I have been working with my co-worker for 2 1/2 yrs. We have been flirting back in forth. Last year, it got so close that something was going to happen but it didnt. Excuse was from him,that it would ruin our friendship and it would feel strange later. Recently, he has started to flirt with me again and has actually came onto me. I try to pursue it and then he backs off and tells me that "it is going to happen,,, but not right now. Let it happen when it happens." I dont know what to think anymore???
2007-03-12 07:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by vm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says "it is going to happen" then it means that work place romance does not bother him, I do not think he is shy because he is coming onto you. If it were going to ruin your friendship he wouldn't let it happen and he says "it is going to happen" .... In my opinion he is just not into you that much but he may want to keep you available in case something else falls through with somebody else, but I think if he wants you and you are sending the signals to him he has nothing stopping him... But something still is stopping him???.... You need to see other people and find a guy who is full on into you and not running hot and cold.... He is just not that into you... Good Luck
2007-03-12 08:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My feeling would be is that he has a significant other that he is involved with and he is having some fun with you at work. I mean, after 2 1/2 years, if he hasn't made a serious move for you other than flirting, it sounds like he's having a little fun playing on your emotions. Unless you like having someone play on you like that, I'd walk away from it. Believe me, if he ever wants to get serious with you, he will be back and it won't be just to flirt. I wouldn't be nobody's fool.
2007-03-12 15:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games with you for 2 yrs... I wouldn't give him the opportunity for anything to "happen". I am also confused if you are just wanting him just for sex or an actual dating relationship... Do you date one another at all, or strictly a flirtation at work... If you want a relationship I wouldn't let it happen until you date for a while...he seems odd if you ask me!!
2007-03-12 15:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by luv2bme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a girlfriend? Because sounds to me like he's hiding something-- he wants to keep you interested but now isn't a good time! Sounds like weird to me~ He might be just leading you on! I guess if your not getting in Emotionally just have fun and let it lead itself whereever it may go!
2007-03-12 15:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing with you and your emotions. He probably has someone else in his life, but wants you as a backup to feed his ego.
Walk away. He'll probably come chasing after you. The less interest you show in him, the more he will show in you.
Lose this loser. Look for someone more worthy.
2007-03-12 15:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be stuck in between line, like should i shouldnt i should i shouldnt i, thats keep in his mind all the time. I think hes not risk person. If you are a risk person, why dont you go for it?
2007-03-12 15:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have a girlfriend or wife at home and not telling you about it. He's just interested in using your interest to make himself feel better.
He doesn't want anything serious from you.
2007-03-12 15:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's scared because he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. he's afraid something might happen. thats all. don't worry, if he says it'll happen, then it'll happen.
2007-03-12 15:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by NIKKI S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's more interested in the chase than the catch.
2007-03-12 15:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by rockhoundguide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that if he isn't going to make the first move, you definitely should.
2007-03-12 15:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋