well me and my husband are recently married he's 19 and i'm 17 and all we ever do is fight over some stupid *** **** and that realy gets me mad and we be bringin up his ex-girlfriend and that's really pissin me off and i think that he wants to be with her and he tells that he don't want to and i think that,that's all a lie and i don't know if he's lyin or not and i wanna know if he's lyin about all that and i just don't have the guts to tell him all this and i'm really scared that he's gonna hit me because he already did it once because i hit him and he just hit me and none of my friends like him and i don't know if i'm "p" that's why i don't wanna say nothin about that to him so pleaze tell me what to do pleaze i'm really scare right now :(!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 04:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by chela sanchez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you honestly fear for your physical well-being, then you need to leave, and find somewhere safe to stay until you get your issues sorted out.
Disagreements may have a place in a marriage, but out-and-out fighting, especially physically, is not healthy. Talking about his ex-girlfriend on a regular basis isn't healthy either, especially seeing how it upsets you. Avoid that subject, and let him know that you don't feel comfortable talking about it. If there are other issues that you are fighting about, you need to discuss those with him as well; on a non-contfrontational, non-threatening basis. Stick to the facts, don't accuse, and -- if you need to -- find a therapist or counselor or someone else that you trust to be a mediator. What you're describing here is not what marriage was meant to be like.
Good luck
2007-03-15 12:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......don't fight. When every you personaly would fight, just don't do it. No matter what he says or does, just do nothing. And don't start any fights. Don't do anything that you think would start a fight.
And then you will be happy.
2007-03-12 11:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can't get along leave and divorce before you start having babies because its harder to leave when you got kids
2007-03-15 16:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋