I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, but he is flirty with other girls, he says he's just naturally flirty with people, I don't know if I'm just jealous or if he's doing something wrong. Should I just ignore it?
2007-03-12 08:04:39 · 21 answers · asked by serpentstyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore it because he is probably cheating.
2007-03-12 08:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry, but when people have a BF/GF/husband/wife, I don't care if they would never cheat or they do it for a little fun. It is disrespecting the one you love when you flirt with the opposite sex. These people could care less that they are hurting the person they love because they feel the 'need' to flirt and give attention to other men/women, and GET attention back from other men/women. It is pathetic and they have ego issues. It is NOT harmless, it harms the relationship. If someone wants to flirt like that, then they need to be single again.
2007-03-12 08:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that it bothers you when he does it, but don't make him think you are an overly-jealous or really controlling girlfriend. It also depends on what kind of flirting it is. If it's really intense or whatever, you may need to rethink whether or not he would cheat on you. That means like getting numbers from other girls or getting too physical. If it's just small stuff, it might be something you should try to look
past.
2007-03-12 08:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shroomie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,
I have been through the same thing that u are going through. My husband, has been that way since the day that I have met him. And still is to this day. I know he would never act on it and I also know that sometimes people take it the wrong way. But, There is nothing wrong with doing a little flirting yourself. Its actually healthy for your relationship.. And it makes u feel good if someone is flirting with u. Take it with a grain of salt.. He just naturallly does it, and probably does not affect him at all. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-12 08:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by squeaky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you "know" he would never cheat? There is always that possibility. If he's openly flirting, and disrespecting you, then he is doing something wrong. If you have to ask this question, that means you are worried about it. Tell him to knock it off and if he doesn't then leave him.
2007-03-12 08:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know in your heart. Some men ARE flirty naturally. But if he carries it too far he is disrespecting you. In the end you will know, for his flirting will either result in an extramarital affair or it will not. You will know, sweetie. You will know in your heart. Good luck to you.
2007-03-12 08:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ignore it, but don't make a big deal over nothing. As long as he isn't doing anymore than flirting let him be. If that doesn't work for you, start flirting with other guys and see how he reacts to that. Most guys who are trustworthy have no problem trusting the one they are with.
2007-03-12 08:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you need to say so
If he is acting selfish or narcassistic, that is a major problem
but if he just acts friendly to anyone-male or female, it may
be his personality-If a guy is outright flirting with other women
in front of you, that is actually not a good sign. But no,
dont ignore it, you should confront this
Good luck!
2007-03-12 08:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is doing something wrong but you should still try to address this problem as though it wre you doing something wrong.Try to spice up your love life also make yourself more attractive around him so that his eyes will be on you only .If that does not work he is a flirt for life
2007-03-12 08:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Yung Naruto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you get jealous and ask him if at all possible he could stop...if that's how he naturally is there's not much you can do about it. Kinda like my bf...just accept it, i mean, he chose you over all those other girls, you are number 1...
2007-03-12 08:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start being a little more flirty yourself with other guys besides him and when he questions it (and he will) say you'll stop when he does.
2007-03-12 08:07:35 · answer #11 · answered by **Red** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋