Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

Theres this guy that like me and I'm starting to like him too but the problem is he's younger than me and I feel that it wouldn't work between use so how do I let him down without hurting his feelings

2007-03-12 07:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by mz.atl 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me, but I said something stupid a few weeks ago. She has been married before and she was pushed into that marriage by her family. She had a really hard time getting past that being as she was married for 4 years and he constantly beat her. Well, a few weeks ago, we were talking about weddings. Well, we had a little disagreement about how many groomsmen and bridesmaids we would have (her wanting a smaller wedding, me wanting a larger one), and I made the comment like, "Well, you know how you felt pressured into your first marriage...well I feel pressured now!" Stupid, because I don't feel like that at all, and I don't know why I said it. I just was mad, and sometimes I say things I don't mean when I'm mad. I have told her all of this and she says she forgives me. But, I saw it in her eyes how much it hurt her, and she hasn't mentioned a wedding since. I want to marry her, but now I'm afraid she won't say yes. Should I still ask her?

2007-03-12 07:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by traemarlow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am short blue eyes brown hair with blonde streaks and beige skin.

2007-03-12 07:35:12 · 18 answers · asked by ashleyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

I got really sick last week first the FLU. I was so sick I could barely get out of bed. I stated getting sick on Monday... and took myself to the ER. By Wednesday I could barely speak, let alone get out of the bed and take myself. So, my bf (2yrs) took me to the ER for my second visit and stayed with me through the night. He had no idea that I was even sick until that night. I haven't seen him since then. Friday he told me that he had to go home to see family, I was very understanding as usual. But I asked him just to call me before he left so I would know that he was on the road and that he was safe, but I didn't get a call until the following afternoon saying that he made it. (a 5hr drive). By Friday, I had made my third visit to the doctor ( found out I had Bronchtis too). I let the voicemail pick up on Saturday when he called, because I didn't have the energy to, and plus I was a little upset. I haven't spoke to him since Friday and he's texted a few times since then, and I respond . Says he misses me I say the same... asking if I'm ok, I say sure. But I just don't feel up to actually speaking to him right now, afraid it may cause an arguement.

2007-03-12 07:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Y.a.S.L 3 in Singles & Dating

Or both?

2007-03-12 07:35:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for 4 years. They were not the best but my ex asked me if we can keep in contact. Do you think is a good idea to still keep in contact???

2007-03-12 07:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by only me 3 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we got into a little quarel this wkend. We had plans to watch movies at his dads, he hadnt called me all day so i text him, so i take it no movies? He responded yes & said lets meet up in an hour. I said ok but was still in my pjs so I had to get ready. An hour later I was still at the house just about getting ready to leave. He asked if I was still at home & I said yes so he got upset & said i'm going home. I asked why & told him its not like it was going to take me that long to get there its not that far from my house. He gave me some bull story saying it was going to get late & he felt retarded waiting. I called, got no answer so I text whatever & asked why he was in such a shitty mood. An hour later he sends me a msg asking if i was mad and i told him i didnt like that he was rude and how he overracted waiting at his dads.Then he said he got upset that I was still at home cause it was like it wasnt a big deal.

2007-03-12 07:34:11 · 1 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:34:09 · 13 answers · asked by SmoothePlaya 1 in Weddings

My BF broke up w/ me and gave me no reason. just a few days prior had told me he felt he was falling in love with me, blah blah.... Then just a few days past and he stopped talking to me entirely. we hadn't fought or anything. everything was great. i tried calling and txting w/ no response. i went into that crazy, physco, ex girlfriend mode 4 some reason and called and txt him a million times. He has very randomly sent me a txt w/ "i miss u" or "i'd like to see u" crap then don't respond when I write him back. WTF?? why tell me that then ignore me. i do think he cared about me even though his actions now isn't showing it. the other day he txt me "I'm done". I get it, I was crazy for bugging him, etc. I should get the hint, move one... but honestly FROM A MANS point of view, if u really liked this girl, I mean really liked her, could u 4give her for her moment of crazyness? What would it take 4 U 2 4give her? Any suggesions on what I should or shouldn't do? it's been 2 weeks w/ no talk

2007-03-12 07:33:53 · 2 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

so my friend has this ex boyfriend who wants to kill her because she broke up with him because he gave her HPV which means that he cheated on her with a dirty girl, but he denies it.

When she confronted him about it (btw she did not have it before she started going out with him) he blew up and said that he was going to come to her house and slit her throat, pound her face in, burn all of her ****, and hopes that she will wrap her car around a pole and die.

She has saved these messages that he has left her, but she will not call the cops, i have been telling her, her work has been telling her (her parents have no clue about any of this) but she needs to call the cops

oh and now he is also saying that he loves her and wants to marry her, but then he'll have a random mood change and threaten her again... he has a key to her house...i don't know about you guys but i am scared for her and i don't know how i can help her without putting my life in danger too

she needs that key

2007-03-12 07:33:49 · 3 answers · asked by strgazer9113 3 in Singles & Dating

married 6 years. We have a 5 year old and a 4 month old. After leaving the air force because of a back injury my husband shut his self off from everyone. I know he is very depresed. But Im not sure where that leaves me?

The past few years we are roommates that dont talk. Last year I was going off because something has to give, I cant kep doing this. He told me He loves me but he isnt in love with me. Lol i was very calm about this. Then later I told him I was going to get a boyfriend and he said he didnt care, because he doesnt care about anything.

So I was kinda mad about that and wanted to see if he was just sayin it so i messed around with one of his friends with him in the car. He really didnt care that i was doing it.

All I know is He doesnt want to move out he wants to stay together. But then again he doesnt care what i do???

One of his close friends told me he doesnt care what i want to do because he wants me to be happy and he knows im not happy the way we are?

2007-03-12 07:33:02 · 12 answers · asked by Tammy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I supposed to support my son and her new fiance' when she abducted my son to a foreign country, is forced to return him by her own courts, tries to get custody surprisingly in two failed attempts...lies to him, to me, to courts, to police, to family, friends, lawyers, two counselors...I bet she has lied to her fiance'...denies me visitation several times...even nightly phone calls...prearranged vacation time that she renigs on one week before ...and I am supposed to support all of this when my son doesn't like the guy - for HIS reasons, doesn't want the situation...AFTER all of this... I am supposed to support my son...and her...and this new relationship that is upsetting my son?

2007-03-12 07:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends mother in law is just 7 years elder to him, but she is very sexy , looks very young. To her bad luck, she was married to his late father in law, but couldn't had sex even for a single time. Don't you think my friend is helping his mother in law.

2007-03-12 07:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by larry G 2 in Family

I'am interested in a guy Ive known for a few months.He is in the military and a recruitor. I have seen him a few times --But we mainly use to chat on the phone more due to our schedules.I am very insecure about myself because I am heavy set and a single mom.I feel that I have alot to offer but often get shot down because of my weight( I Have had men tell me that they like my personality but due to my weight they have an issue of dating me and I dont want to lose my weight just to get a man).Anyways,I listened to my best friends advice and told my "crush" that I was interested in him.Then he totally stopped calling me altogether.I have talked to the other 2 recruitors he works with and they tell me that it ISNT that he doesnt want to talk to me but he is just busy.But how long does it take to call someone.I want closer.I want to know what I did to scare him off.Should I write him?Should I leave him alone?should I give him some time?is he afraid to show me his true feelings?HELP HELPHELP

2007-03-12 07:32:31 · 12 answers · asked by Tbrat 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:32:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not too syked about my cousins moving in with us. i'm 17 and there are a lot of kids in my family already ( 16 to be exact, ages 10 mo. and 6-19). i know they're family and about to be orphans (my aunts a single mom who's dying of cancer). but i know that when mom and dad are working, i'm gonna be the babysitter to two more kids. little kids too. Jonah is 3 and Zoe is 2. it's gonna happen no matter what i think or say, so how can i get myself more excited about their arrival?

2007-03-12 07:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by I'm 17 and ME!!!!!! 1 in Family

I really like this guy and i dont want to straight up ask him. I just want to find out without me asking or looking so obvious. How?

2007-03-12 07:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by pursuit of happiness 1 in Singles & Dating

Two guys that is

2007-03-12 07:30:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you found that your husband has a profile on date.com and an adultfriend finder web site...and that he is looking to have a discreet relationship and that he is seperated. one accoutn was logged into on Wednes...and the other within the last month?..what would you do?.. 1) get a profile of your own and have some fun yourself... 2)Never speak of it 3) confront him about it, but you only know he will lie to your face...

2007-03-12 07:30:24 · 22 answers · asked by tekna1760 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love both sets of parents (mine and the to-be-in-laws), but they're both scaring me senseless about how crap the first few years are. It worries me. I don't come from a rich family but I have always been happy on not on lot of money. I have nearly finished a degree and should be earning £20,000 the year we get married. My parents say that we're going to be poor and that we'll barely to be able to afford to live. If we're both on £20,000 (graduate wage) surely we can be comfortable? We're hopefully going to rent until we earn enough to buy a house, but I just want to get through married life not thinking about money all the time. It puts such a downer on things. Will we be able to go out on dates? Or holidays (even if it's camping)? And kids! How expensive are they (Even though they're made free of charge)?!

Somebody please cheer me up!

2007-03-12 07:30:02 · 24 answers · asked by potterfaerie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate the show...

2007-03-12 07:29:56 · 13 answers · asked by fish_smell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:29:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok bloods my boyfriend is 17. Today I ask him wat will he be doin for spring break he said he will be going to Agg Town I ask him who stay out there he neva did respond back wat the **** should I do? Any ideas of why hr won't tell me who he will be visiting.

2007-03-12 07:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by Thina Gutta 1 in Singles & Dating

I am only 19 years old and just lost my dad, my aunt his sister is fighting me for his ashes. My parents divorced when I was 3 years old . Mom is alive. Does my aunt have a right to take me to court on this. She also is fighting me on his possessions. Dad did not pay child support after divorce. He was always sorry . Dad had a lot of Indian Art Collectibles and thousands of dollars in tools . We do not know what else yet. Does my aunt have the right to fight on either issue.???

2007-03-12 07:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by ssmithblueskies 2 in Family

my ex-bf liked me for the longest time and lead me on that he wuz gonna ask me back out...then he asked out one of my friends...and now they're totally great together and i think he tells her every thing he told me :'( but the thing is i still care about him...and idk wut 2 do....please help!

2007-03-12 07:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by {â?¥}makayla{â?¥} 1 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone give me some ideas for romantic Ideas and love quotes.

Thanking you

(Oh by the way clean ones pls:) )

2007-03-12 07:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by davie 2 in Weddings

we are joking.... she said
"SOZ ARD ..
YOUR GENITAL WARTS CAUSING YOU AS MUCH DISCOMFORT TODAY AS THEY WERE YESTERDAY? LOL"
im all out of come backs helppp please?

2007-03-12 07:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

This weekend I went to visit my best friend from college. I hadn't seen her in almost 3 years because she lives in Mayland and I am in Michigan. She has a 4 year old little boy and told me that she was struggling with him because of his behavior but I didn't know that things were as bad as they are.
Her house is a complete mess. Its real dirty and very unkept. Things are everywhere, the carpet is completly disgusting and needed to be thrown away years ago. She has a cat that has the whole house smelling like cat and urine. She has roaches and things in the house are literally falling apart.
I just couldn't get over how dirty the house was. Kitchen just junky. Kitchen floor nasty and dirty. Living room carpet completly disgusting. Roaches running around. Its so sad to see her like this because she is letting herself go as well. Toes nails very long and uncut. Wrinkled up rough dry clothes on her and her son. Very sad. What can I do to help her. She desperately needs

2007-03-12 07:27:58 · 6 answers · asked by joyce 5 in Friends

please answer this and if there is more than 1 list them all

2007-03-12 07:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by larry G 2 in Singles & Dating