i work with my x-girlfriend who has just broke up with me. Breaks my heart when i see her. Like my job. Help!?

Answer 1

reason 1001 never date a co-worker

Either learn to deal with it or find somewhere else to work

Answer 2

You better stay in your job, because as you said you like your job.. then why you will let other people to be a hindrance to your happiness do not let other's control your emotions. Do you think if you will go to another job and for not seeing her will help you to forget her! "TO BE HONEST IT WILL NOT", the more you will make your self suffer because at first you only loose your girlfriend and now you will loose the job that you like. Common men, Do you really love your self!!!!

It break your heart because that's what you wanted to feel, Please don't hold on to that belief, always remember we will not always get what we wanted in our life there are really times that we will fail, frustrated and regected but we need to learn to accept that life is not perfect and we need to go on in our lives no matter hard it is because all those failures will make us whole and better person. Take every situation as a lesson.

In order to overcome a situation you need to deal with it, you should not run..... how you will be able to overcome?, just simply learn to accept the fact that she is not the one for you. And God is preparing someone just for you so wait and be patient, atleast your still not yet married with her when the break up happens then it would be very easy for you to make things right and besides theres a lot of girls out there. And ending the realtionship is not the end of the world, So move on with your life even to the extent of working with her, SO WHAT!.... Well being around with your ex-girlfriend will be so hard at first but as you go on you will forget it and everything will go smoothly. And it will help you be a better person because you will be able to overcome your feelings by facing the reality. Instead of focusing to your feeling just try to be nice to her and be a friend, it won't be hard. Prove to her that your a man with dignity.


SHOW TO HER THAT ITS HER LOST....
or maybe she wanted to reconcille that's why she stay around, who know's! always remeber that it was so hard to read the mind of the girls.

Answer 3

You're going to have to learn to deal with it, or look for another job. If you really like the job, you could ask to not work at the same times that she's working. Other than that, I just don't know what to tell you.

Answer 4

It is possible to heal even though you have to see her. It will just be much more painful and awkward and take a lot longer.

If you like the job that much try to stay and deal with it. HOwever you may find your work slipping as you won't be concentrating as much.

Try it and see. If it's that hard and painful you may soon find you are looking for another job.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Try to get her fired. You get to keep your job and it's a little pay back for her breaking your heart.

Answer 6

Keep your head high! This is a perfect opportunity to show that she's the one who made the mistake of breaking up with you! Good luck!

Answer 7

Be classy and professional. From now on, nothing else should go on between you and your ex or anyone else in your work place, unless it's work related.

It's heart breaking, I'm sure. But kill the drama before it starts.

Answer 8

Try to be friends.That might make things better and if not you should probably try to work in a different area of your workplace.And if that does not work just get a new job.

Answer 9

its hard, but you just have to get used to the idea. You cant run away from things all the time so just try and get that out of your head

Answer 10

Well,just keep your head held high and maby it will all come together, someday you will get over it unless you still have feelings for her if so, just try to be her friend and maby it will get better for you i hope so.