Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

ok so there this guy I been crushin on him for about a month but im not in love with I just like him a lil bit but he dosnt like to call me house cuz last time my dad answer and he got scared cuz my dad sounds scary on the phone so ever since that I been callin him well he tells me to call him (your probley sayin go get a cell phone but I do have one but I got it takin away) and he is nice and cute funny and my friend said that he sees me as a friend but im hot and he wants a girl that knows what they want and I know what I want I don’t know if I should belive this girl that I really don’t know that told me though I need some help What are hints that he wants to get to no me more and how do I know if he playin had to get with me or if he sees me as a freiend

2007-03-12 08:05:07 · 5 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, but he is flirty with other girls, he says he's just naturally flirty with people, I don't know if I'm just jealous or if he's doing something wrong. Should I just ignore it?

2007-03-12 08:04:39 · 21 answers · asked by serpentstyle 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really curse only when I'm really upset about something but I'm talking to this guy and he does and I want to know if that's kind of a turn on to him, the fact that i don't really curse or if it sets me apart from other women he's use to dating.

2007-03-12 08:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Want to know from experience what to do or not to do. What is a dealbreaker and what women learn to accept.

2007-03-12 08:04:02 · 17 answers · asked by zoey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I have been dating this AWESOME guy for a little over a month or so and last night we had sex for the first time. It was actually the first time I even saw / felt his manhood.

Well to my suprise he is, to put it gently, SMALL!!!!

I know, I know it shouldn't really matter but in a way it does. It was to the point where I could hardly feel him inside of me at all!

I don't know what to do.... Should I say screw it and move on, or should I say it doesn't matter and stay?

We have sooo much in common. I love being around him. He treats me very well... Better than I have been treated by anyone in a long time. He is like the perfect guy for me, instead of that one little problem. (please excuse the pun lol)

AHHHH!!! PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-03-12 08:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that is a big ***** how can i yell at her without geting sepended or detation

2007-03-12 08:03:21 · 1 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2 in Singles & Dating

we are trying to plan our oldest son's bday (he'll be 5). My husband is stuck on having it at a place that will handle everything. But it is a little costy and they only allow us to be there for 2 hours. I, on the other hand, want to have it at the local park. It is A LOT cheaper and the kids will enjoy themselves longer then 2 hours.

how do I convince him to have it at the park?

2007-03-12 08:03:08 · 27 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Family

I can honestly say that I have never felt this way before. Before him I dated someone for 5 years and I delt with that okay. I was with him ( my recent ex) for a few months and I couldn't get out of bed for days. And I of course did the typical girl thing and tried to be friends but he would say that he couldn't talk to me, it's too hard. He started being really hot and cold with me. We broke up because he couldn't balance his responsibilities as a dad (his two boys, I do not have any) and his responsibilities as a boyfriend. I of course didn't make it any easier, but I just wanted time with him. I just don't want to think about him anymore.

2007-03-12 08:02:46 · 5 answers · asked by Sunset 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 08:02:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well my sister and I have been going back and forth because of this...I think my sister in law's baby boy ( my sister's husband's sister's baby) would be my nephew too. but my sister says no only her nephew. is there some rule or something about like the relationship I have to other people? thanks for settling our argument.

2007-03-12 08:02:17 · 18 answers · asked by Esther 2 in Family

there was this guy who got all over me and he was geting his hand in my skirt so I pushed him away and told my friends to stay away from him and so a few more hours later he came up to me and start kissing me so I pushed him harder and he just start hitting on me and I said you better stop or i'm gonna call the cops and he just start getting all over me and I pulled out my cell phone and he grabbed it and broke it and start putting his hands on my butt so I tryed to hurt him but all he did was grab me harder and he kissed me all over and I punched him as hard as I can and told my friends and we drove to my friends house I am 18 an dhe looked like he was over 30 what can I do to protect myself

2007-03-12 08:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me.

2007-03-12 08:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

He just found out that his father cheated on his mother and now he doesn't want to commit to me because of it.

2007-03-12 08:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sixteen and have recently started having sex. My mom always told me to tell her when i did, but how do i tell her?

2007-03-12 08:01:18 · 39 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Family

See the thing is she is very manipultive, and controlling, I need some ideas on how to do something to her or her stuff, with out actually hurting her physically. She does stuff to me all the time, and I am too nice I guess cause I cannot think of anything to get her back.

2007-03-12 08:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Mom and brother say that I am still in shock. I spent $6,000 and six months on the court battle. I really wanted my kids. But now that he has them officially, I am planning vacations, going away for the weekend, signing up for classes. What is up with me? Was anyone here GLAD that your spouse got custody of your kids?

2007-03-12 08:00:22 · 31 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im sure you can guess who this is Linda, by my screen name. Why do old friends lose touch? Life I guess.

2007-03-12 08:00:02 · 1 answers · asked by Godlover 3 in Friends

I have been working with my co-worker for 2 1/2 yrs. We have been flirting back in forth. Last year, it got so close that something was going to happen but it didnt. Excuse was from him,that it would ruin our friendship and it would feel strange later. Recently, he has started to flirt with me again and has actually came onto me. I try to pursue it and then he backs off and tells me that "it is going to happen,,, but not right now. Let it happen when it happens." I dont know what to think anymore???

2007-03-12 07:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by vm 1 in Singles & Dating

He says he loves me, he wants to marry me. Its not like we've never had relationships, but it's always felt like sex to me. He says he feels bad when we do it because we are not married. And lately we fight about that so much, he says he feels like our relationship is based on sex...but we dont even have sex so im a little confused. I try to initiate but than he just rejects me and i end up feeling stupid, rejected, and ugly. I uderstand why he wont but than im confused and recentful because he did have sex with me from the beginning. he wasnt up front with the no sex rule until later in the relationship. i know he loves me and he's a good guy who wouldn't cheat on me. I'm just worried that he doesn't have a sex drive. what the heck is wrong with him? or am i just a horny ***?? sex is important in a relationship right?? i feel like he is pushing me away. He says im too needy .

2007-03-12 07:59:33 · 1 answers · asked by jen.v 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married on June 23 of this year. I just recently took on a part-time job to suppliment my income through college, and I feel like I need to notify my new employer soon as to the days I'll want off for my wedding and honeymoon. However, I don't know how well it is going to go over with my new boss, if I ask for twelve days total off. I wanted that many so that I would have off the day before the wedding through our week-long honeymoon plus travel time (we're travelling from Southwest Louisiana to Gatlinberg Tennessee).

Is asking for twelve days off (without pay of course), too much? What do you suggest?

2007-03-12 07:59:14 · 7 answers · asked by RaginCajun 3 in Weddings

Isn't it a Pity, why isn't it a shame?
How we break eachothers hearts, and cause eachother pain?
How we take eachothers Love, without thinkin' anymore?
Forgetting to give back
Isn't it a Pity
Some things, take so long,
But how do I explain?
That not too many people, can see we're all the same?
How because of all the Tears,
Our Eyes can't hope to see?
The Beauty that's around them.
Isn't it a Pity


We've taken the Emotion of "Love". out of The Heart. It's become a Reward? A Trophy? A conquest? Or a shield against loneliness. Isn't it a pity?
We've had People, too scared to speak up about this. In fear of being misunderstood. And had some speak out? While being misjudged. Isn't it a pity?
Love can be the greatest Emotion that we we'll ever have. If we bring it back to The Heart. But Society won't allow us to be Emotional. For fear of looking weak. Isn't it a Pity?

2007-03-12 07:59:09 · 16 answers · asked by Goggles 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by GLENN M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who sleeps around way too much for her age. She is under 16 and the people she does are older than 16. I 'm not the kind of person to boss around anybody and tell them how they should run their lives, But I'm really concerned as a friend but i don't know what to do.

2007-03-12 07:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you think is better? Being single or having some-one in your life. All my partners never seem to stay with me that long? Am i that bad? But now being single i don't know whether it's a good thing or bad. Any suggestions to make my mind up? thanks

2007-03-12 07:58:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But recently we split up. She decided to break up because of lots of things, such as my friends not being nice to her. I know what she means, they aren't always the best, but i can't just drop them all.. There were other problems aswell but they were fixable.. So we kinda broke up for a bit.. But recently i said something that she really took to heart, but i didnt mean it, i was just angry and i have apologized a thousand times. But she says she can't get over it. I would do anything to have her back, we were both truely in love, but it just started to get broken down.. I also have heard that when she was drunk she was kissing with another person.. But i dont think she means it really and i could live with that. But maybe it is something more and i dont know.. She says she still has feelings for me but i dont know.. Maybe she's trying to cover up.. I just really want her back. I know this has been long but any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

PS. She was ONLY kissing.

2007-03-12 07:58:03 · 4 answers · asked by Epi V 1 in Singles & Dating

im in 7th grade and my crush is in 6th grade. i found out about this when we were in the same school. the only problem is that hes been going out with a bunch of girls. but before the school year started, my cousin showed him pic. of me and said i was hot. but until now he still hasnt gone out with me yet. he always flirts with me, looks at me with a smile and he also compliments me on how my butt looks. does he like me? does he want to get with me? when will he ask me out? will he ask me out? how can i ask him out if he doesnt? were we meant to be? HHHHHEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!

2007-03-12 07:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend made fun of someone else and another person heard her. That person told the girl my friend made fun of. Now the girl is really mad at my friend. My friend isnt even friends with the girl but should she still feel bad???

2007-03-12 07:56:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-12 07:56:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend (which was my ex about 5 years ago) and I talk about our relationships with other people to each other. Being that our friendship is close I told him how my ex the guy I dated after him contacted me and wants us to have an open relationship. I told him this just to get his advice and he said he may just want to use me/ have me on the side. Then my friend said "why cant I keep a man?" Saying how I am breaking up and getting back together with different guys. I felt very upset and insulted because I had relationships with only 3 guys in my life including him(my friend), by the way I am 20. So very upset I said why cant u keep a gf and etc. The relationships I have are long term. I been with my ex that wants an open relationship for 3 1/2 years, and my current bf 1 year now. All I wanted was his opinion about my ex wanting an open relationship not about how many relationships I had.

2007-03-12 07:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating