Why Some People Hold Such a Strange View point to Chinese Men and Chinese Women?

Question

I’ve heard a strange and stupid idea from some people, they said that Chinese men are sick and Chinese women are cheap and like foreigners, it shocked me a lot, because I’ve spent 8 years in China that I nearly forget how to speak in English, but I’ve never got such a feeling! Of cause men in the south of this country are relatively thin but they are not sick and during my travel in the north of china, I even feel very surprise because 180cm is just the average height of male! Northern Chinese men with Mongolian blood or Huns blood seem to be the strongest men on this planet! Chinese women are never easy and cheap, I dare say that 60% of them are very traditional, 30% are modern but not easy, of cause, easy girls exist in every country, but China is much much better than my homeland. Even in Shanghai, the city which has hundreds of thousands of foreigners, the proportion of the women who do not marry with Chinese men is very small, and many women choose to do so because they are older than 30 years thus they may met some difficulties in finding a local guy and further more, women who marry with a foreigner tend to be marginalised while men who married with a “Yang Niu” (foreign lady) are strongly praised. (Got it from many of my Chinese friends, may be is not true). Too many words! I’d like to known if you hold the same view point, where do you get it, all in all, I love Chinese people!

Answer 1

Hey all i say is that they shouldnt be trusted behind a steering wheel..but other than that their fine

Answer 2

Chinese people are OK by me. I have a best friend who's Chinese and he says that it's normal for southern China men to be smaller in stature than northern China. With regards to the cheap angle, I just think they are frugal and spend less on indulgences as my friend is only first generation born here and his ancestors grew up in more modest surroundings so saving money is very ingrained. The women angle I can't comment on other than to say I see more chinese women with foreigners in the U.S. than vice versa.

Answer 3

As with almost every creed, colour and nation of the world, there are alot of ignorant opinions. When a person or group of people express a negative its due to the fact that they cannot be bothered to educate themselves about the people they no nothing about. They sit around and are spoonfed the nonsense that other ignorant people tell them and think that its gospel. Unfortunately, we still live in a world full of extremely sad people. If you dont know anything about the people you're dissing then educate yourself before talking negatively about them. Go see the country... hell... we have internet!!! Read about them... Stop demeaning degrading groups when you know nothing about them. There are too many people and i hate to say this, but are narrowminded and racist and they should spend time looking at themselves before dissing any other race. Personally, i think chinese people are hardworking, strong and cultured people who look after their own. Other races could learn a thing or two about the positives, rather than jumping on the usual bandwagon of knocking people down. For god sake people, grow up!!!

Answer 4

No i hadn't stereotyped the Chinese that way before, or now.

Answer 5

Good Stuff, partenr. May I offer this chanllenge, that you keep showing People, that false Images, can be deciving, hurtful ans most of the time, wrong? Keep it up! I like your honesty. Yes! I think you're right? But I'm impressed with how you've out it. Would you be interested in joining Politics?

Answer 6

some people are just narrow minded i have no problem with any type of foreigners what so ever take no notice of these people :)

Answer 7

Its just someone being raciest. There is always someone out there that is going to make rude and demeaning comments. Most of the time its out of ignorance and fear and just plan stupidity. But don't worry. Its not right but it happens.

Answer 8

Honestly, the people who have that viewpoint are just ignorent people. They know nothing of the world and just regurgitate whatever sterotypes were spoon fed to them from the media.

Answer 9

Is it true that chinese men are not well endowed, and the women have cracks that are split across rather than straight down?.

Answer 10

I do admit that China women do not portray themselves well when overseas. They often land up as someone's mistresses or girl friend. They are good at scheming. Money is what that is in their upper most brain. I'm sorry but I've seen one too many to have any good opinion about them.