Hi,
I met this really pretty girl in a club. Now, I am very direct, and I don`t like playing games. My line was, "Hi, I think you are very pretty. I would like to get to know you, so whats your name?"
After chatting for about 30 mins I got her number, and now I want to see her again. So I will sms her, should I once again mention what I think? My reasoning is that I don`t want to waste time, I want her to know I am interested, and then I want to get to know her! I don`t want to play mind games!
Girls? What do you think?
2007-03-10 23:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by K S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like direct guys.. I don't like guys that aren't strait forward. If you are a direct person DO IT
My brother met his wife at a club, found her address details from her drivers licence and sent her the biggest bouquet of flowers to her. She loved it... it was the first time he ever did anything like that before. Shocked us all in the family
2007-03-10 23:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yah the way you think is very good, but most girls might be scared of such a direct approach, take it easy, meet her, talk, see how she responds to what you tell her. the fact that she gave you her number is a good sign, it means she might be interested. on the other hand you don;t know how many times she has given that number. don;t mean to break your hopes, but anything is possible, and it is best to be cautious. if you really like her, as i told you before, call her, ask her out, and talk. childhood stories, school stories, friend stories, anything, ask her about her interests, talk as friends do. that way you;ll see what kind of person she is, and by the amount of info she gives, you will see if being straightforward is the way to approach her. the more info, the better :) be open towards her, try not to hide, just reveal yourself to her so she will have ground for a choice, wether she wants you close to her or not. good luck and be well :)
2007-03-11 07:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by vehrim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to always tell her shes pretty or beautiful, that gets old and boring real quick. I had an ex who was always telling me everywhere we went "your the prettiest girl in here" if we would go try on clothes he would tell me "man your hot"...It's nice to know every once in a while tht we still got it and that you still find us attractive but don't be pushy..and a little advice you met her ina club don't try and change her unless you are willing to change yourself..this includes she cant drink neither can you..she cant hang with her friends either can you..a relationship is 50/50...sorry i have a dumb *** boyfriend whos trying to pull this crap on me now and the only thing I can think of is it didnt bother him when he met me why does he want it change now? -blah- sorry if this doesnt help
2007-03-11 07:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by evil_munchgin420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but I think you need to give a serious thought before falling in love with a girl you met in a club...She might be a good one or simply a bad one...Just be smart in your moves when you pursue her...Discern well so that you don't land yourself in trouble...well, by all means, if you think you wanna get to know her well, proceed with your pursue
2007-03-11 07:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward with her.
Meet her over coffee or something, tell her that you're interested in her, and would like to get to know her better, and see where it goes from there.
There isn't much you have to do. Take her to coffee, or dinner.
Just ask the basic questions etc. etc. Goodluck!
2007-03-11 07:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by hero_racer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, don't SMS her. True gentlemen know how to ask a woman out! Now how is that for direct! :-)
2007-03-11 07:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude,
Send her this song "Radio Proposal" by TD Lind - should do the trick.
You can listen to it on www.myspace.com/tdlind
2007-03-11 07:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little intense and need to relax some....so call her and ask her out....but take a deep breathe...you are not on the fast track here....have some fun....
2007-03-11 07:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-03-11 07:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell her that u don't want to waste time and all ....you will scare her away.Just take her out and see what happens.
2007-03-11 07:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋