if you can question it then he probably is but here are the signs i missed. but thank god at least my husband felt enough remorse to confess. took him 2 months tho and 4 times of sleeping with the beatch tho which pises me off.
making calls from bathroom
making excuses every single day for having to go out
going out every weekend with the boys
coming home later than usual and blaming it on traffic ect
stopping normal activities or starting new ones (mine stopped going to church and started drinking again)
more or less sex (sex was our problem, he only cheated cause i wouldnt give him any even tho he begged so when he no longer was begging for it that was my biggest warning sign i missed)
2007-03-11 00:12:59
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answered by maylene1852 4
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you have measureit and compare it with earlier romantic moment you guys has together....(mind it that it is not 100% true still)
If your sex life is not that much active and he fall asleep before you...get alert..either he is too tired due to office work or having some affiar...
If he seems to extra cautious...you have to check why...guys when are cheating take extra care of their wife verbally and show extra love which is not usual earlier.
Call him at lunch time and ask for lunch together in a restaurant...and watch what he respond...again if he deny that does not mean he is cheating...but if it is regular feature you have to be cautious...
2007-03-10 23:33:11
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answered by Nisha Sharma 2
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it's easy if he has a cell phone. first logon to his account. then go to "view min. used" allow at least a day for calls to post. follow the number most called and ask for alex or a name you know you'll get a wrong number response, if it is a woman you don't know he is cheating. now wait till he asks you anything- even a stupid question and tell him "i don't know, why don't you call (number) and find out"
2007-03-10 23:50:12
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answered by Angel 1
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does he make up things to have to go do is he just not there when you need him is he spending time away from home more has he changed him dress or other things that he did not do before if yes to all he is cheating if you be live he is follow him a few times
2007-03-10 23:19:14
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answered by janet k 1
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What does your gut tell you? There must be a reason why you're asking this question...something has happened to make you question his fidelity. So, what happened? You're asking a very broad question that's hard to answer without at least some detail about what made you ask this question.
2007-03-10 23:18:07
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answered by heather_chavous 2
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look for the signs honey. and trust your gut feeling.
if you don't have a gut feeling that he is, then don't worry about it. focus on the good stuff and don't worry yourself everyday for absolutely nothing.
if you do have a gut feeling that he is, then trust it. is he working late a lot? does he lie a lot? is he "out with the boys" a lot? if you suspect he is cheating, you need to talk to him about it and most often... it's the answer that he gives you that blows his cover.
once a cheater, always a cheater.
hang in there. there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you right.
2007-03-10 23:20:59
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answered by impossiblemama 4
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When you are not having sex with him enough and he has let that be known and you refuse to do anything about it. If this scenario has gone on for a while then it's very likely.
2007-03-10 23:22:44
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answered by Anonymous
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you will know, you will feel it in your heart, he won't come home after work and make excuses for it. he won't touch you intimately, he won't be the same in bed. or out of bed for that matter. he will become rude to you so he can leave.
you will know by how he treats ya. and how it feels when he touches you.
you will know.
2007-03-11 00:03:25
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answered by ? 5
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You could see him, you could ask him, You could be like the rest of these women and just say all men are dogs,you could go with your first instinct,
2007-03-10 23:20:19
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answered by magnificentj 1
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he lies, isn't where he says he will be, acts like he had done something wrong, buys you flowers or gifts for no reason, unexplained calls or credit card charges, showers when he come home from work or a "business meeting".....there are lots of signs...look for them....hope it is not happening to you...good luck
2007-03-10 23:22:43
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answered by Anonymous
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