After an acrimonious divorce and bitter financial dispute she sms's me on Valentines day?Shes remarried and has been a b...h ever since we split up!!!
2007-03-10 23:09:05 · 22 answers · asked by freddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for taking the time to answer,after reading some of the female answers I can see why she did it? Women know how other women think,don't you girls?She is pure evil in a human shell,believe me......
2007-03-11 00:09:55 · update #1
Dunno, but I would stop wondering right now, even if she wanted you back, it sounds like you know you are better off without her!
2007-03-10 23:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take "Aint my brains" advice. I could not have put it better myself. It was a year for you...7 for me. We've been almost broken up 6 mo's. I'm not trying to take from what you have but just want you to see that someone feels what you are going thru email me if ever you need to talk. I've been thru all the emotions one can carry. Trust me when i tell you, it gets better. Do not, i repeat, do NOT contact him. Keep your dignity. When you wanna call him, think about the last ****** up thing he did to you. It'll change your mind real quick! Happy Valentines day love! you are not alone! stay strong, it's only for a few more hours = )
2016-03-28 23:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be all that to you know but she was once your heartthrob and lover. You made love to this b..h! There will always be a part of her with you despite the way your marriage ended. She also has a part of you with her forever in her heart even though she's remarried. There is nothing wrong in wishing your ex a happy val's day.
2007-03-11 00:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend it never happened!
hopefully, you didn't respond to the creepy v-day sm....
she could be unhappy in her marrige and seeing if there is a chance between you and her.
here is a trick that i use when feeling weak behind an ex...remember all the horrible stuff that made you divorce in the first place.
don't get sucked into that!!
2007-03-10 23:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possible reasons come to mind;
She misses you and regrets breaking up
She just wants to be friends and resume normal diplomatic relations
She knows that getting such a card will awaken memories, possibly be painful, and above all, ensure you spend time thinking about her!
Been there, done that I'm ashamed to say!
2007-03-10 23:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Avondrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could honestly be just because she remembers when things were good. It gets easier to remember the good bits and forget the bad as time goes on. I can get quite emotional about my ex husband until I remember what a s**t he really was.
2007-03-10 23:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To rub in how much better her v-day is 6 years later but on a good note it could be she could miss what she had with you and v-day is that day of reflections
2007-03-10 23:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either she's being a smart a-- or she realizes she acted harshly and is testing the waters to see where you're at. Prehaps she's not as happy with her new husband as she thought she would be.
2007-03-10 23:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably a wrong number. She sent Valentines Day messages to a number of people and included you by mistake.
I'd ignore it.
2007-03-10 23:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Gillian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel she did this just to wish you a Happy Valentine's Day I dont hink she had any motive behind it then just to be nice and friendly.
2007-03-10 23:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's all mind games, and she's trying to see if you still care. She would probably like the attention of knowing you might still care. I wouldn't rise to it x
2007-03-10 23:11:59 · answer #11 · answered by jellybean55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋