Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

what to expect for a samll visit "no sex"

2007-03-10 19:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:24:21 · 20 answers · asked by AKKOO 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not only compliments and can be all sweet but a guy who is funny and can keep them laughing?

2007-03-10 19:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf told me a couple days ago she wants a baby. My baby and wow shock. I mean we are only 15 and 17 and the only reason why her parents dont have a problem with it is cuz her older sib is 19 and is dating a 16 year old. But the main think is with me is that we have been together on and off for over a year now. I don't know if I want to do this now in my life cuz these past couple of days my mind has went from yes lets have a baby to no no no lets wait till we both finish school and start off in the careers of our choice then see how we feel about having a baby. I don't get why she wants it now I know many of you have given me lots of answer but I am still confused cuz once I think about what all of you have said then no a baby is a bad thing right now and then when Im around her she gets me to change my mind. Whats going on with me? What should I do?

2007-03-10 19:21:06 · 22 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend who has been married for almost 4 years, they have a 3 year old son and a sad marriage. Her husband works a lot of hours at work and she stays home with their son. There are times when he is at work for 2 days straight, when he comes home she is very happy to see him and so is their son, however when he gets home he acts like he cannot be bothered. He speaks to her with no respect and put everyone before her. He has told her that he works and pays the bills, so that is enough. He never wants to do anything family oriented. My husband and him are best friends so my husband is in an awkard position. My girlfriend calls and comes over crying all the time. I try to advise her, but bottom line is she doesn't want to give up on their marriage. She does love him and knows her son deserves a 2 parent home. She spends most weekend doing family things with my husband and myself and our son. What can she do to make her husband understand how close he is to losing his family?

2007-03-10 19:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by JENNIFER C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i was having a long distance relationship with my bf for a year and a half.

when i was away from him, he was confused once in a while for his feelings.

but everytime when we met again, we were just madly in love again, and he took care of me alot alot, gave me all his attention even his friends were around, very sweet and caring..

but when i'm back to my own country, he just doesnt know how to handle it and give me care... from time to time, he thought that he has just lost his love feelings for me, finally he broke up with me 3 weeks ago.

so im just wondering how important the "distance" is for this break-up. Does he lose feelings for me BECAUSE i'm far? Will his feelings be back if im close again? what's 'love' for guys? if he is in love with me when im near but loses feelings when im far, is it love? is this physical and face-to-face contacts so important for guys??? should i fly to see him now to have a last try?

2007-03-10 19:20:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're going to have a debate tomorrow..
and im on this topic...
hope u'll help me guyz..

2007-03-10 19:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by _p!nkmAn_ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And why is it that when i say that i want something...he tells me to go buy it myself?

2007-03-10 19:17:39 · 11 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26, and the man I'm dating is PERFECT FOR ME IN EVERY WAY....EXCEPT...his financial situation. I have a modest savings, a decent monthly salary, ($5000--I know, not that great, but better than nothing--for emergencies) and 15 grand in my 401 K (I've only been out of college for a few years.) He's 30, he lives from paycheck to paycheck and has no retirement/401 K/savings etc. A couple things: We are in love and have talked about moving in together, but we have agreed we should wait a year, until he is more financially stable. At this point, I'm cutting him some slack, bc he has been single for a while, and only has had to think of himself. I am not a gold-digger, but I am realistic. I pay for stuff more than half the time. I devote a lot of time, love, energy, etc to this relationship, in which, at this point, I am very happy. I never wanted to be with a man who is less financially stable
I just want to know if any females have been in this situation, and how things have worked ou

2007-03-10 19:15:45 · 29 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this girl 4 6 months now and she keeps telling me that she has this rape fantasy she want to do with me. She wants me to break into her appartment and screw her while she is asleep.. I got her to email me and hand write me a note consenting to this to kinda cover my back. With that said would you go through with this?

2007-03-10 19:14:28 · 12 answers · asked by bobbymack69 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl I'm interested in is just nine months younger so this doesn't apply to me. But I see a lot of questions about ridiculous age differences like twenty, thirty, or even forty years. Age isn't just a number to me. It's a rough sign of your development and experience, except in the rare case when you're extremely mature. I don't respect men who go out with girls half their ages and I certainly don't respect guys who go out with underage girls, even if nothing sexual is involved (and in more cases than you think, something sexual IS involved, like a fifteen-year-old girl I knew who had a boyfriend five years older and admitted to having 'heavy foreplay' with him a year earlier). Yes, sometimes women do tend to go out with younger guys, but that's a rarer trend, and women are rarely after sex the way men are.

2007-03-10 19:14:04 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by Tam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

dont get me wrong. i love sex too. but how should i approach her about it. what should i say. what should i do. we are both 15. ive been over her house a few times. and talked with her. shes real hot. should i just start it off or wait for a certain sign that shows she wants it there and now. please help. and ty :)

2007-03-10 19:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by 591Zec 1 in Singles & Dating

I was playing a game with a group of people, one of which was a girl I liked. If we repeatedly chose the same thing, and thought each other's answer was correct (note that this game you're not supposed to know who answered what until the end) then does this add a level of intimacy. It does for me. What do you think?

2007-03-10 19:11:49 · 2 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Singles & Dating

living with there parents?

2007-03-10 19:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:10:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

an obsessive all day thing?

2007-03-10 19:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does this mean??

A guy gives you a valentines, and tells someone that knows you hes interested in you....he tries to run into you for weeks...cos you dont see him ...finally he gets your number off your friend and aks you out and you accept...the day you wanna go out he has to stay back at work. and says sorry and we will talk soon....he hasnt contacted me for 2 days....

does he like me or what??
is he playing mind games?? he hasnt even tried to set another date

2007-03-10 19:09:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and girlfriend queef. It grosses me out. It makes me want to just finish by myself.

2007-03-10 19:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Our mother has died and I need to locate my brother he is in the Roseburg, Eugene or Coos Bay, Oregon area

2007-03-10 19:07:48 · 3 answers · asked by Troy/ Renee 1 in Friends

They approach you, and you say politely: "Sorry, I am not interested".
And they say: "Why, weeeeeeeeee weeeeeeeeee weeeeeeeeee, let's go out, I like you..." and so on. You, again, say "no". But they never give up and whine and bother you until you say something really nasty to them.
Then they say something really nasty to you and depart.
Why can't they make it pleasant and just go when asked so politely?

2007-03-10 19:06:00 · 13 answers · asked by nev 2 in Singles & Dating

Date: New Year's Eve 2007
Time: ceremony begins AFTER normal dinner hours
Attire: most likely cocktail attire
Invitations: roughly 75 people, no children for obvious reasons.
Reception: planning an upbeat party w/DJ. Serving alcohol and heavy hors d'oeuvres.

We have several conflicts:
1. Should we offer a "group babysitter"? Family and friends will be in from out of town and all staying at the same hotel where the ceremony/reception will be held. Some have small children.
2. Should we offer dinner instead of heavy hors d'oeuvres? The wedding would start late enough that serving a dinner seems inappropriate.
3. How late is too late to actually begin the ceremony, considering it's New Year's Eve?
4. What time should the bride/groom depart? Right after the ball drops, or around 1 am?
5. Should we officially end the party at, say, 2am? Or, let it run it's course?

2007-03-10 19:05:21 · 5 answers · asked by _Studio 2 in Weddings

I would like to chat with some really fun, interesting, funny, intelligent and possibly even spiritual (metaphysical) or vegetarian friends.. chat and get to know and eventually meet.

Must be animal lovers and love going out and having a good time. I would like responsible people though, that i can count on and not flakes. Over 30.

Its ok to instant message me. My name is amadeuswashere.

2007-03-10 19:05:19 · 6 answers · asked by artistcreatorcomposer 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw an answer on another question that got me thinking. Most guys especially younger Ones are good at expressing themselves or their feelings to someone they really like &/or aren't sure how she might feel. If girls or woman want guys to open up & especially if she says she's always honest & upfront also why then when a guy does admit feelings do they run & avoid the issue? If you dont want to hurt the friendship wouldnt running away hurt it just as much if not more because of the hurt & confusion as to the whole thing let alone the fact that he opened up & worst of all not knowing if you two are still friends or if you've decided that you cant be friends or what. Everyone gets rejected at some point some way or another it just seems cruel to avoid it & hope he gives up especially if you want to keep him as a friend.

2007-03-10 19:04:41 · 2 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

i used to live in the uk and i moved to australia last month , i am living with my sister and brother here whom the last time i saw them i was 13 ( and i am 18 now) .i am going to this college and i am starting to feel out of place and homesick .The thing is that i m black and at college there are no black people they are only asian people mosty chinese.

i cant seem to fit in ,i try and talk to people and make friend but they seem to just want to stick to themselves as in hang around with there own race and they always speak their native language and i dont understand . in my classes they are 5 white australians and i try to be friendly with them and talk to them but its just the same .so its been a month now since i ve been in australia and haven had any friends and i am starting to feel home sick coz i dont have anyone to talk to. well i dont really get along with my sister (she is 25 by the way) because i havent grown up with her and the same with my brother . wat should i do

2007-03-10 19:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i missed about 15 minutes of the show. should i have listed this question under television.

2007-03-10 19:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but is it wrong that I have slept with his boyfriend since. Should I tell him or keep up the affair.

2007-03-10 19:03:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 36 and we have been together 12 years. We have no kids together; however, I have a 16 yr old son that lives with us. We have a home together but when I talk about marriage, he doesn't give me a straight answer. I feel he will never marry me but it is something I really want. Am I wasting my time? PS He has not told me he has loved me for like 10 years. I don't say it because I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable. I am pathetic, I know...

2007-03-10 19:03:05 · 13 answers · asked by Barbara S 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 29 years old, and not married yet .!! I wanna know what are the resons ?

2007-03-10 19:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetcherry 1 in Marriage & Divorce