there was this guy who got all over me and he was geting his hand in my skirt so I pushed him away and told my friends to stay away from him and so a few more hours later he came up to me and start kissing me so I pushed him harder and he just start hitting on me and I said you better stop or i'm gonna call the cops and he just start getting all over me and I pulled out my cell phone and he grabbed it and broke it and start putting his hands on my butt so I tryed to hurt him but all he did was grab me harder and he kissed me all over and I punched him as hard as I can and told my friends and we drove to my friends house I am 18 an dhe looked like he was over 30 what can I do to protect myself
2007-03-12 08:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not too much more... I think you did the best you could to protect yourself. Usually, though, if you persistently ignore them, they will move on to a more willing victim... I'm surprised that he wouldn't go away after the first time you pushed him. Where you making it very clear that you weren't interested? If ignoring them doesn't help, I'll have one of my male friends or friend's boyfriend start dancing with me for awhile. The unwanted guy will usually get the picture.
However, I'd not go to a party hosted by those people again... and if it is a drinking party with a lot of men you don't know, you may want to stick close to one of your friends. Groups will tend to scare off the scuzzy ones. Unless you want to be picking up scuzzy men at the party... groups aren't so hot for that! Then you will have to deal with whatever type of guy you get.
2007-03-12 08:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by peachfuzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to be careful what parties you decide to go to.
Second, if you do decide to go out, your friends need a buddy system so you can keep an eye out for each other all the time.
If this happens again, you need to call the police any chance you get. With the buddy system, someone else would have a cell phone you can use.
2007-03-12 08:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE SCREAM AS HARD AS YOU COULD HAVE!
ALWAYS HAVE A MALE FRND WIT YOU,
IF UR AT A PARTY WHERE U DONT REALLY NOE ANYONE, stick wit ur palz, or make sure they are aware of where you are...
next time have sumthin like peper spray or w/e
2007-03-12 08:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ELI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by some mase or a tazer. Dont put yourself in that position. get a male friend that will protect you.
2007-03-12 08:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try bear spray it will be available in any hunting sports store and is legal
2007-03-12 08:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mace.
2007-03-12 08:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family!
2007-03-12 08:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by ThinkPinkxoxo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should have let him since you're so mean posting this question on every single question you come across
2007-03-12 09:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋