I want to get back together with her. There's this girl that I really love and have been seeing for a while..

Question

But recently we split up. She decided to break up because of lots of things, such as my friends not being nice to her. I know what she means, they aren't always the best, but i can't just drop them all.. There were other problems aswell but they were fixable.. So we kinda broke up for a bit.. But recently i said something that she really took to heart, but i didnt mean it, i was just angry and i have apologized a thousand times. But she says she can't get over it. I would do anything to have her back, we were both truely in love, but it just started to get broken down.. I also have heard that when she was drunk she was kissing with another person.. But i dont think she means it really and i could live with that. But maybe it is something more and i dont know.. She says she still has feelings for me but i dont know.. Maybe she's trying to cover up.. I just really want her back. I know this has been long but any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

PS. She was ONLY kissing.

Thanks for all the advice. I have told her and she definately knows. She still says she likes me but it wasnt working. And I dont know whether she likes someone else and she's just trying to cover up..

Answer 1

she needs to get that you know what you've done wrong and why and how to fix problems like that. she needs to know that she can trust you to love her and look after her.
problem with that is that women can be complicated, and since we're all different i can't tell you how to make her feel that way. i'm afraid you'll have to figure that out yourself.
or ask her friends. if you can convince them you're worthy, they'll help.

Answer 2

hey listen
before u even attempt to get her back u need to get that guilt bull out of u system
if u allow the guilt to over come u then u will start allowing bad things to happen to u and u will accept these bad things due to ur guilt
so get that st8

then try to get her to sit down and talk to her
and try to work things
out
but dont pressure her dont cry
dont get angry it will wont get her back if u do these things

Answer 3

just be yourself
dont allow her to run over u
just be cool and talk to her
get that guilty conscience out of ur mind
it wasnt only ur fault
it was both of ur faults
so work on the negative and improve ur selves

Answer 4

Buddy the best way it letting her kno. Tell her you want to get back and try real REAL hard and hope for the best, Good luck!=]