ok so i had this friend and we have been cool like for three years, ya he has had lots of gf and i don't seem to have a problem. but right now we don't talk alot or not at all. i can't stop think about him, it either makes me mad or happy or really mad just thinking about him.
i know he likes me, i mean he almost kissed me and he wanted me to join the swim team with him but i coun't cuz i have a little thing about wide water.
but now we don't talk at all and he has a new gf, whats really going on.
do you know
plz tell me what to do
2007-03-12 04:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i once liked him but i get over poeple once they are not interested. i just want my friend back
2007-03-12 04:44:45 · update #1
If you see him in public, ask him could you talk to him for a few minutes to get these feelings for him off of your chest. Tell him that you really like him and explain to him how your moods has changed since the both of you haven't talked lately. If he doesn't act like he is concerned, or try to call and talk to you more often...ditch him!! No guy is worth the stress. Trust me!!! Good Luck.
2007-03-12 04:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he already has a new girlfriend maybe she's not as understanding as you were about his many girlfriends and she's jealous? It could be you know.
Either way, smile and be nice but don't chase him. Sometimes the best thing to be is a friend first and date later.
Meanwhile, swim where you're comfortable and enjoy it. Do the things you like with the friends you already have and don't dwell too much on what he's thinking or doing.
Make this your life and remember that life is to be enjoyed not to while away while waiting for a guy who doesn't appreciate you.
Get busy gal and make yourself beautiful and have fun doing it. You'll thank yourself later.
2007-03-12 04:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find somebody else. This boy sounds like he is a player and is just looking for his next conquest. You also have to consider that once you cross the line from being a friend to something more, it is really hard to be friends again if the relationship does not work out.
2007-03-12 04:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Terri C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like anything's going on. I'm sure if he wanted to be with you, he would have said something by now. He doesn't seem to have problems getting girlfriends. The fact that he hasn't really pursued you blatantly should tell you he's just flirting with you and leave it at that.
EDIT-And he's probably not calling you anymore because he doesn't want to upset his new girlfriend who will probably be a bit insecure of your friendship.
2007-03-12 04:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your like 12 or 13 right?
Boys your age are monopolizers, that means that if by the end of the school year they don't have at least 100 girls whining over them, they die.
Forget about him, snub him, real love doesn't occur until you're 30...or 40.
2007-03-12 04:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea what's going on but don't get hung up on this guy(i know it's very hard to stop doing). he has a girlfriend---there's probably some you know that likes you but you are way too preoccupied with this guy to give him a chance. He's not the only boy on this planet. Be patient your true love will find you sooner than later.
2007-03-12 05:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have a thing for this guy and he's a lady's man. You should probably find a better option since you don't talk to him often and he's already in a relationship.
2007-03-12 04:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say this but I don't think he's serious about you. If he feels that way about you, he would have dated you regularly after 3 years of knowing you.
I don't think you should waste your life waiting or pining for him. Go find your own happiness. He's not it.
2007-03-12 04:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probaly is trying to make u jealous because he really likes u next time he askes to do something say like swimming for example tell him this i am not that good at wide water and its really hard for me to see it just dont let him know ur to eager to go with him
2007-03-12 04:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Bre Bre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He most likely git into this new gf if you realy like this guy give him a call talk to him let him know how you feel
2007-03-12 04:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋