Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

Hey first of all, I have no interest nor any feelings(except lust lol) for my friend with benefits(it was my idea for us to be friends with benefits), nor do I want a relationship with him because he's a player.

Anyway since I won't see him over the summer cuz we live 5hours apart, how can I talk him into having a spring fling with me for the fun of it or something?

Why do I want a fling? Because so I have a few good dates to look back on because the last one I had over a year and a half ago ended up pretty nasty.

And no I'm not a s**t, He's the first and only guy I've been with sexually.

Suggestions and stuff?

2007-03-12 06:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

ihave been asked for vaidation wich i have done and it says thank y but it wont let me in

2007-03-12 06:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by david m 1 in Singles & Dating

Does Men prefer masturbating to real sex (with wife) if yes is that normal or abnormal is there any solution make him behave as a normal man who has regular sex with wife rather than masturbating himself. pls lemme know abt this.

2007-03-12 06:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by swetha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't get the wrong idea, we are great friends, almost like best friends. We go to the same college and I usually see her on a daily basis but why am I constantly thinking about her lately? Is it because we are on spring break and I am bored, or what?

2007-03-12 06:36:53 · 17 answers · asked by K R 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it make a difference if you pay for it or if it is free?

2007-03-12 06:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

is it just me...or is it just hard to write when you're happy because all you want to think about is happiness, and when you're sad...you can write, because you have something to get out of...I don't know...I've been very uplifted and I haven't really written anything deep and dark like I used to...lately its more like "solving problem" type of poetry...who knows! I just want to write something "quality" again!

2007-03-12 06:36:16 · 5 answers · asked by Liya J 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 years old and just got invited to one of my close friend's party. The problem is that she's having a sleepover. When I told my mom, she said absolutely not. Actually, she said I could go, but they she would pick me up around 12. Do you believe that she's being too overprotective? And is it lame to not stay over at a sleepover?

2007-03-12 06:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by Columbiagirl08 2 in Friends

I called my fiancee' and told her I invited a friend home for dinner. And she said, are you crazy, the house is a mess, I have'nt been shopping, all the dishes are dirty and I don't feel like cooking. I told her I know all that and she asked me why I invited him over for dinner? I replied " because the poor fool is thinking about getting married."

2007-03-12 06:35:35 · 21 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 2 in Singles & Dating

A year ago I moved to my boyfriends' house...his mother used to live with him, but she moved to a cousin's house temporarily .....we began living together...He pays the mortgage, electricity ...( he owens the house)
I pay for both cells, gas, food, drycleaner...I have bought all the stuff the house like lamps, rugs...I have a small car & he has an suv, we chanded cars for him to save gas because he works very far.He repaired the whole house, bought new furniture and appliances ...he is paying for it...but everytime we argue he tells me to pick up all my stuff and leave ...
I feel like he used me...On my bithday( valentines day ) he didn't gave anything I got very mad...
He owens me around 2 k because he installed a new ac.
He are not having sex...he tells that i am too fat ...I have gained 20 pounds since we started....
Should I leave him???????

2007-03-12 06:34:24 · 19 answers · asked by Cuqui 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do I have to get my Social Secutiry card first, or do I need my drivers Licences First (I was thinking that I would need my new S.S. card to get a new license) and what should I bring with me to the DmV when i go about chaning my license?

2007-03-12 06:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by lilcaligirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 06:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by dinesh 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother passes away almost a yr ago. Dad starting seeing this lady 6 mths afterwards he says he needs a companion. She is running us kids off, she is disrepectful and is taking advantage of him finanial and physically. We are a very close family and dad isn't seeing what we are. She wants him to herself totally. I am the oldest so I get all the phone calls that I need to talk to dad. Help! Not sure how I am going to approach this matter.

2007-03-12 06:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Family

is there any delicate hun for me?

2007-03-12 06:32:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im having trouble concentrating on my job and have no appetite,any helpfull advice from those whove been there.?

2007-03-12 06:32:16 · 25 answers · asked by Alfred E. Newman 6 in Singles & Dating

I need good websites to find:
personalized makeup bags
centerpieces for the tables
invitations
place cards

basically everything. Im trying to find a site that has everything for pretty cheap. If not thats fine- need as much help as possible!

2007-03-12 06:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by fireworksncastles 3 in Weddings

yesterday, i spoke to my bf on the phone and he said he'd call me back , but didn't.. so i ended up calling him... but he didn't pickup...i had tried calling for 5 hrs... i got very upset and ended up crying soo much cuz i imagined him out with another girl and blah blah.. i also got worried that he may have gotten into a fight.... i couldn't sleep my head hurt cuz of all that crying... later that night my bf called me and said he had fallen asleep.. which is understandable cuz we had both gone home late the night before.. we came home at 5am and were both tired....after i heard from him i went to sleep peacefully... what is wrong with me? i need help, plz??

2007-03-12 06:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I've dated was athletes. I dated a boxer, a Basktelball player, a football player and a trackstar. They've all been very domineering and forceful when it comes to sex. Is this a guy thing or an athlete thing?

2007-03-12 06:30:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially women, they get mad and jealous at the OTHER women for flirting, not realizing it takes two, but on the other hand, EVERYBODY flirts

2007-03-12 06:30:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One pet pev..I hate when people compare THEIR relationship to all other. I think NO ONE is in a perfect relationship. What works for you might not fit someone elses personality.
A good example is Ricky Lake...she would alway say "MY husband would never do that or MY husband this or that" Now the B*tch is divorce. Let me know what you think?

2007-03-12 06:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by Princess AJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls do you like to TF?
Do girls with big one's like it better? size please!!!
Can he end there or some where special? Please tell where?

2007-03-12 06:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thanks for your help

2007-03-12 06:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by bee_wes 1 in Friends

I would like to get him a nice watch. Does anyone know of a good designer to look for one? White and yellow gold and under $1000.00?

2007-03-12 06:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

We dated a while back, but it broke up because I had to move away. Now I live about 45 minutes away from her, and we got together a couple months ago just to catch up, but we ended up making out and doing everything except going all the way. now i only can see her every two weeks, but we both really want to be more serious again. Is it a good idea to try it again, especially after what happened when we met to catch up?

2007-03-12 06:27:59 · 5 answers · asked by Benji 2 in Singles & Dating

May 28th ???

2007-03-12 06:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

alright so here's the story!

I'm a senior in high school and my best friend and I both have the last period lunch of the day. None of my friend's have that lunch and those that do leave for an internship so i can't really eat lunch with them. I give my friend rides home EVERYDAY because she doesn't have a car. Every single day she has been telling me that she has to go to guidance. Litereally every day to find out about colleges. Today she told me that she had to go to guidance during our lunch (again for the 5th day in a row) i saw her at her locker i said are you coming to lunch she was like "no i have to go to the libary" I said didn't you say you had guidance? she told me she went during homeroom but she sits RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME in homeroom and she was there! So now i'm refusing to give her rides home considering i have to sit by myself at lunch now. Is that mean of me? I just keep making up excuses and she gets REALLY MAD AT ME...am i really being that big of a jerk?? Am i?

2007-03-12 06:26:34 · 34 answers · asked by pantherkick07 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are renting a home. He had an American Bulldog when I met him, I guess he got him when his son was born or a little after. Well, when we were looking for a place tgether...we had a REALLY difficult time finding a place that was decent and would accept the dog. We ended up renting this house that was like right on the beach and iculded ALL utilities, It was quite a deal and I couldn't pass it up. His parents said they would take the dog, no problem. Well now they are going through bankrupcy and they can't afford the dog anymore. I said (although I hate the dog) that he can come to the house IF our land lord oked it. She didn't, simply because of our hard wood floors. Ok, I thought that was that but no he said we will keep him in the kitchen so he bought a baby gate and now has decided that we will let him roam in the kitchen, hallway (has wood floors said he'd put our bathroom carpet down) and the bathroom. Every time I say something he jumps back (continued)

2007-03-12 06:26:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend of 8 years has been lodging with me and my boyfriend for the past 2 months, we decided to throw her a party for her 20th.
All went fine until she decided to invite her x and his new gf along with a few other not so appropriate guests.
As we were trying to get the last people to leave it all kicked off between her and the x!
She trashed my living room whilst throwing stuff at him.

I made her clean the entire house, and I've asked her to leave a.s.a.p.
Im really gutted our friendship has ended in this way and can't help but wonder if I have over-reacted???

As of yet how ever I haven't had a sober apology!

What would you have done?

2007-03-12 06:25:55 · 21 answers · asked by carly s 4 in Friends

2007-03-12 06:25:48 · 2 answers · asked by Analyst 3 in Friends

I know some of you can list a bunch. Hell do it.!!!!
My thing is my husband is slow on getting things done. I wish he was a go getter. Im trying to brake him out of it.

2007-03-12 06:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by Princess AJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

20 y/o college student in a relationship of 1 yr, living with a great guy whom I love. My problem: I find myself being overly clingy and moody with him. Little things, like him playing video games, grow into huge problems. I usually catch myself and apologize, but I get depressed because I see what I've done. He doesn't deserve this, but I can't help getting angry or sad over tiny things that take him away from me for even small time periods. Despite this, he's asked me to marry him when we graduate. This has brought up things that I'm not ready for, like the topic of children. He doesn't want any and I don't know what I want. Plus, it scares me. I feel like I have more growing to do. I love him deeply but I'm not sure if he's "the one." I don't want to be obsessive or dependent, but I don't have any good friends. He's all I have. I don't recognize myself anymore. I love him and don't want to lose him, but I miss the strong, independent girl I used to be, the one he fell in love with.

2007-03-12 06:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating