Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I love my wife with everything in my body. I need to share the same air she breathes just to make my day hole. However, she is very with drawn many times. Yes, we have our prblems as all married couples do. No, we do not have much money, and I am trying to pick up extra work while going to school and driving 88 miles a day. I have made a lot of mistakes to. I brought a lot of bills into our marriage. We have been married for almost 3 years. I am worried because, I do not want to lose her. But I need help understanding her. Ladies, I am a country boy, my wife was my first, I was not her first or second. She loves Brad Pit, and other men, because of their swagger. How can I obtain swagger. I am confident in my own skin. But I want to give her the desire of swagger in me. Her mother and father were devoriced when she was eight. How can I be a father for her. I want this women to be the mother of my children, and I want to watch all the gray hairs come to her head. Help me understand her.

2007-03-12 04:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Transgendered. He was really nice - a surprise given his boldness - funny, and interesting. I did something I've never done before - I gave a stranger my phone number. I figured that it was sort of like a first date - we sat, drank coffee, and talked for about an hour. So when should I tell him - I don't want to scare him away but I want to be fair too.

2007-03-12 04:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by risky girl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy i knoe whu i knew for hella long time and um and i seen him on Friday or wuht not so we riding pass he flags us down and so we stop we parkd or wuht not. Then two boys *** to the car and **** so im thinking wuht the *** du they want. so one cums to the car and another stayed on the side walk. The boy on the side walk on my side of the car so he at my window smiling and all that. he gave me his number that nite.but i calld yesturday and some gurl answered and im like whu the *** is this and she goes why you calling my mans fone so im like o where he at she was all like he sleep but ill tell him to call you...haha

2007-03-12 04:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by spongebobwifey2008 1 in Singles & Dating

I have friend she said that her co-worker at work all the time picking on her make fun of her laught at her without any reason and she had a enogh. She can't aford to quit the job.. and i personaly i don't know what to tell her exept kick his or hers *** but that is not gonna happen...So what would you do if you're in her shoes....

2007-03-12 04:44:49 · 1 answers · asked by Lily B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 04:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by sopka_bobo 1 in Friends

I am attractive, very outgoing, open-minded, very caring and compassionate, very affectionate. I meet a lot of guys but in the last two years I have only met two that wanted to be in a relationship - one I simply wasn't attracted to but wanted to be friends, and the other wanted to be in a relationship with me but was a controller and whiner and because of my being so assertive and my 'no drama' ways, that ended on a very bad note. I am at a total loss - I have been married and divorced three times - all losers! I am really struggling here. Please help me open my eyes!

2007-03-12 04:44:33 · 4 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

should I wait for him or just forget him and move on and try to find love somewhere and with someone else? plerase help me, I don't know what to do and I'm confues?

2007-03-12 04:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by sexy mama 1 in Singles & Dating

Who was it?
What did he/she/it look like?
What did you do with you're friend?
Did other people know about him/her/it?
Other details?

2007-03-12 04:43:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, so my boyfriend wants to get me and him a cell phone or something to text eachother with, since my parents only let us talk to eachother afterschool on the phone for 20 mins. And, most of the time, we just keep missing eachother when the otherone calls... so is there a cheap phone with like free texting, or something to help the situation?

he said he wants to buy it.. and we would only use it for eachother

2007-03-12 04:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And how long does it take? Do you have to wait for more than a day for the test before one can get married?

2007-03-12 04:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Aldo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well I have a best friend and he wanna have sex with me and all I want to know if its good to do it to him cause I really want to but I dont want this is mess with our friendship and he have's a girl friend he told me he wanna do it to me casue she aint giving it up so what should I do

2007-03-12 04:43:05 · 2 answers · asked by Tya 1 in Friends

2007-03-12 04:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hacked my gf's myspace account(I know, I'm a creep) and she has been writing to her ex-bf, telling him she still loves him. I asked her why he was number 1 on her friends list and she said she didn't even realize that he was. I knew she was lying, so I used a program to get her password and found out the truth. I know she hasn't cheated physically because this guy lives 1000 miles away, but I still consider this cheating. In the meantime, we are living together, she is still affectionate towards me and says she loves me all the time. Should I confront her?

2007-03-12 04:41:15 · 9 answers · asked by JakeZula 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently met a guy and we have talked but he told me he would call me yesterday and he didn't. This guy works a lot so I thing he maybe got busy. This guy is really nice I don't just want to blow him off... Plus he said he wanted to talk to me cuz I seem cool to be with. What should I do????

2007-03-12 04:40:58 · 3 answers · asked by Pink 2 in Friends

2007-03-12 04:40:57 · 6 answers · asked by kiss 1 in Singles & Dating

If yo have to choose one of these kind girls, which one will you choose? and why?
1. Sexy girl but you don't have a chance to have sex with her before you marry her.
2. Ordinary girl (so so), but she's the wildest on the bed and you can have sex with her before married.

2007-03-12 04:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I have been dating this AWESOME guy for a little over a month or so and last night we had sex for the first time. It was actually the first time I even saw / felt his manhood.

Well to my suprise he is, to put it gently, SMALL!!!!

I know, I know it shouldn't really matter but in a way it does. It was to the point where I could hardly feel him inside of me at all!

I don't know what to do.... Should I say screw it and move on, or should I say it doesn't matter and stay?

We have sooo much in common. He is like the perfect guy for me, instead of that one little problem. (please excuse the pun lol)

AHHHH!!! PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-03-12 04:40:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in a long distance relationship and its dead near imposable!!!!! i'm really wanting to see her but we live in different states (Georgia and Tennessee) but its kinda easy cuz we live close to the edge of the states but i never see her i wish i could!!!! to make things harder we're both 14 so we can't drive to see each other if u've got any ideas about how we can see each other let me know

2007-03-12 04:40:09 · 6 answers · asked by delta3835 2 in Singles & Dating

trashy is sexy....how can i get him to understand that i am not trashy..i like to dress well conservative but sexy..theres a difference.between sexy and trashy..i have class and when i shop for clothes i like to buy things that fits well look good and is sexy at the same time..should i change for him??

2007-03-12 04:39:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a beautiful outdoor location to get married in Texas. I want a resonable priced spot in North Texas with lots of trees and a pretty reception site. Thank you

2007-03-12 04:38:50 · 6 answers · asked by mudpie 2 in Weddings

i have always fantasised about making out with an older woman. am a really handsome guy, 23 years and i feel it's time i make my fantasycome true. am laid back, easy to go and a guru in bed. i can give a lady a type of pleasure that is unmatched through some skills that haven't so far been narrated yet.If you live in KENYA and are bove 25 years, please do contact me on deepasyouwantit@myway.com and we can get introduced first. we can do whatever you wonna do, wherever you wonna do it.I promise you, you will never ever regret it.Don't be shy.....................it will be all about pleasing each other in ways never even imagined.

2007-03-12 04:38:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is getting to the point that he is almost paranoid. We moved in together back in November and we have been exclusive for almost a year now. Over the past week I have noticed some of his tendencies becoming more profound. He has always been a little possesive and over protective but it hasn't been this bad. For example, he wanted to know where I went for lunch one day, how long I had been there, and what time I got back to work. I have been kind of busy lately with a wedding I'm planning, and he thinks I am purposely trying to avoid him. He even went through my car the other day. I feel like I go through an interrogation process when I get home everyday. I love him with all of my heart and I'm not going anywhere. I just have been really busy lately, it doesn't mean I don't want to be with him. He does this, everytime I get really busy at work, he starts thinking I want to break up. Why is this? What can I do to make him believe that he is the one I want?

2007-03-12 04:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by stefanisky 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy is may mate and he used to txt me a lot but i think his grandma has told him to stop txting me he moved house and she wouldn't give me his new address and now she's told my parents that i got hyper and gave her a headache and they got really mad.what should i do about it?

2007-03-12 04:37:20 · 1 answers · asked by blisskissbabe 2 in Friends

ok so i had this friend and we have been cool like for three years, ya he has had lots of gf and i don't seem to have a problem. but right now we don't talk alot or not at all. i can't stop think about him, it either makes me mad or happy or really mad just thinking about him.
i know he likes me, i mean he almost kissed me and he wanted me to join the swim team with him but i coun't cuz i have a little thing about wide water.
but now we don't talk at all and he has a new gf, whats really going on.
do you know
plz tell me what to do

2007-03-12 04:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pretty much clueless on when to call, how much to call, everything? I dont want to seem too clingy or not care enough, advice?

2007-03-12 04:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by annoynmus 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for 1 year. i'm 18 and he's 19. He doesn't like it when i talk to another guy (just friends). I had to break contact with all my male friends. And i had one with whom i had been a real close friend for 2 years and i miss him sometimes. i just had to tell him to stop talking to me coz my bf goes crazy if he finds out. And he doesnt let me go out with my girl friends alone either. He just wants to be with me everytime i go out. is he too jealous or is it normal?

He stopped talking to all his friends coz of me (i never told him to do so..) so i dunno.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not angry or urged for other guys' company.. but i was just thinking if he's being too possessive.. what do you think?

2007-03-12 04:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suicide is really tempting whenever it crosses my mind that my hubby might also be cheating on me..

2007-03-12 04:35:18 · 59 answers · asked by kiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just moved to ny and I got no friends ....... places like times square not , i have been there a lot of times and not meet nobody because everyone has their friends and date


By the way I'm single and want to get rid of it

any ideas???

2007-03-12 04:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by blondepeach 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my husband are recently married he's 19 and i'm 17 and all we ever do is fight over some stupid *** **** and that realy gets me mad and we be bringin up his ex-girlfriend and that's really pissin me off and i think that he wants to be with her and he tells that he don't want to and i think that,that's all a lie and i don't know if he's lyin or not and i wanna know if he's lyin about all that and i just don't have the guts to tell him all this and i'm really scared that he's gonna hit me because he already did it once because i hit him and he just hit me and none of my friends like him and i don't know if i'm "p" that's why i don't wanna say nothin about that to him so pleaze tell me what to do pleaze i'm really scare right now :(!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 04:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by chela sanchez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Other than religious reasons, what factors are at work when couples keep having more children?

2007-03-12 04:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships