Hi. I need to learn how to take it slow with girls. - Girls perspective.?

Question

Hi.
I need to learn how to take it slow with girls. I meet girls, get their numbers, and try arrange dates with them the next week. Like coffee for example or so. I know girls must be made to feel comfortable and stuff. I am pretty much comfy with everyone, but not everyone is like me. and I think it may freak them out. I don`t try to kiss them or anything, I just take them out to chat.
So I would like to know, after having met a girl this Friday, when should I sms her? (I sms) And should I ask her to do something this coming weekend? How often should I get hold of her, and what do I say when I sms - is it strictly "do you want to meet up" or have a chat with her over sms? After we have a chat, when should I sms/contact her again? I don`t want to mess it up!!!

Any advice?

Answer 1

well u get 2 know a lady..
talk 2 her. and dont ask her number.
make her smile,laugh..be abit cheeky
but do not ask for her number for 5 days.
make her want u more than u do..
take her out..
just be urself...O and dont flirt just be cool,smooth,calm..
like ur professional at this.
and if u even get her number do not call after 3 days.
and when u do calll her..do not talk much.
and just call her twice a week.
goodluck.

Answer 2

i see nothing wrong in your approach, but if you;ve had unpleasant experiences try not to meet her alone the first time, or first two times, ask her to bring a friend, you bring one, and have fun, talk, and so on. after you meet a girl and she gives you her number she expects to be called or contacted, so don;t wait long or she will think you;re not interested, or that you are the kind of guy that goes out fishing for females. try to create an image of yourself that she will find comfort with, you want her to feel safe around you :)

Answer 3

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