headed. She knew when she met me that I'm set in my ways and opinionated about them. Why does she try to change me still?
2007-03-12 05:01:43 · 16 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a stubborn German afterall.
2007-03-12 05:02:28 · update #1
jbhurst, nice avatar of your mother.
2007-03-12 05:07:07 · update #2
knew I could count on you Brazene
2007-03-12 05:08:43 · update #3
good day my good man.....great question...now if more woman were like brazenone this world would be a better place...speaking of which, why don't we tag team her...I bet she wouldn't mind a couple of roosters in her hen house....lol!!!
2007-03-12 05:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fine. Then continue to be stubborn and find a stubborn partner so you can be stubborn together.
Yes, we are all who we are. But we have to work on bettering ourselves. Being stubborn isn't condusive to a healthy relationship. At all. In fact, it's egotistical. You have to learn to compromise. You insisting on remaining stubborn means that other people who care about you, in order to make their relationships with you work, be they girlfriends, friends, or family, have to continously lean back a little, and that's not fair. That's taking advantage. How about that for an opinon?!
Also, being so set in your ways, as you say, makes you unable to grow. You will therefore cheat yourself and cheat others around you.
Just like she's trying to work with you, you've got to be able to work with her. It's called an adult relationship. Good luck.
2007-03-12 12:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Purple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm German too but I've learned to give a little to get alittle
2007-03-12 12:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by wrfab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is no excuse. You need to open your mind to somethings about her. You need to look at things in a different light. I am not saying change yourself but if you really like her, you will learn to compromise.
2007-03-12 12:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by feather-girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and you are living up to your reputation, by stating that she is the one in the wrong. Some flexibility wouldn't hurt you.
2007-03-12 12:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A person only changes when THEY want to. Its obvious you're content with the way you are (though I don't know why; refusing to see another's view point cuts you off from a lot of living.)
Enjoy being a grump.
2007-03-12 12:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
A relationship requires negotiation and common courtesy.
2007-03-12 12:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone you will change a little.
if you don't put a little effort in it then you are probably not in love.
you have to give a little while you are taking
2007-03-12 12:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
compromise-------there's always room for change. if you truely love/like her, then i suggest you try to meet her half way before you lose her to another guy.
2007-03-12 12:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the way women are. very nurturing and in many cases have unrealistic expectations of relationships due to romantic comedies.
2007-03-12 12:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋