We were together for 4 years. They were not the best but my ex asked me if we can keep in contact. Do you think is a good idea to still keep in contact???
2007-03-12 07:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by only me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just depends.. I was with my ex 5 years. He wants to be like the bestest of friends with me for some reason.. But IM with someone else now and now my ex is all I want u back, I miss you...BLAH BLAH.. But Im not very friendly with him now! So I guess it will depend if you are over her completely then yes you can be friends-- But if you still have feelings you will get hurt if she finds someone else.. and if you find someone else and she get all lovey on you are you going to feel bad and go back to her? Just keep your eyes open and do what feels right for you! I pretty much dropped my ex and dont talk to him - He's a part of my past and I try to keep it that way! Good Luck!
2007-03-12 07:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing...my ex really wanted to stay friends BUT he was in fact the bad guy so I told him no. But of course we've run into each other a couple of times...
Basically just try to keep things civil, its the best thing. If you run into them just say hi and ask how they're doing and then go on your way. But staying in constant contact w/them will keep you two from moving on.
Hope this helps :)
2007-03-12 07:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by MiamiD13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends me & my ex- husband 19 yrs get along great. the guy i was seeing 4 a yr are still good friends, but the guy i lived with 4yrs wont talk to me. so it depends on how u still feel about each other. if ur pissed and hurt its not a good idea, at least untill your over it, the 4 yr wasnt and is not over it yet.
2007-03-12 07:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself think of human beings harm up for a reason. you're actually not meant to stay acquaintances with that individual..you will possibly be able to desire to head on. as quickly as you crossed that "buddy" barrier and grew to alter into extra beneficial than acquaintances you lost the skill to have that platonic friendship. to any extent further that's no longer platonic, there'll constantly be thoughts from the two you or your ex. i might purely attempt to heal and learn from this occasion. Spend it slow aside. You broke up for a reason! of course you desire to nevertheless be with him because of the fact he's gentle, i'm specific he feels an identical way. yet you rather might desire to stay good and pass on from this.. or that's going to easily be an countless cycle of makeup and then breakup if somebody would not stick to their weapons. Cherish the recommendations you have of your ex/buddy and in line with danger shop those 2 positions on your existence seperate next time. there is an rather good e book in this venture referred to as " that's referred to as a harm up because of the fact that's broken" or something to that consequence by making use of greg bernhardt. it provide you the stunning thank you to head on mutually with your existence.
2016-10-18 05:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I'm friends with two of my exes. If she wants to be friends then go for it. I'm assuming you're over her?
2007-03-12 07:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋