Hey first of all, I have no interest nor any feelings(except lust lol) for my friend with benefits(it was my idea for us to be friends with benefits), nor do I want a relationship with him because he's a player.
Anyway since I won't see him over the summer cuz we live 5hours apart, how can I talk him into having a spring fling with me for the fun of it or something?
Why do I want a fling? Because so I have a few good dates to look back on because the last one I had over a year and a half ago ended up pretty nasty.
And no I'm not a s**t, He's the first and only guy I've been with sexually.
Suggestions and stuff?
2007-03-12 06:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONESTY... STRAIGHT UP I WAS THINKING OR HOPING MAYBE WE COULD GET TOGETHER FOR A SPRING FLING... BE REAL WITH HIM PUT IT TO HIM LIKE THAT. ALL I CAN SAY IS BE HONEST AND RESPECT HIS DECISION
2007-03-12 06:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that peaceful... is right. That's the whole point behind having a fwb. You can indulge in your lust all you want wtihout involving emotional attachment. It's a player's dream! It's also a really bad idea. Someone pretty much always develops feelings that are not reciprocated by the other.
Btw, why would you want to have a spring fling with a player anyway?
2007-03-12 13:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would suggest trying dating again, or maybe be with this guy, yea he might be a player but maybe if he is in a really great relationship he would be different? maybe other wise i would just stop
2007-03-12 13:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont, thats the def of FWB's. you never get involved =X which is why its a sucky idea
2007-03-12 13:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by gossipgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋