Since my divorce 2 years ago, I handle all responsibiltiies for my house mortgage, car, etc. for me and my kids. I don't think it is my boyfriend's responsibility to take care of my kids, but when he spends 3-4 days a week at my house in comparison to his own, how do you handle monthly house expenses? He chooses to live a very frugal life, which is great as that is his choice. He wasn't making much money up until he got a new job 4 months ago, so now he makes what I make. I am 34 and have 5 kids, he is 37 and has one.
However, it isn't comfortable for us to visit him at his house with the kids because there is not much furniture, cable, internet, etc. or much for them to do at all. So, I can see why he wants to stay at my house so much, but I think it is very unfair if after all of our discussions, anytime I am low on money, he offers me a "loan". If someone is living with you halftime, how many times should you point out the obvious? I have started to have different feelings...
2007-03-12
07:21:57
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Nutzzzzz
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Marriage & Divorce