ok my girlfriend when we sit on camera because we have a long distance relationship she never looks at me and she is always watching tv last night she was watching it for ages and it was an hour before we were going offline and i asked her if we could spend the last hour speakign properly. She said to me no i want to watch my program, i said to but im on here to speak to you and you are on for me its really ignorant if you speak to other people or watch tv when you are on for someone else and she said it isnt it is me wanting her to myself and nothing else i was lost when she said that because i think it is ignorant i sit in a tiny room with no tv and just a pc for her for sometime more than 6+ hours
Is it ignorant or am i in the wrong
2007-03-12 06:54:10 · 25 answers · asked by skizmo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignorant - Unaware or uninformed, Lacking education or knowledge. No.
Disrespectful, rude or discourteous - definately.
2007-03-12 06:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't think you are being ignorant. I think your girlfriend on the other hand has her photo in the dictionary next to the word. Her behavior is very dismissive and i don't blame you for being concerned. You really have to assess if this relationship is working. When someone doesn't want to talk its usually the begining of the end. If it's not, she isn't making things easy. Next time you're doing whatever it is you guys do to stay in contact, come straight to the point and ask her if there is something on her mind. She'll probably say no but you obviously know there is something up. Cool things off for a while, maybe shes finding this whole online thing a bit of a chore. Just ask, don't be afraid of the answer, its coming sooner or later.
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2016-12-18 11:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by penso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it occurred to you that she may just like being watched or is simply bored of you.
Ask yourself what you want out of the relationship. Even while together, people don't always want to constantly talk.
More to the point, how sad is it for someone to sit alone in a room for six hours looking at a screen. No offence meant but get a life!
2007-03-12 08:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give your girlfriend a bit of a break - full on intense conversation with anyone is bad enough face to face but over a computer screen I would say it is almost impossible. Even if people are on the phone they are often watching TV. I think you need to lighten up a bit and get out more or she will get fed up with you. If you are sitting on your computer that long each day, what on earth are you finding to talk about?
2007-03-12 06:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a bit rude. Maybe you should limit the time you are on line together. Lets face it, if you were living together you wouldn't sit talking all night long. you would chat for a while and then just chill and watch tv or listen to music. Why not pick a time when your both free and then you can get her undivided attention.
2007-03-12 06:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by sharon r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need another hobby dear. Watching her watch tv is not good. Don't call her for a week and see if her bad attitude changes at all. I'd find a local girl that want to play with you, not take your for granted, and dump Miss Long Distance.
2007-03-12 06:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its rude but then at the same time she just wants her own space i think.
you have a few choices... be distant with her and dont act as commited to the relationship (she realises shes losing you).
you can dump her and end it, if she truly wants to stay with you still she will beg you to stick around in the relationship.
think u need to spend more time for yourself and less with her on the pc. absence makes the heart grow fonder....
its rude but then at the same time she just wants her own space i think.
you have a few choices... 1) be distant with her and dont act as commited to the relationship (she realises shes losing you).
2) argue back at her and show her you wont put up with it (she'll feel like she has done something wrong but maybe its not the best choice of the 3).
3) you can dump her and end it, if she truly wants to stay with you still she will beg you to stick around in the relationship. if she doesnt attempt to keep you she might have lost interest.
but i think salut (above) is right too.. you might be spendin too much time on msn, 6 hours isnt good for you. using msn too much results in more chance of arguing and obsession over talking to someone. she might be gettin bored because you are trying to hard to sustain the relationship, remember for it to be love it must come both ways.
you shouldnt be on msn too much, use msn at a better time so she can watch her programme, get a hobby and be abit more independant, act like you dont need in your life and that you dont need her to be happy.
in my eyes.. its obvious she isnt ready for a serious relationship..
wish you all the luck with it, if it does end i hope you meet nicer girl who treats you better because you defo deserve some1 alot better m8
2007-03-12 08:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were speaking to each other at an inconvenient time. If there's something she wants to watch on TV, you could just arrange a later time to speak, then you would both be happy.
2007-03-12 06:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its plain rude to do something else. You need to think about this mate, im not sure she is as committed as you. Try and talk to her and get her to explain her point of view and why she thinks its ok. Seems to me she doesnt want to talk or spend time with you, if she feels her tv programme is more important. Good luck, i think ul need it.
2007-03-12 06:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you, if my boyfriend did that i wouldnt be very happy. she should apprieciate the time she has whist speaking with you. maybe she isnt interested? cus why would she be more interested in the tv? i duno.. you seem to be the one giving and not getting anything back from it. keep your chin up and dont worry it will all come good in the end.. Love Georgia x
2007-03-12 07:08:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋