OK I have been dating this AWESOME guy for a little over a month or so and last night we had sex for the first time. It was actually the first time I even saw / felt his manhood.
Well to my suprise he is, to put it gently, SMALL!!!!
I know, I know it shouldn't really matter but in a way it does. It was to the point where I could hardly feel him inside of me at all!
I don't know what to do.... Should I say screw it and move on, or should I say it doesn't matter and stay?
We have sooo much in common. I love being around him. He treats me very well... Better than I have been treated by anyone in a long time. He is like the perfect guy for me, instead of that one little problem. (please excuse the pun lol)
AHHHH!!! PLZ HELP!!!!
2007-03-12 08:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you really like this guy and he makes you feel good in other ways then stay with him and see where it goes. I bet he would like it if you showed him some moves in bed and tell him what he can do to please you but in return please him as well. It's not always about sex, its about love and how you make each other feel outside of the bedroom and chemistry and other things. I'd say give it some time adn see how it goes and what you both can work on. Good luck to you!!
2007-03-12 08:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shellybelli24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you love him for how he treats you and how much you have in common (a characteristic about him that he can choose), and you're considering breaking up with him because he is not as well-endowed as you would like (a characteristic about him that he can't choose)?
He's being the best he can, and it would probably hurt him to know that his best just isn't enough for you. How would you feel if you were an "awesome" girl but he decided not to stay with you because you were not as well-endowed as you would like?
At least give him a shot and try it out for awhile with different positions and techniques. But my advice is that if your evaluation of the sexual potential between you two is derived from a single encounter to the point that you're considering breaking up with him, then you should probably go ahead and do that. If it's that important in your life, you'll never be satisfied with him no matter how well he treats you.
2007-03-12 15:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the common theme is that "size doesn't matter" but we all know it does. Girls only say it doesn't matter in order to make either themselves or the guy feel better. It is shallow to break up with him over that but i don't date alot of girls long term with A cups either. So i guess guys and girls are about the same.
2007-03-12 15:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and get him to try new positions and have lots of foreplay. Sex isn't just about getting down to it, it's about having some fun while your at it. There are different positions that can help with the "small" problem test and try em out.
2007-03-12 15:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not leave the guy if he is treating you good. Those are hard to find and you do get a hold of one don't let go.
There is more than one way to make a woman happy....try kamasutra....You'll be happy with the results!
But if that fails.....just tell him to get his penis enlarged!
2007-03-12 15:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything. If you are great for each other, then I say, stay! But it is your choice. However, that would be really shallow if you left him because of that. God bBess and Be Safe :) Good Luck :)
2007-03-12 15:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, it is so hard to find a guy that is right....i say you should be thankfull and try to see what this relationship leads to. in years to come what do you think keeps you together? sex, or true caring love for each other? hold tight if he's a keeper
2007-03-12 15:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by shine_on 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to train him as to how you want him to be. Take charge and show him what's the best position for you since you feel he's not well endowed just teach him.
2007-03-12 15:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there...when I suggested that he try other things (tongue) he got insulted and left me. That hurt...I would go w/ what he can offer and take care of yourself when he isn't around.
2007-03-12 15:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Niffer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like rolling a hot dog down a hallway? tell tiny I say hey.
2007-03-12 15:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by SEAHAWK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋