Ways to tell her but not anyone else there at school
2007-03-10 00:13:11 · 24 answers · asked by C A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hunny.. thats really cute u have puppy love but jumpin out and telling her ur undying love might not be the right way to go.. why dont u instead let her know that u like her by gestures e.g. givin her a flower, complimenting her.. and only increase ur gestures and eventualy tell her of ur love IF she is welcoming.. if u sense negative vibes.. stop b4 u get hurt.. Key plan is.. Take it slow.. be sweet but most of all be yourself. :D Good Luck
2007-03-10 00:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by *PYT* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man, don't you just hate the people who answer your question and say your too young to love!!??!!
well, believe me, you not to young. 13 year olds are still people!!
i say, if you truely know this girl, and truely love her than you should give it a shot. even if she's like popular and your not or if its the other way around at least let her know your feelings. and if your a bit shy to do that ask your friend to do it or maybe at a dance, ask her to dance during a slow song... girls don't bite and i'm pretty sure that she'll admire that you told her yourself, even if she doesn't have the same feelings. i would admire a guy who said that they liked me, even if i didn't like them. although that would never happen, ok, enough on me... just tell her... and if she doesn't like you don't hang on to her forever, i've done it, and i can't let go now!! and if she likes you too then ask her out and congrates!!!!!
as for telling her and not having anyone know then just tell her yourself when no ones around.. it will be worth it.
2007-03-11 13:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what you have in common with the girl. For example, If you both like 50 Cent, ask her If she wants to come over to your house, and hear some of his music with you. Finding something that you both like can really help you. If you both like the same " Music Celebrity " ... It can give you more to start a conversation with ... You can watch some videos of the artist, hear some music, and now adays, you can even find a movie that the artist is in ... Do you get what I'm saying ?? ... Talk to the girl, it's not hard ! See what you have in common, and then it gets easy.
2007-03-10 00:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13, I would ask you what you mean by "I love this girl".
Open up and talk to this little girl and just get to know her.
Be close friends and forget the "love" stuff. You have to know someone really well to love them. Think about what her feelings are and is she the same adolescent age?
2007-03-10 00:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating ask her out on a date. Somewhere not to loud or too quiet. If you haven't been together with this girl long i wouldn't use the "L" word quite yet. Tell her you have feelings for her instead. If your feeling are really as strong as you say, you definitely don't want to scare her. Take it slow.You have a lot of life left to live. Don't let your feelings left unsaid. If you are not dating, ask her out or if she'll be willing to eat lunch with you. Depending on both her popularity and yours, anything you do say may get out.
2007-03-10 00:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel, im in middle school too and i think i found the most perfect person ever. talk with her be her friend eat with her at lunch. maybe have a group of friends come over and invite her too. these are just a few things that i try to do
2007-03-10 00:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by thecowisnow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first response. At the age of 13 you are to young to know what love is, you could be infatuated with her, study study study... your school work should be the number one thing on your list right now. Good luck
2007-03-10 00:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you are suffering from what is known as puppy-love. Put your attention on your education because that is the one thing you will have that no one can take away from you no matter who she is. Then when the time is right, you will find the right girl or she will find you!
2007-03-10 00:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by vba_blueangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute, ur still you, boy, you don't love her yet, you jst feel the you have a crush on her...don't ask her to be ur gf...your too young to go that....maybe, wait for the right time...maybe, when ur in 4th yr highschool or college....^_^
but if you want to know how to tell what you feel on her...
make friends with her, don't tell her what you feel in a personal way, make a letter and give it to her secretly...
or if you can't do that, for example......borrow here notebook and put you letter in the first page of her notebook and give it back to her, let her know, find out that letter...GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-10 00:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry sweetie but u dont love this girl.at 13 u have crushes.i am sure by next week u will think that u r in love again.try to be friends with her.u guys can hang out after school.trust it is not love.
2007-03-10 00:20:55 · answer #10 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋