yesterday, i spoke to my bf on the phone and he said he'd call me back , but didn't.. so i ended up calling him... but he didn't pickup...i had tried calling for 5 hrs... i got very upset and ended up crying soo much cuz i imagined him out with another girl and blah blah.. i also got worried that he may have gotten into a fight.... i couldn't sleep my head hurt cuz of all that crying... later that night my bf called me and said he had fallen asleep.. which is understandable cuz we had both gone home late the night before.. we came home at 5am and were both tired....after i heard from him i went to sleep peacefully... what is wrong with me? i need help, plz??
2007-03-12 06:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just worried about the guy, it's pretty normal. You just miss him that's all.
If you're still worried about if there's anything wrong with you, you can always talk to your bf about it. Having heart-to-heart talks can improve the trust between both of you and this situation will clear up.
Good luck =D
2007-03-12 06:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Shan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, But it does seem like you dont trust him very much that might be kinda annoying on his behalf. Watchout with the calling so much cause then you are being sort of clingy and that really chases guys away. But you were just worrying about him and there isn't really no problem with that. Also if you were tired I can see why that would have over thought the situation! Dont worry there though, Your a girl! its normal for us to over worry!
2007-03-12 13:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were afraid he had dumped you. Nothing wrong with that. You also found out you are the jealous type. Let this be a guide for you to be a little more independant and not to panic at the first thing to happen. There is nothign wrong with you you just were caught off guard.
2007-03-12 13:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by nikogal2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl should never EVER call a guy for 5 hrs... You seem desperate. This is mean but get a life. Dont let him consume your life. And if you have nothing else to do, pretend your busy.
2007-03-12 13:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha dont worry, i can totally sympathize with you. is it a new relationship? if so, you're just head-over-heels in love is all and you're greatly infatuated with him right now. now 3 things can happen 1) you keep it up and he may leave (he might feel you're being too clingy. 2) you calm down and y'all live happily ever after or 3) you keep up, y'all go through some hardships in which you learn he can't get back to you every single time then y'all get over the infatuation and live happily ever after :)
2007-03-12 13:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not easy but do not focus so much of your energy on anyone else. You will become obsessive-compulsive and lose sight of who YOU are. You need to get a hobby, friends, anything to become less dependent on someone else. If your boyfriend knew how much you were trying to contact him, he'd be afraid that you were stalking him and you'll do nothing but push him away. Play hard to get - keep him on his toes and focus on you.
2007-03-12 13:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he told you he would call you back. So you shouldnt have called that much. Second you dont trust him. You really dont b/c if u did you wouldnt worry when u dont speak to him I suggest you try to trust him more b/c if u dont you are always going to think about him and anotha girl... You seem insecure
2007-03-12 13:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's no big deal, you hear that kind of story fairly often...however I think that what you might need is to work on your self-confidence! No offense if that is the case but, these are things you'd hear from a fat or ugly person.
2007-03-12 13:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Eleanor Rigby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you read self help books...it seems you might feel too insecure in your relationship...take it easy dear and try having space away from the relationship it's going to be helpful for you...You need to find yourself and see what makes you happy away from the relationship...maybe then you won't feel so insecure...
2007-03-12 13:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you can't spend you'r hole day thinking about this man you have got to do some thing other than calling him all day you are going to push this man away
2007-03-12 13:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by shismile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋