is it wrong for a husband to love his wife a little less every time he gets b# tched out for something? maybe?

Question

its wrong if all women do it, but i cant help to love her less every time she does. is this wrong? do other guys do the same thing?

Answer 1

How is she yelling at you? Is she being abusive? I know that a little love and respect goes down the toilet every time someone you care about hurts you. Is she nagging or belittling? Tell her your feelings, I know how you feel my hubby was getting really verbally abusive and I lost respect. It`s hard when something is said in anger, even though you don`t mean it, it hurts...I feel your pain, you want to please her and deep down inside you`re trying to suppress your anger. Get help, she doesn`t understand what kind of damage she`s doing..

Answer 2

Is it wrong for her to love you a little less every time you say something hurtful, or disappoint her in some significant way like forgetting birthdays and anniversaries? Do you really think the way she loves you now is the same way she loved you when you two got married? Relationships change, and you have to work to make the love new! So does she. Try to do some of the things you loved to do together when you first fell in love, make more love, and then losing it on irksome things like fights won't kill your relationship!

Answer 3

What are you getting yelled at for? I don't feel this way, but whenever my wife and I fight, she's always had ligitimate concerns. That didn't make me love her less, but more, because I knew she had the concern to tell me something even when I didn't want to hear it. But if she was yelling at me over spilt milk or something, then that would be hard to put up with.

Answer 4

you and your wife need to sit down and talk about this, or your marriage could end up on the rocks. Maybe some counsoling would help.. Good luck.

Answer 5

You need to be up front and honest about the way you feell after she get angry with you.

Answer 6

No