What do you think is better? Being single or having some-one in your life. All my partners never seem to stay with me that long? Am i that bad? But now being single i don't know whether it's a good thing or bad. Any suggestions to make my mind up? thanks
2007-03-12 07:58:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best advice here is be comfortable within yoursef the rest will follow. Hopefully you have a great network of friends and that is just as important as a relationship, the fact thaat you havent stayed with anyone for long is not a reflection on you, just a reflection that you havent found the right partner yet, which has to be better than spending time with the wrong person. You will have learnt something no doubt from all of your relationships and these lessons will make you stronger and more able to recognise the right person, we all of us kiss lots of frogs as they say, so just enjoy yourself and dont put yourself yndwer too much pressure but have a great time while you wait good luck, emma
2007-03-12 08:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone who truly loves you is the greatest feeling in the world. Just because you have had a few bad relationships does not make you bad. You cannot blame yourself for everything in a relationship, Did you ever think it was there fault why the relationship was bad? Being single or taken can be good and bad it truly depends on what you want at that time.
2007-03-12 08:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you fear being single or embrace it. My thought is always until you are comfortable being single you're not ready to be a couple. You don't want someone who completes you, you want someone who compliments you. Relationship should be put of a desire for more, not a need. Take some time to enjoy being single, there are so many things you can do when you don't have the weight of a serious relationship. Then when your happy being single you'll have more to offer in a relationship.
2007-03-12 08:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by his.grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being single is not the end of the world. Besides you don't want to be in a relationship just for the sake of having someone because it won't be real it'll be rushed. I'm 30 and single but that's just life just wait until the right man comes into your life.
2007-03-12 08:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I liked being single for a while, but it's been close to four years since my last romantic relationship so I feel it's time.
If you just recently became single, live it up while you can. Hang out with your girlfriends, go to the movies, spend time with your siblings if you have any. That way if you do get back into a relationship and it lasts longer than you will feel good about it.
Good luck =)
2007-03-12 08:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by april.may 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everything in life theres a good and bad thing for everything depending how you look at it. Im single at the moment,but do miss cuddling up with someone at night,but then i like being on my own at times and doing what i wana do,you can flirt with anyone if your single and have loadsa fun!!! Dont worry ive never had a realy long-term relationship.
2007-03-12 08:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is great! But sometimes I would like to have someone there for and with me. I think that is human nature. Overall I would much rather be alone then deal with someone else and have them distract me. I am just not a clingy type of person and that is why ( I believe) I am just fine single. Some people have that need to be with someone. Maybe you do, who knows. Best of Luck!
2007-03-12 08:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by The one who knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being single for 33 years, I must admit that I like being taken. It's been great, and I wondered what took me so long to be involved in a serious relationship.
2007-03-12 08:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia_1971 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm single after years of being with men,I want this single thing to last, I'm geting to know who I really am and enjoyen it.
If I fancy company then I have it,If not, then it's a meal for one in front of the T.V
Sheeeeer Heaven, lol. All the fun and no mess.
2007-03-12 08:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is greener on the other side. Whatever you state of relationship enjoy it for what it is, if youre single then go out and have a good time sdont mope about feeling sorry, get out there find new friends. If youre taken then enjoy the time you have with the person.
2007-03-12 08:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋