Never alone - how do you not get down about this? IN OUR 30s!
2007-03-12 05:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm in a very similar situation myself, it's a very difficult place to be for a multitude of reasons, namely because, It causes you to argue about when you see each other [as parents can be difficult to negotiate around].
My advise is to clearly define the dates you will see each other on, make a schedule so that both parents will know when your going to be home or at your bf's.
Accordingly you should discuss your future 'hopes' together. I say hope because nothing ever has to be set in stone.
This way you will have some idea of the way you can both plan ahead for this event i.e. moving in together.
But most of all, try to stay positive and focus on the great parts of your relationship, this will help you to accept the situation and hopefully through this acceptance your relationship will grow stronger.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-12 05:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? You don't state if you are a married couple? In UK if you were you would be classed as a homeless couple and would be on a priority list for council housing. I am not saying you would get the best of areas first time you are offered but sometimes good homes. Also if you are not working you would receive Housing Benefit. Have you checked all sources. If in UK speak with Citizens Advice Bureau and if outwith UK you probably know of similar places. Don't give up!!! PS Having check your posting again I take it you are in Australia? Sorry I really don't know anything about there.
2007-03-12 07:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the obvious (get your own place) are there any other options? Do you have friends or relatives with a spare room they'd be willing to rent to you? Could you both live in one set of parents house for the time being?
Don't know if it's the same in Australia, but here in UK if you were essentially homeless without your parents and you wanted to start a family, you could put yourself on the local authorities housing list and wait for a council place to become available.
2007-03-12 05:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Timothy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make the most of the situation that you can. Make time for yourselves where you can just be alone. It doesn't have to be expensive, go down to the sea front for a walk or to the park for a picnic. So long as you continue to make the effort then it will work out until you can afford a place of your own. What's meant to be will be, and when you finally find a place of your own it will be well worth that wait, trust me! Good luck x
2007-03-12 05:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it not possible for one of you to move in with the others parents?Do you not have a room in your parents house that you can shut yourselves away and have a little alone time?If the answers are no and you can`t afford a place of your own why not try house sharing with others.Or look in your local newspaper as sometimes in the property sections people advertise a room available to rent to people like you in shared accommodation where you pay rent per week and your bills are included in the price..............good luck
2007-03-12 06:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved each other that much you would find a way IE get a part-time job on top of you other job or find a cheap place until you can find something else
Love finds a way.
2007-03-12 06:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Ireland. The Irish government make a point of housing newcomers without question.
2007-03-12 09:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about a council place or yust save save as much as you can until you can afford your own place
2007-03-12 23:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save up every penny untill you can live together.
2007-03-12 05:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋