-03-12 13:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by jim bob 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋