Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

I have been married to my wife over 8yrs now (together 9+), and we have been seperated for about 2 months now, and we have two children together. She says she was not happy, and I was to controlling.

I told her I wanted for us to work on things. She says that she needs time apart but she wants the same. However, she has told me that she has been with someone else (she says meaningless, just sex), and this hurts very much.

Am I wrong for being hurt, we are seperated after all. I don't know if I could put this new revelation behind. I feel I will always be competing, and thinking if he was better. I find it very hard to sleep, always seeing her with someone else, and when I finally do pass out, I have nightmares of it.

Should I just let time go by and see what happens? Should I move on now? What?

2007-03-10 23:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 23:31:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-10 23:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister is a 25 year old single mother who pretends she does not have responsibilities. she recently moved back into my parents house who already has my brother, wife and his children there (he pays the bills). she sleeps on their sofa while my two nieces sleep on the floor. she says she goes to work at 7am therefore it's my sister-in-law or mother that gets my nieces ready for school and drops them off; but she comes home after midnight high and smelling of weed or sometimes not at all, so my mother or sister-in-law are the ones making sure that their homework is done, they're fed, bathed etc.. my sister does not help out with home expenses cuz according to her she is always broke which is odd cuz she swears she is always at work. when she is at home she is always yelling at her children or asleep on the sofa. Their father is in jail and also a pot-head. As kids we did not have the best home environment which makes me worry cuz i love them and they deserve better.

2007-03-10 23:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by m b 1 in Family

about 8 years ago, i had a friend with benifets while i had a gf (this gf is now my wife) i really liked that girl but i couldnt dump my gf cause our parents knew each other and i was afraid of what they would say, so i had to leave my friend with benifets and i just ignored her it ws really hard!! a few weeks ago my friend and i got into contact and i decided to go to holiday over at his house with my wife, when we landed at the airport he was waiting for us and he took us to his home, his wife was my friend with benifets and as soon as she realised who i was she just looked down, she avoided me for the 2 weeks i was there and never once spoke to me unless nesary, i still have feelings for her and i dont know what to do, i heard her having sex with my friend (her husband) and i just got angry and i wanted to hit him!! and she also just found out that she's pregnant!! i dont like my wife!! should i tell my friend with benifets that i love her? my friend really loves her but i lov mor

2007-03-10 23:28:53 · 14 answers · asked by zayed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I see you soon.

2007-03-10 23:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by JOLENE M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 23:24:34 · 1 answers · asked by ishu 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 23:23:36 · 28 answers · asked by obey g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 23:23:13 · 7 answers · asked by Line L 1 in Singles & Dating

and how many of those that don't have they would love to have one? Come on be honest and who knows you may find a good affair here too lol

2007-03-10 23:21:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,I need some Advice my Husband of 19 Years has been seeing a Sex Worker for 4 Months,He Told me Today,I asked had he slept with her and he said Yes on 4 Different Occasions and they have met in a Private Place about 6 Times to talk,He wants me to forgive him and To Forget it happened,Should I Forgive Him or cut my Losses,Would be grateful for any advice,Cheers.

2007-03-10 23:20:59 · 24 answers · asked by Spud 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi gorgeous Aussie women!
Im a Sri Lankan, now residing down under. I always admired Aussie girls, mainly coz they are so cute and friendly.
I tried my best to get an Aussie g/f. But yet, unfortunate. I failed so many times.
Can you girls tell me... do you'll really hate our brownish (indian looking) skin?
I have seen many going out with black africans, and various other dark skinned nationalities. But, very rarely with the people of Indian skin.
Please girls... help me. Be honest. Tell me your feelings.
Cheers :)

2007-03-10 23:16:19 · 6 answers · asked by Toyota Lover 2 in Singles & Dating

i really need some help here. there are two guys one called henry and the other max
they are bothe really cool but henry is two years older than me and doesn't really know me and we haven't talked yet but he plays the drums and he is just so cute
but
max is really sweet he is the same age as me and he talks to me all the time we are really good friends, i don't know what i should do?
stay with my dream henry and hope someday he will talk to me
or
max my sweet friend who i think i like a bit more

2007-03-10 23:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by Pastinie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 23:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by my baby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me & my wife want to put a bit more fun in to are night time activites were both a bit on the big side any suggestions would be nice ???

2007-03-10 23:13:10 · 18 answers · asked by roy m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-10 23:11:49 · 18 answers · asked by palomarian 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I met this really pretty girl in a club. Now, I am very direct, and I don`t like playing games. My line was, "Hi, I think you are very pretty. I would like to get to know you, so whats your name?"
After chatting for about 30 mins I got her number, and now I want to see her again. So I will sms her, should I once again mention what I think? My reasoning is that I don`t want to waste time, I want her to know I am interested, and then I want to get to know her! I don`t want to play mind games!

Girls? What do you think?

2007-03-10 23:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by K S 1 in Singles & Dating

After an acrimonious divorce and bitter financial dispute she sms's me on Valentines day?Shes remarried and has been a b...h ever since we split up!!!

2007-03-10 23:09:05 · 22 answers · asked by freddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 23:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a liar. he has giving me alot of reasons to believe this.how can i do some checking up on him with out having to spend money. my sister moved away from him 2 years ago and he seemed to ease his way back into her life.he is a smooth talker.(of course he is a lawyer)so he is very good with words. my sister went on match.com when she first moved here and he found out and set up his own profile with a different picture of him so he could monitor her.he says he doesnt drink but u found a bottle of vodka in his bag when he came to visit her.also is there anyway he can tap into our computer to monitor whats going on and how can i find out.he also told her he was hit by a car and was knocked unconsious doent remember anything about it until he woke up in the hospital.he said they did a cat scan and then sent him home.i find that story fishy.if you have head trauma hospital keep you over night for observation.. i think. he has been getting a divorce for 3 years now.she knows how i feel

2007-03-10 23:03:51 · 6 answers · asked by crownsisters2003 1 in Singles & Dating

R.I.P CHADD
(you will be miss)
A young boy was kill at a party on the 09 of March. When will this stop? The young man didn't have anything to do with what was going on he was just there to have fun. In the wrong place at the wrong time. What do you tell your kid when they have lost their best friend? How do you help them move on.

2007-03-10 23:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

...what's the first place you'll go to, or what would you do?

And, it has to be something you can afford, too.

2007-03-10 23:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Latina 2 in Singles & Dating

I find it a bit annoying and creepy, but he always insists that girls love it. I say it embarrasses both of us when he does it. So maybe I can get an impartial jury verdict? :)

2007-03-10 23:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by acural7 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 23:03:20 · 6 answers · asked by redzeoranger2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 23:03:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi.
I need to learn how to take it slow with girls. I meet girls, get their numbers, and try arrange dates with them the next week. Like coffee for example or so. I know girls must be made to feel comfortable and stuff. I am pretty much comfy with everyone, but not everyone is like me. and I think it may freak them out. I don`t try to kiss them or anything, I just take them out to chat.
So I would like to know, after having met a girl this Friday, when should I sms her? (I sms) And should I ask her to do something this coming weekend? How often should I get hold of her, and what do I say when I sms - is it strictly "do you want to meet up" or have a chat with her over sms? After we have a chat, when should I sms/contact her again? I don`t want to mess it up!!!

Any advice?

2007-03-10 23:02:20 · 3 answers · asked by K S 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm Chinese.I think I'm lonely.
When I was very young , i was chirpy and outgoing.But when i was seven,i went to my friend's house and fall the central heating.I was very fear.Although his mother didn't criticize me.but i daren't went to his home.I hardly ever contact with him and other classmates from then on.So,i gradually introverted .
I study in middle school now.but i haven't friend's.what should i do?

2007-03-10 23:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by ccj_2007 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 22:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by lou-anne 1 in Family

2007-03-10 22:55:37 · 18 answers · asked by rock 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 22:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by SEE YOU LATER 2 in Singles & Dating