y am i affrade 2 have sex w/ my b/f??? i mean i fell ready and i want 2 but im scared, cuz i dont kno if the condom wuld break or wt so how can i face my fears and just sleep w/ him w/out being affraid???
2007-03-12 07:13:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're afraid then that means you aren't ready. If he really loves you then he'll wait.
2007-03-12 07:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be afraid. The condom won't break and sex is meant to be pleasurable. Forget everything else. If you really feel ready then you do not have to worry about things like this. Your boyfriend is there too remember...? some fear will go away just because you have done it. it is as simple as that. I remember being really scared too... but it was fun and okay. not the best sex ever of course , the first time, but that is why you learn all your life... so, if you really feel ready, just go ahead and just have fun together. that is what it's for too.
2007-03-12 14:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, you are not ready!!! How old are you, you sound really young, like high school young or younger? If you are having all these questions about sex and the condom, you are not ready? You need to make sure that you know what happens afterwards as well. Honestly, you really should wait!! Good Luck!!!
2007-03-12 14:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should have sex with somebody just to make them happy, plus i dont think you are ready to do this. You should consider going on the pill and using condoms, maybe that will help.
2007-03-12 14:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is nessecery to use the condom. When you doing a sex that time you have to say your boyfriend t use the condom.I am not doing a sex but I want to do a sex .Can you say your name and address.I dont have a girlefriend .When your boyfriend use the condom for doing a sex you dont scared and enjoying.
2007-03-13 01:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by prashant_030 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid, you aren't ready yet. Whether it be the protection you use, location, etc...if you aren't ready, you aren't ready =) I wouldn't force any issues or "talk yourself into it". I've used two condoms before with no single issues. I can suggest that for you =)
2007-03-12 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your actually not ready. i think if your having so much trouble with doing it you should wait a little longer. or you could do the best thing and wait until you're married.
2007-03-12 14:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry condoms don't break ease like you think, follow the instructions in condom box
and be happy
2007-03-12 14:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by eu mesmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yus is scared cause yus do not want to get preggers, and yus don't think you bf can get the job done.
2007-03-12 14:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably afraid of the consequences. Maybe you should wait until your absolutly sure you can face all the consequences possible. think about it!! Think of the what if's......
2007-03-12 14:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Classic Beauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋