How do you know your kids safe? Is it safe to send them to party's?

Question

R.I.P CHADD
(you will be miss)
A young boy was kill at a party on the 09 of March. When will this stop? The young man didn't have anything to do with what was going on he was just there to have fun. In the wrong place at the wrong time. What do you tell your kid when they have lost their best friend? How do you help them move on.

Answer 1

i am sorry to hear of your loss as far as letting kids go to parties it sounds like they are getting old enough to have to have a chaperon or 2 at party's that way things dont get out of hand may even try to have aparty at your house for the kids make sure you talk to yours about drug use and drinking nothing worse than a highschool drop out hooked on drugs or one that overdoses before you even knew u had a problem one last thing your kids do need a little freedom i guess you will have to trust there judgment u raised them they are smarter and listened to u more than u may think they did also try not to be overbearing

Answer 2

We need to be honest with our children and let them know we are here for sometime not forever, but we are making the best of the time we have here or we should try. I just lost my mother on 3-5-07 and my son is 14, he helped me through our loss and I am so proud of him. I have been very open and honest with my son and he needs to know what really happens in this world and what he is to expect even at a young age, it helps them understand and be better prepared. He is very strong and very helpful, I am so grateful to have him.

Answer 3

take it from a kid i am not that social kinda goth but i suggest counseling

Answer 4

Get him counseling

Answer 5

evryone has there own way of deeling with things all u can do is cunfort them and let them deel with it there own way.