Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

I have been stressing over this. My best friend (like a sister) has been confiding in me that she is chatting w/ an ex friend from her child hood. He is a man and she confided that he has kept in touch with her for years. She has been married for almost 12 years now and shes confused. She's never really been happy (from what I can tell and what she's told me), and so Im wondering if she's interested in this man for all the reasons her husband isnt fulfilling in her.

I dont want to be the person that says, "YOUR MARRIED! Think about that!" but she thinks she has strong feelings for him. And is now considering leaving her husband for this man or atleast to see if something more exists with him.

I want her to be happy but I dont know what the right advice is to give her as they have been to counseling, and her husband does have anger and emotional issues. What should I say when she brings this up again?

2007-03-10 00:31:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 00:31:13 · 19 answers · asked by eghoney101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have noticed when i go out to clubs or bar/lounge's that if i eat beans before , that when i expell gas that it seems to turn the hotie's on. if the aroma is strong the animsl instincts seem to come and the babe's want to go home with me. has anyone else had this happen. thank you

2007-03-10 00:30:40 · 12 answers · asked by Knows it all 2 in Singles & Dating

he's asking for a remembrance from me, so I don't know what to give!

2007-03-10 00:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last night I went out with my bf, one my friends and some of his friends for some drinks. I thought everything was fine but then my bf suddenly decided that we had to go home and he was rly quiet and moody but said everything was fine so I just ignored his behaviour. The next morning he said he didn't want us to go out with his friends anymore but should just do things on our own. At first I thought he was just trying to tell me that he wanted some 'boy' time with his friends without me, but then he said his friends had been making fun of me, although he wouldn't tell me they had said. I'm not particularly bothered what his friends think as that's their problem and I've been perfectly nice to them and think they are probably just jealous as they're single and in their 30s while my bf and I are 21. I hate the way they've upset my bf though and think he should find some 'true' friends but at the same time don't want to leave him cut off from these supposed mates. Any advice?

2007-03-10 00:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by victoria_hnt 1 in Friends

Well, I just wonder why they cant stop moaning so loudly or screaming. If there is anything that can stop this pls let me know.

2007-03-10 00:29:02 · 14 answers · asked by oyinbo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 00:28:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 00:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by BINH T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is that the first thing that turns on a guy cuz i dont dress sexy and i wouldn't wanna since i'm not even allowed but often i wonder if that's the reason why no guy likes me?

2007-03-10 00:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One time he had his shirt off and we were laying in his bed watching tv
Another, All I did was walk up, trace his chest with my fingers and tall him how sexy he looked and walked away.
The other time he had his shirt and pants off and I was sittng with my head on his chest.
Is this bad for someone to do to a guy with a g/f??

2007-03-10 00:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

there's this my uncle, He's been annoying me, and I can't take it anymore.sometimes i just ignore him.

2007-03-10 00:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

as i came on here for support last time i hope i,m not getting on anybody,s nerves. my mum died in my arms a short time ago we are going to put her ashes in the sea on mothers day as she lived near the sea but i cant help feeling were just throwing her away i feel so sad but have no friends to talk to so thank you for letting me let it out sue

2007-03-10 00:24:25 · 7 answers · asked by susiesnowdrop 3 in Family

me and one of my best friends (who is a female), are really good friends, we share almost everything and are kinda a little more than just friends, but lately shes been a completely ***** to me lately, and only me, she always pokes and prodes at me for almost anything and is MUCH nicer to everyone else around us, but i still find myself attached to her and dont want to stop being her friend, and i dont think wants to either but is just being a SUPER ***** to me for no reason, what should i do?

2007-03-10 00:22:22 · 8 answers · asked by DollyDagger 3 in Singles & Dating

girls with
- a big bum and small boobs
- a small bum and big boobs
- a big bum and boobs
- or a small bum and boobs???

2007-03-10 00:22:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 8th grade and theres this guy whose in ALL my clases except math and his locker is right next to mine. I can tell he likes me because he always says "Can I carry your books" or "Here, I'll get that for you" which I thought was sweet at first, but then if i say "No, its ok, I'll do it myself", he'll start screaminging "OH PLEASEEEE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEEEEEEEEE" in front of everyone and really humiliate me.

Anyway, I REALLY don't like this guy because he always annoys me. He always asks for "help" (its more like copying down my answers and cheating), and poking me CONSTANTLY and chanting my name over and over and over. My locker is right next to his, unfortunatly. This week he's been begging me for my screen name which i don't want to give. What should I do? How can I get him to stop? I tried ignoring him and occasionaly yelling at him (when I get really frustrated), but he just doesn't take the hint that I don't like him!

2007-03-10 00:19:10 · 14 answers · asked by Alice 3 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy whom, i am really close with. we hang out together, talk and stuff. well, he has his girl, but he's from another school. we talk about her rarely. i know he's off limits, but i just want to be with him. he annoys me in those cute ways and even though he does annoy me, i don't care, i like him. he's the one who comes to me and sits beside me. we know what we do. he didn't even want me to go to the party because he said that i might get drunk there. he wasn't allowed to the party though. and i heard from some people that he isn't with his girl now. what do i do?

2007-03-10 00:19:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do when your parents compare you to your best friend? it sickens me. she gets better grades than me and that's the only thing. the only reason she gets better grades is because she retains things more than me. besides, we have different classes and i have all the difficult teachers. its not fair. she doesn't study and she never turns in her hw on time. i ALWAYS turn in my hw on time. i just have difficulties on tests, which is not my fault. i work so hard u know. my friend is not part of this family. she's not my twin. why does she always have to be compared to me? and i dont even know which of my parents is worst in comparing us. what do i do? cuz im tired of it.

2007-03-10 00:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-10 00:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by chan l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 00:17:29 · 22 answers · asked by RAX 1 in Weddings

ok well there is this guy and he is always talkin to me and like always around me and all his frineds thinks he likes me and just dosent wanna admit cuz, he always talks to me around me , defends me, says i am rele cool and he likes to hang out with me, and we talk like a ton during the day and then like 2 or 3 hours on the phone at nite...what do yall think??

2007-03-10 00:17:24 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Katie is head over heels ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

One time he had his shirt off and we were laying in his bed watching tv
Another, All I did was walk up, trace his chest with my fingers and tall him how sexy he looked and walked away.
The other time he had his shirt and pants off and I was sittng with my head on his chest.
Is this bad for someone to do to a guy with a g/f??

2007-03-10 00:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi Friends, i got engaged with a girl before one year. At first meet. I dont like she. But she was well educated like me and good in nature so i think on her again. I asked her that "we are perfect for each other. But personality wise i dont like you. Please tell me what should i do?" She replied "personality can be change and i can". I decided to trust her. It was the ray of hope that led me to engaged with her. Now one year have been passed. She had tried to change her personality. But still i haven't found my dream person in her. And in this one year she started to love me. And still there is no such emotions in me for her. Now i am in dillema that what should i do? Should i marry her even though i dont like her? Some one told me "forcefully start to love her later on you will find similar emotions for her". is this happens? is it true? please advice me what should i do? Please help me take fair decision? We both are very well in career and education and from middle class family.

2007-03-10 00:16:06 · 14 answers · asked by indrajeetsinh k 1 in Weddings

I’ve heard a strange and stupid idea from some people, they said that Chinese men are sick and Chinese women are cheap and like foreigners, it shocked me a lot, because I’ve spent 8 years in China that I nearly forget how to speak in English, but I’ve never got such a feeling! Of cause men in the south of this country are relatively thin but they are not sick and during my travel in the north of china, I even feel very surprise because 180cm is just the average height of male! Northern Chinese men with Mongolian blood or Huns blood seem to be the strongest men on this planet! Chinese women are never easy and cheap, I dare say that 60% of them are very traditional, 30% are modern but not easy, of cause, easy girls exist in every country, but China is much much better than my homeland. Even in Shanghai, the city which has hundreds of thousands of foreigners, the proportion of the women who do not marry with Chinese men is very small, and many women choose to do so because they are older than 30 years thus they may met some difficulties in finding a local guy and further more, women who marry with a foreigner tend to be marginalised while men who married with a “Yang Niu” (foreign lady) are strongly praised. (Got it from many of my Chinese friends, may be is not true). Too many words! I’d like to known if you hold the same view point, where do you get it, all in all, I love Chinese people!

2007-03-10 00:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have quite a few mates but I feel I'm losing some of them.
I was going round to Art with them and 1 of my other mates after form. Then 1 of them said "sorry Abby we have to go somewhere b4 Art n u can't come" I had to follow them coz it's the only way 2 get 2 art. They didn't go anywhere and I think they just sed it 2 get rid ov me. Also they tend to run off after class if I am with them. Also they have lots of 'private chats' and leave me out ov groups. I've neva been nasty 2 them. What shall i do?

2007-03-10 00:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by xoxprincessabbyxox 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ways to tell her but not anyone else there at school

2007-03-10 00:13:11 · 24 answers · asked by C A 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 00:12:34 · 20 answers · asked by Elmer B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am surprised at some of the petty questions out there like, my boyfriend is sleeping with 2 other girls, do you think he likes me.
or, my boyfriend beat the crap out of me because someone looked at me in the grocery store should i forgive him.
WAKE UP PEOPLE.

2007-03-10 00:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by Archie. 2 in Singles & Dating

well....keepin it short and sweet...
I was in love wid a guy.......and i mean I LOVED him a lot...
but he hated me...and he still does.... :(
There's this gurl in my class...she's like lost her love too....the same way as i did.....
wat she is doin is .....trying to get close to my guy especially wen i'm around...and the guy too gives her attention to make me feel hurt and embarassed !!!!!!
The gal later on says she considers him her BROTHER !!!
Wud u believe that ???
ANyways ...my question is.....do u guys have any idea y is doin this to me ?? didnt she lose her love too ?? den y is she makin me jealous ????

2007-03-10 00:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by ღ♥~Samantha~♥ღ 2 in Singles & Dating

You know the kind of Richard I'm talking about. From what I read here the answer is a YES by a landslide.

They should make a group like alcoholics anonymous for women with this kind of addiction.

2007-03-10 00:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 00:11:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings