well i gave my stupied b/f a second chance, we had been back togther for about a week, we finally got time to see eachother and spent the whole day togther we even got "physical" well by the end of the night he started acting strange and really wanted to take me home, i really had a werid feeling that after he dropped me off he didnt go home so i jumped in my car and found his car at his friends house...as i got closer i found a girl on top of him! i freaked out and yelled and he drove off with her...well he cheated right after we hung out! im so hurt i cant get that picture out of my head! how do i stop thinking about it? i hate him i dont miss him im just so hurt! and advice to let it go? we were togther 2 years....sad.
* we were only broken up for about a week and talking the whole time, and all he ever said was how much he loved me and needed me, the whole time he had a girl on the side, i hate him.
2007-03-12 05:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and theres no way i willl ever get back with him! ha! i just want to erase him out of my head.
2007-03-12 05:22:38 · update #1
what an ***@$%#, unfortunately time is the only healer for that one . either that or give me his address and i will go toilet paper his house .
2007-03-12 05:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by g.reef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your situation. How long you've known him, how long you've been together, etc. If youre a freshman in college and you met the guy there, then he's not worth getting worked up over. There are other guys. If you have a long history together, and this is the first time he's done this, then maybe you can work it out with him. If he has done this kind of stuff in the past then maybe its time for a change. Either way, remember that your young, and that you will know when you know the right person. Good luck
2007-03-12 12:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by tigr876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you should just forget about him, you deserve someone better than that, after 2 years of being together if he really loved you he wouldnt even be thinking about a different gurl. i no how you feel that your hurt and you don't know what to do, just don't let him sweet talk you back and you fall for it, He don't seem like a good guy to do something like that to you, there is someone out there that is better for you and will love you and respect you so try not to be as hurt i know its hard. Try to go and do somehting fun or spend time with your friends or family and talk to other people and meet some friends. try to get your mind off of him for a while and soon you will find someone better...
2007-03-12 12:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. You are going to have to find a way to move on. I know that it isn't easy, but you have to look out for number one, you. Why did you break up the first time? Did he cheat on you before? If he did, I'm sorry that you put yourself into a position to get hurt. More so, I'm sorry that he is a jerk and treated you like that. You are better than him and it will take time to heal. You need to go out and do something fun that you enjoy, but I would give it time and not jump right into another relationship.
2007-03-12 12:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly he did not deserve a second chance. At least you found out and can now move on without it dragging on and being played. Time will dull the anger/pain of what he did and you can find someone else. Just make sure to take the time and find someone when the time is right that will NOT do that to you.
2007-03-12 12:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually he did u a favor and u don't know it. he cheated on u, was probably seeing her all along behind your back. u feel stupid and used because u did give him a new chance. yes it is sad, but keep that picture in your head, and the next time he shows up wanting another chance remember it. we are always the last to know, they act perfectly normal they hide it well, u know why because they have done it to others before. won't be long before he does it to the one he is with now. just accept it, and be glad your intuition told u the truth and u were able to see it with your own eyes. good luck
2007-03-12 12:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this, you found out IMMEDIATELY! Do you have any idea how many men get away with cheating for months? Consider yourself lucky that you saw him for the dog that he was before things got much more serious. You deserve a real man, not a horny poodle, so don't punish yourself by shying away from the dating scene. Good luck in your future dating endeavors, true love awaits you.
2007-03-12 12:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by the15don86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, to be honest with ya, it's gonna take a while before you get that picture out of your head. I know b/c I know all about that kind of picture! It's hard to move ahead, but you are gonna have to try. I know you are hurting right now and are full of anger and hate....but if you see him, walk away from him, don't take his calls, if he sends ya something, send it right back....don't accept anything from him. He will only hurt you again....I have been told, by a male friend, that guys think alot with the "head" that is not on their shoulders....I am sorry he hurt ya.
2007-03-12 12:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you need our help with what? Obviously this guy is a complete loser and doesn't deserve you.
Put your mind to other things, really, don't let yourself think about him at all. Feeling follows thought, so if you let yourself think about this you will feel bad.
Move on, consider it a learning experience and next time that little voice in your head says "something is wrong here..." LISTEN TO IT.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 12:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. It's time for you, spend some time talking with and hanging out with your girl friends. Maybe go to a club or a concert and you may meet another guy or a few who will treat you better. This guy is a big-time loser.
2007-03-12 12:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to realize is yes, this guy played you but it is so his fault and not yours. I'm assuming here but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have done this to him :) I know that it sucks and unfortunately there isn't a solution to getting over him besides time...you will find a guy that deserves you just take the time to look :) happy hunting!!!
2007-03-12 12:12:21 · answer #11 · answered by amandamoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋