well me and my boyfriend are gunna have sex...im pretty shure im ready to have sex with him...but the thing is is that he is not a virgin so he has alredy had sex before. i am a virgin and latley ive been really horny i guess in a way i want to have sex but im kinda scared about how its gunna hurt...i heard form alot of people that it hurts and i wanna kno is there anything i can do to make it not hurt and also anything else i can do to make it look like im experienced in this thing...im ready for it so if your goin to tell me something diffrent then dont answer...
2007-03-12 05:58:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes i am ready...so like i said dont say anything about that
2007-03-12 06:04:01 · update #1
I dont think you are ready. You seem young to me.
2007-03-12 06:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like your mind is made up but there are some things that you need to do before you go ahead with it. First of all there is nothing that you can do for it not to hurt but if the guy takes his time and tries not to kill you the first time then you should be alright. But if he gets in there and tries to kill it then you're going to hurt. It's gonna hurt a little anyway becasese it's your first time. There is not too much that you can do to look experienced except throw it back on him when he "pumps" you "pump' him back. Besides why would you want to look experienced anyway? You don't want to give him the wrong idea. Well the most important thing to remember is USE A CONDOM no matter what he says you just never know.
2007-03-12 13:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view let me tell you that the most important person in the world is YOU. You don't have to show him that you are experienced. If he is a real man he will appreciate very much what you are doing for him. You don't loose your virginity just to anyone and its not something that you can keep on "loosing". So, look at youself, value yourself and do what your heart tells you. Of course, take into account everything else related to having intercourse. Like deseases, heart breaks, pain, pregnancy etc. etc. Having sex is great and if you share it with love ... better yet.
2007-03-12 13:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Spookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not hurt much or long..
Put a little tube of KY lube/jelly and a condom in your purse.
Your inexperience should be a "plus" for him..
First time will be easier if you sit on him and lower
yourself down at your own most comfortable speed..
A couple of drinks / a beer might relax you a bit..
Take your time, lots of foreplay...
2007-03-12 13:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give a way your precious jewel until he purpose I know your horomones are rage but be patient and wait cause once it is gone it is gone you can't get that back so wait until you find the right guy that will be yours forever
2007-03-12 13:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple weeks before start masturbating if you have toy or stuff go ahead but i suggest fingering your self go from 1 finger to 2 fingers to 3. it slowly prepares you and it helps if you boyfriend does foreplay cuse it makes you wet.
2007-03-12 13:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by hotbitch_9476 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna hurt the 1st time but just ride it cowgirl... take control and he'll think you know whats goin on..
2007-03-12 13:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a real man pop your cherry for you
2007-03-12 13:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by K R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing... I need help. please people answer this question we need some major help!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 13:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋