Relationship?
ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and then over the next few months you started to see a lot of changes in him that he has made for himself and it turns out that he wants everything in a relationship that you do, do you think that you would regret it if you didn't give him another chance? Do you think that you would always be having these "what if" feelings and wondering what could have been if you didn't give him another chance?
2007-03-12 05:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I've broken up with a guy, it's for a reason, or maybe even for many reasons. If things changed - like what you're describing - and I really do still have feelings for him, I'd probably give him another chance, yeah, as a one-time only thing. If things stay "changed" great; if they go back to the same old problems, then that's it for good.
Generally, though, I believe in making my choices carefully and then dealing with the results, without looking back or regretting things - life's way too short to stay stuck in the past.
2007-03-12 05:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if a person had any feelings for someone they need to check those feelings out, especially if they plan to move on with someone new.
In your case above I would give a chance to make sure I was feeling love, or if nothing was truely there.
If I was in a relationship already, and I had these ?able feelings, it would only be fair to the person I was with to tell them I had "unfinished feelings". If that person loved me or cared about me, they would allow to me check out those feelings and wait until I knew.
Although, I would understand if that person didn't want me to. But I would still let him go, to find out the truth. Otherwise I would be lying to myself and any other relationship I would have, I might still think about those unfinished feelings.
If that were the case no relationship would ever work.
So yes, I would give him another chance.
2007-03-12 12:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the reasons I broke up with him in the first place. It also depends on if I told him that the things he has now changed were problems. If I did, then he does not get a second chance for making changes that in the long run will not work. NOBODY can change who they are for someone else.
2007-03-12 12:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Yes , I would give him another chance and ask him what took u so long .
C
2007-03-12 12:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after I missed that boat, it was renovated and redecorated, someone else may want to jump into that boat. I would start looking for a bigger boat rather than sitting at home imaging what if.
2007-03-12 12:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really liked him, I might try it again.
There's no point in carrying a torch for someone the rest of your life though.
2007-03-12 12:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would regret it if i didtn give him a nother chance.
2007-03-12 12:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by T_baby_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would, but I'd have to hear it from him.
2007-03-12 12:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋