Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

Our computer was acting up and so I wnt through it to clean it and I found that he had been going on these types of sites at night while I am asleep or when I'm not home. I had caught him before and I told him that this bothered me and he told me he wouldnt do it again but he keeps doing it. I know I might sound like a prude to some but I'm not. I would rather him have sex with me then go to the computer. We have tried alot in bed so he cant say that its because i dont do anything. I want him to be satified and I'm all up for doing different things in bed. He have even taken pictures. I dont want him doing this and then coming to bed and thinking of some other women while we are having sex. I am sooo hurt. Is he not attracted to me? Is he looking for something else? Am I not satisfying him?
Oh and please dont say watch it with him. That really doesnt turn me on to watch other people do it, I would rather be the people doing it.

2007-03-12 07:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why the long face ??????????????/ smile be happy if only for today say hello if you are happy lol ,

2007-03-12 07:01:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Suppose my friend's mother passed away. When I meet my friend what do I tell him/her to lessen grief? What other help can I do?

2007-03-12 07:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i wana make her birthday special by her 14 yr daughter.

2007-03-12 07:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How long do u have to be livin together and all that stuff before u are offically married?

2007-03-12 07:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by Sabrina N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl who works at an adult club asks you out, do you think I should go with her?

Do they make good girlfriends?

I would love to hear your honest advice. Thanks!

2007-03-12 06:59:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My am a 17 year old boy and hate my real name because it sounds so girly. Is krissie a girls name or can guys be called it to. i tell people my names chris, but on my birth certificate it says krissie. What do you think?

2007-03-12 06:59:29 · 22 answers · asked by sk8erdude89 1 in Friends

2007-03-12 06:58:35 · 13 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

We all dream of certain things in life,but does anyone out there ever realy lay there when your bored and just fantasize about things that you want to happen but cant happen for what ever reason??

2007-03-12 06:58:29 · 13 answers · asked by DREAMER 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive a very low income and im trying to trace my 2 youngest brothers ive not really seen them since i was 12 im 40 yrs old now married with kids im desperate to find them

2007-03-12 06:58:00 · 4 answers · asked by MALCOLM C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 06:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is driving me crazy! I am 6 months PG/ with 2 children. She comes over and trys to help. Well, her help leads into a war! I am stressed out and cried out! Today was it for me. I sent her home. I feel she doesnt listen and has no communication skills. She is very frustrating to talk to. She has been single for about 30 yrs and only has herself to deal with. Thats why she doesnt understand communication. She does what she wants and doesnt listen when I try to explain simple tasks like the baby food in the microwave, or dont leave the baby in the high chair by himself (she'll walk away), she cant take criticism and will fight for hours. I tell her dont talk with her mouth full and she still does. To me its not lady like. There is just too much! Has anyone else had this experience. My mother was born in another country and I pretty much handle all her bills, I write her checks out, ablance her checkbook, make DR. appts....etc. BUT no more.
She has STREESED me out.

2007-03-12 06:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Mammamia3 4 in Family

okay there's this guy who im really attracted to who comes to my freind's house every weekend and i was wondering should i stay there while he's there and sneak into his bed in the middle of the night but im kinda afraid he'll reject me should i let him know before everybody goes to bed that i wanna have fun with him or just surprise him??

2007-03-12 06:56:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is 18 almost 19. hes going to school but cant afford to get a place so he either stays with His dad or with me. we used to be so close but latley he prefers to stay with his father all of the time. he gets his own room there, and I have two outher toddler children plus my 12 year old and I think they bother him but, they are his siblings. at his dads my 12 year old has a different room and he pretty much gets the whole downstairs to himself. I cant afford A big house like my ex husband. I miss my son comming around,. I feel like somehow family isnt as important to him. I feel like we are growing appart. Im not trying to controll him but Ild like to see him more than once a week.
how do I deal with empty nest syndrome???

2007-03-12 06:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you know for sure if you're "in love" with someone vs. just loving them? There's a huge difference and in relationships, I think the most important thing is to be in love with the person. You can love someone, but love isn't always enough. So how do you know when you're in love?

2007-03-12 06:56:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 06:56:01 · 8 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about the warm and heavy emotions at the very start of a relationship. I am talking about how do you feel about your significant other in the long run.

How do you know if they make you happy? How do you know if minor annoyances are just part of being human or if they're because you've fall out of love? Is it possible to love someone and not be in love with them.

Please explain.

2007-03-12 06:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the most unattractive thing you have ever seen in a girl? what turns you right off?

2007-03-12 06:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by kikidee 2 in Singles & Dating

This is her choice and not mine. I am very upset with her right now because she isn’t facing the issues, she is just running from them because her family does everything to avoid conflict. She has some depression issues but refuses to get help for that.

2007-03-12 06:54:59 · 34 answers · asked by blingblinger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know you still read this Sammy aka Nicki aka Lily.

2007-03-12 06:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Ruth Ann 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy and he use to go to my school and he is so hot and we dont know each other really well but we want to get close to each other but we would only get to see each other on the weekends and we could talk on the phone so i need someones help

2007-03-12 06:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by woody is my home boy yeah for me 1 in Singles & Dating

Our guest list is a tad uneven, with me having more guests than my fiance. Also we have guests that we don't know where to seat... for example, one guest is my fiance's really good friend from high school, but he's also my cousin. And another couple, the girl is one of my bridesmaids and friend from high school and the guy (her bf) is my fiance's friend from high school. Is it okay to have the guests on either side of the church or will people think that is unorganized and sloppy? It would also kind of help to have them mingled since one of our ushers is my brother who is mentally handicapped and this might be less confusing for him. Just let me know your opinions! Thanks!

2007-03-12 06:54:41 · 15 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Weddings

hey, im in highschool and the only relationships i had were online, dont get the wrong idea, im not ugly or mean. i just tend to push away any guy that lives near me away. there are plenty of time when i could have a local relationship, but i was always to scared and bail out. i had two serious relationships with guys in different states. one that lasted a year. and one right now thats been for 4 months. i met both of them in person. right now im with my bf for 4 months, we known eachother for over a year and a half, and we always would flirt, he wanted me and i wanted him. now we are in love and happy. planning to get married. but have to wait till im out of highschool, his in college. both guys i met over "myspace" can this relationship really last? do relationships that starts over the web work? i have seen him, and we do love each other. but its weird when people ask where we met. tell me what you think please. and if you have time, check out my other questions. please & thank you

2007-03-12 06:54:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriend when we sit on camera because we have a long distance relationship she never looks at me and she is always watching tv last night she was watching it for ages and it was an hour before we were going offline and i asked her if we could spend the last hour speakign properly. She said to me no i want to watch my program, i said to but im on here to speak to you and you are on for me its really ignorant if you speak to other people or watch tv when you are on for someone else and she said it isnt it is me wanting her to myself and nothing else i was lost when she said that because i think it is ignorant i sit in a tiny room with no tv and just a pc for her for sometime more than 6+ hours


Is it ignorant or am i in the wrong

2007-03-12 06:54:10 · 25 answers · asked by skizmo 1 in Singles & Dating

We've lived together for 7,5 years and it worked well. He always spoke about family and having children. About 8 months ago things went wrong and I couldn't understand why. When I tried to talk to him he said it was OK, that he didn't want to split, etc. Now I've learnt he's been having an affair with another guy for at least a year and he did have other contacts before we met. Anyone in the same situation here?

2007-03-12 06:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends always say that all the guys like me all because we talk a lot and we play around. (not the dirty way) and i do not think so. Bc guys have always acted like that around me.

2007-03-12 06:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend of over 20 years who has stood by me and supported me, but I have also suffered a lot of ridicule and disrespect. Lately there was an incident that really made me want to put an end to the friendship. But, my logical side tells me I maybe should not remove a source of support, while my heart tells me I should empower my self-esteem by confronting the person and making them aware that I won't take the abuse any more. I am very torn on this issue.

2007-03-12 06:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Friends

I have tried dating sites, and found them to be annoying, like groping in a desert blind. Night clubs are good, but I keep getting involved with alcoholic women, who assume that our continuing escapades should go on in booze establishments. I have resolved that the women I want hang out in coffee shops, and bookstores on the Pearl street mall. How do I go about making myself available in such an environment?

2007-03-12 06:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by Menga M 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know what a girl looks for in a guy, any help?

2007-03-12 06:52:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a female says to you your just like a typical man, is this a good thing or a bad thing ladies??

Surely its good because its manly and it shows your all man with strong male tendencies or am i mistaken??

2007-03-12 06:51:33 · 40 answers · asked by blitzed200 2 in Singles & Dating