I'm Chinese.I think I'm lonely.
When I was very young , i was chirpy and outgoing.But when i was seven,i went to my friend's house and fall the central heating.I was very fear.Although his mother didn't criticize me.but i daren't went to his home.I hardly ever contact with him and other classmates from then on.So,i gradually introverted .
I study in middle school now.but i haven't friend's.what should i do?
2007-03-10 23:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by ccj_2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should forget about what happened. The past is the past and you cannot change it. Try and be more outgoing and make friends - you cannot make a friend unless you are willing to be a friend. Start a hobby or a sport that you think you will be good at - you should meet lots of people that way.
2007-03-10 23:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds scary, what you went through, but maybe use it to know people better. Everyone has had a scary moment in life and when you relate your moment with other people, they can relate their's with you.
You could use it to relate how important it is to be safe, many people get hurt or die from being uninformed or being in the same situation that you were in.
Hope this helps you......
2007-03-10 23:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try writing to him, you won't lose anything.
Just get involved in something you like, sports, dance and you'll quickly meet up with people with the same interests
2007-03-10 23:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by kinvadave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear you don't have many friends i am sure some one at school fells the same as you. why don't you try going to some school clubs see if you can make friends there. i think you should try to make friends with the lad you used to be friends with. good luck x
2007-03-10 23:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by debbie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to work on your self confidence, get out more and do things, meet people, join a chess, art, language class, anything like that, gets you meeting people....as soon as you work on getting confident,your life will improve you'll see. i wish you well
2007-03-10 23:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well its your life. we are controling ourselves if we want to stay gloomy in life we stay gloomy. but if we want to enjoy our life we enjoy. it is our decision which makes us what we are.
so in your case you have made a dicision that you are not going to make any friends and stay lonely.
if you want to make your life the best then enjoy and talk to every one and you will feel the very best of life.
Belive in yourself./
2007-03-10 23:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by popachi5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question, what does central heating have to do with it.. I think you should first learn english, and then go on from there.. Good luck.
2007-03-10 23:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need friends. get over the past and move on.
2007-03-10 23:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by LISA uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you living in one-mans country.
Smile and go on.
2007-03-11 00:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nyaru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build your confidence.Every thing that happens is not your
responsibility.Go with the flow.
2007-03-10 23:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋