Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I have been a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 10 months now, and she told me the other day after sex that she wants me to start talking dirty to her during sex.

I have never been in a relationship with dirty talk before, and all the posts on this site seem to be more towards the girl side, so can anyway help me with what to say?

And if you are one who thinks children don't need to hear about sex, email me at Novitennis88@yahoo.com

2007-03-12 07:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Jamie Taliaferro 1 in Singles & Dating

What made me think of this, is something that I noticed yesterday. I was at Target, and this kid quit his job publicly and loudly right in the middle of his shift. (He was probably around sixteen) His supervisor told him as he was walking out the door "If you start a job on Sunday morning, and you quit Sunday afternoon, you are in for along road of burned bridges, fella!" The kid stormed out of the store, left his store apron laying on the table by the door, and made his way to the parking lot.

I followed him, and I watched as he climbed into his car (a shiny red 2006 or 2007 Pontiac Gran Prix, and sped away with the radio booming. He whipped out his cell phone as he was pulling away...probably to call his buddies and tell them he'd meet them at somewhere or other. The reason I know the car was his (and not borrowed from his dad) was it was lowered about two inches off the ground with those purple lights shining under the car. On the back windshield was a decal that said "low-playa".

2007-03-12 07:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that i have asked about in my last questions and he called me the other night and said, Me and you are like butt checks, Somethings come between us but we always stick together. Then he said i am determined to have you! And i have no clue how he got my # and thank the heavans i won't have to see him for another week. But what should i do when we get back to school. I have first period with him and i need to know what other people would do so i can do something right.

2007-03-12 07:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Its not often that i feel strong love for just anyone..
I mean i could meet a really nice guy.. funny, caring
and honest but no matter how nice he is something
is always missing like a deeper attraction/connection
i cant describe it really..
It is like a feeling that you get when you
meet that someone you just know in your heart its right.
because i have had true love before i dont
know why i just cant seem to find it again in someone else
that easy!
it is sad because
i wished i kept my heart in my last
relationship unbroken :(

2007-03-12 07:16:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just being nosey ... what do u talk about ? do u get real nervous and worried about getting tongue tied ? do u dread those silent moments ? How do u fill the gap ? whey hey steady on there ;)

2007-03-12 07:15:59 · 14 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been chasing his career for a long time, over 10 years, except he isn't any good at what he has chosen to do. He has spent much money and time pursuing this.

His family, my family, our neighbors and others in his field all know he will never make it doing what he wants to do. It negatively affects our marriage because this "career" is all consuming to him and it is his first priority, which puts me and our marriage down the list.

His contention with me is that I am not supportive. He says that my job as his wife is to support him in achieveing his dreams and goals.

What the heck am I supposed to do? I feel he is right in some ways, but I also feel like he is missing opportunities to do things he is very good at rather than chase this impossible dream. I am very frustrated and could use some help trying to get through to him my view, but also to assist him to see the light that what he has worked so hard at just isn't in the cards for him.

Thanks.

2007-03-12 07:15:51 · 17 answers · asked by VNCGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 07:15:49 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey, how u doing? mind if u can help me out on this?? umm lets say me n girl(n) meet a while bk n we small talk from time to time. i happen to like ur vibe but im keeping this to myself. at the same time, i might be starting something with one of her friends, girl(h), but me and (h) r still kinda like friends n r in the "negotiating" process. the mission is that im trying to be true to myself here and figure out which ones best for me. so what do u think i should do? pretend u were (n) how would u react if i came up to you n told u the cutest things that attracts me to u??

2007-03-12 07:15:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes really cute. i wonder if his name is in the phone book

2007-03-12 07:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by Chelene F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by Jesse A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A dear friend of mine appeared in an intimate dream of mine. This is the first time this happened to me (about her) and I'm already dating someone. Should I be worried?

2007-03-12 07:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by Knowledge 3 in Friends

I'm 29 and i have a littler girl and i think i donr be getting any day because i'm a single mom. i work i got my own place is not like i need a men to support me.

2007-03-12 07:14:09 · 5 answers · asked by RED ROSE 5 in Singles & Dating

If you have a friend with benefits and you both decide to have a spring fling, can you go back to being friends with benefits after the fling is over?

2007-03-12 07:13:56 · 1 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Friends

y am i affrade 2 have sex w/ my b/f??? i mean i fell ready and i want 2 but im scared, cuz i dont kno if the condom wuld break or wt so how can i face my fears and just sleep w/ him w/out being affraid???

2007-03-12 07:13:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like and i know he likes me because he told me,and hes great because we have like everything in common.at first when we met ,my friend tried telling him to make the first move and he told her he doesnt make the first moves and neither do i.finally i just started flirting with him and he started flirting back all the time.we were in his car and at a red light he patted my leg then put his hand back on the steering wheel smiling sending me the message that he was glad i was there.but theres one problem he never calls me,i have to be the one to call him and hangout.i dont want to be leechy so i havent called him for like a week,but i dont want to loose him so i called him,but it went straight to voicemail,which i figure hes at work.why doesnt he call me? how can i help this? whats going on??

2007-03-12 07:13:34 · 12 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1 in Singles & Dating

Help please,whenever i go see my doctor i always have a feeling when i look into his eyes i just think"I wish he would lay me on his bed and give me the once over"what do i do would you come onto your doc??

2007-03-12 07:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by DREAMER 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i was going with ths guy for a little over a year and eveything was great but all of a sudden things just went wrong. Finally one day he came to me and said the famous line " I THINK IT BE BEST IF WE WERE JUST FRIENDS" Negative. We never talk anymore i say hi he looks the other way. I call no answer, I email and get no reply. Whats up with that.

2007-03-12 07:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs.Grandberry 1 in Singles & Dating

i been with this guy for 7 monthes and we did some dirty stuff to eachother but after everything we still cant let go i never been so comfortable with some in my life and hes always there when i need him the most he is a lil older then me and could this really be love when im only 17

2007-03-12 07:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by kase 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 07:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by Nicki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have one of his friends staying at our house. It all started about 1 1/2 years ago when my husbands friend got kicked out of his parents house. By the way he was 26. My husband said that he could stay a "couple" nights when he needed to.... if he didn't have anywhere else to stay. So he stayed maybe 2 nights a week in the beginning because he was dating a girl at the time that would let him stay there at her house. Now it's a different story. My husband works in a different state for 2-3 weeks at a time. When my husband comes home, his friend is hardly ever at our house. But when my husband leaves, he stays at our house 24-7. He doesn't pay any rent at all, he leaves his ciggarette buts all over the yard, leaves all of the lights on, and uses all of my household supplies. How do I kick him out without hurting my husband's friendship with him? I am not the kind of person to be mean either. Please help.

2007-03-12 07:12:32 · 22 answers · asked by Puglovinlady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help on my witchcraft and my brain hurts for focusing

and do i make the spells work . plus does anyone know a reall levitating spell. and i do not want the light as a feather stiff board thing . i want something quick and easy . does anyone know ?

2007-03-12 07:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Tianna J 1 in Singles & Dating

when girls are vocal (screaming there brains out) in the bedroom, or is it just a myth?

2007-03-12 07:12:27 · 28 answers · asked by Kalin J 1 in Singles & Dating

like i have got a male friend and when ever he sees me or i Touch,hold,hug him he just gets turned on .

2007-03-12 07:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Grandberry! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in an abusive marriage. I have tried for years to make it work however, I understand that the only way to get out would be for me to be the one to leave with the kids. Would this constitute as abandonment of the house when going forward with the divorce? Also will it pose a problem if I am not the primary on the loan?

2007-03-12 07:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you decide to let go, should you tell him why or just leave quietly? This is not going to be an easy task for me.

2007-03-12 07:12:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. We dated for about 1 1/2 years. We lived togther and everything. He never asked me to marry him. I think he was going to but i broke up with him because we fought to much and he brought the devils out of me and i didn't like myself. Me and another X started talking he got me going to church. I was real happy. Well I didn't have place to live so i started staying with him and his mom. We have always been best freinds talk about anything. Now he is talking about marriage. I just broke up out of a 1 1/2 year relationship. He is about to go in the army. So i really don't want to lose him. I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO???? I am so confused. I don't know if i love him. Or my X ol man... I messed up. What would you do. Should i get married to my best freind.

2007-03-12 07:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that if I've been separated X amount of years from my husband, he can sign me over to a new husband? I've been separated 6 years and have been living with my new man for 5 years??

2007-03-12 07:11:31 · 20 answers · asked by Veronica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my boyfriend. He was acting strange and i think it was because i wouldn't put out. I feel really good about it being over between us though. I'll miss him but I'm ready to find someone more at my level. Is it a bad thing that I'm this happy about it being over between us? How soon is too soon to start looking again? Would it be okay to hang out wiht some guys this weekend?

2007-03-12 07:11:00 · 2 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing a guy who is divorced and has two kids. one is 14 and the other is 8 or 9. At the beginning of the relationship every thing was fine. we even talked about moving in together "until" later on down the road I talked to his ex about something and ever since then my boyfriend changed his mind about moving in with me because he says he doesn't fully trust me now. this happened last yr. before the holidays. I think around Aug. and he still can't forgive me. I'm also childless so I would like to have at least one kid but I don't know if my boyfriend will be able to financially support another kid since he has two of his own already. he is also in his mid-late 30's so I don't know if he'll have the energy, too. I also get jealous when his 8 yr old daughter is around because she gets most of the love and attetion from her dad not me so for these reasons and more I don't know if maybe we should just be friends or work it out because I do care about him.

2007-03-12 07:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by bettygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

is it a common problem??

2007-03-12 07:10:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating