Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

Even when they know how you feel since you have expressed your feelings thoroughly they still do it. I understand that this is just personality, and old habits are hard to break but I get tired of the put-downs and the stress I feelassociating with bossy people. Is there something I can do to keep them as friends and not be so annoyed - I don't feel respected.

2007-03-10 19:58:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-10 19:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by dogs_golden 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:55:57 · 16 answers · asked by Nishant A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an affair on my boyfriend, with my ex boyfriend i been knowing for years. I told him that i cheated on him with my exboyfriend. I told him we can work it out, but he still left. Now he want to make it workout. Two bad things: Me and my exboyfriend are engaged to be married and im pregnant for my exboyfriend. How do i tell him this without hurting him and keeping his friendship?

2007-03-10 19:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by desire4fantasygoddess 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by rob d 1 in Singles & Dating

i started dating a woman 2 yrs ago - had a great start with a lot of passion and sex. after 1 year, she accepted my ring too. problem is after that she started cooling off. we still hangout and do activities together, but i can feel that she has a wall up. sex has become rare and i now have to watch what i say to her.

i did push her into asking why she is doing what she is doing. she tells me she wants to take it slow. plus, she does not want to go through the bad breakups she had through her previous relationships.

could anyone throw light on what is probably going on.. why is she doing this?

2007-03-10 19:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

Can I use this club to contact people world wide for pen friends? Free registeration it says but I cannot read emails sent by other members.

2007-03-10 19:50:40 · 1 answers · asked by Goodluck 2 in Friends

Can I use this club to contact people world wide for pen friends? Free registeration it says but I cannot read emails sent by other members.

2007-03-10 19:50:18 · 1 answers · asked by Goodluck 2 in Friends

when i was in school there was a girl who always use to abuse me. she made my use to make a friend she like . she used me to such a extend that i started fearing from her . earlier i was very punctual in the class . i use to reach school even before time when no one has arrived .bcoz of her i started missing my auto and daily going late to the school. for that i daily use to get scholding from my father . in college also i have been treated like animal by every student . after finishing my graduation also i dint got any relaxtion and my past followed me to abuse me everywhere . yesterday when i was very happy that i got a job finally my mother started fighting with my father and with any reason started blaming me. i wanted to give happiness to my mother but she thinks something else .for whom i should earn...............and live for............just for poors

2007-03-10 19:46:03 · 7 answers · asked by Diksha A 3 in Family

2007-03-10 19:45:00 · 28 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok in the other question a gurl/ young woman was venting about how a boy asked her on a date or something to which she said no & yet he continued to ask & even to a point bug her about going out. My question is if women seem to often answer guys that ask them out that they dont like or feel the same for what should a guy do when they don't say anything & especially when they always claim they will be honest to the guy & send mix signals leading the guy to believe it was ok or the right time to try to take it to the next level. Obviously the guy should move on but I mean if a woman is in that situation even if she doesnt feel the same. Even if she wasnt want to be friends with the person anymore isn't better to just deal with it & answer instead of bailing or avoiding it especially though if you do want to try to be friends?

2007-03-10 19:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by mas8baller 3 in Singles & Dating

There was that man who I met through work. He was dumped by some hot blond. We had to have dinner together (because of work), and he went on how he was hurt and so on. I nodded and said things like "yes, oh, how awful". Then he asked: "But I am a good guy, good looking and nice?" I said "Sure you are, and you will find a woman one day who will make you happy." (I did not think him either)
Then we go back and it was evening, and dark (winter), and he jumped on me and tried to get me inside his place by force! He said later on that I "flirted" with him!
And there are so many others like this. You are just friendly with
them, indeed, but I never get personal, so why can't they understand that you may say nice things to them to cheer them up or what not, and it means just friendliness and nothing more.
Is it possible at all to be friendly to them without them assuming
impossible things?

2007-03-10 19:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by nev 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:40:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In school we talk nonstop and people even ask me if were goin out! he just likes me as a buddy but i like him more than a friend, so what should i do! Also, lately hes been a real jerk!

2007-03-10 19:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both like each other, shes given me all the hints, but im too stupid to ask her out, but im now to a point where im going to do it, but i want to do it in a special way to at least let her know i care for her. The thing is ,shes always stressed from study, and is always telling me this too, so i was thinking of getting her something to remind her to stop stressing out, like a cool gift she can look back at?.....need ideas. Its gone out of control, as i think she thinks i dont like her back, cause ive never really showed her any signs, apart from being around her, and shes always giving me hints....what should i do, she started asking me bout whether she should get back with her ex or not, and other stuff as well....but she flirts with me heaps.....i need to do something to show i like her though, it looks as though she thinks im not into her, which is totally the opposite, whats a good gift to get for a stressed girl?

2007-03-10 19:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by d p 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always called. And then, I had a sort of "calling plan" you see, I would call you at 9 and if you didn't answer, I'd wait 1 hour and try again, and if you didn't answer I'd just talk to you the next day because I didn't want to bother you. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me.

2007-03-10 19:40:01 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so my mom met this guy on the internet who she has talked to for a couple years or so and has fell in love with him!!! now her and her boyfriend are wanting me to pack up and leave the one i love and my 2 lil sisters (they want to stay and live with their dad) and my 2 best friends that have been like my sisters since i was 7 yrs old!!! I already tried tellin her i dont want to leave but she said he has a good job that pays good money!!!!! I dunno what to do cuz i dont want to leave my friends,sisters,and the one im totally in love with just so she can go four states away to a man that she met over the internet!!! i know i sound selfish but i dont want to leave the most important people in my life!!!!! for a guy and his son that i never met before in my life soooooo what should i do cuz i dont have much time to think this over im leaving in about 4 months!!! and she just told me this about 5 months ago but i didnt beleive her !!!!! oh gawd i need so much help!!!!!

2007-03-10 19:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am searhing for the answer to what the point that guy don't want to take the time out to get to know a women anymore

2007-03-10 19:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by lottiedallen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 19:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Tam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this girl from school, although shes not in any of my class, recently ive noticed that she sometimes stares at me when im not looking....does this mean she likes me?
how do i strike up a convo when i dont even see her much...she almost never goes to her locker...i cant just say hey watsup when shes walking down the hall..it'll be too akward

2007-03-10 19:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i tell her off?

2007-03-10 19:34:11 · 19 answers · asked by rob d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i asked a question few mins ago!!! i need answers please!!!!!!! :(

2007-03-10 19:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc

she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later saying she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.

whats the deal with her?

2007-03-10 19:33:03 · 20 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

Whether it be eyes, neck etc etc.....or is there more than just looks that first attracts you attention to the laddies? (for you guys especially )

2007-03-10 19:31:29 · 29 answers · asked by CM 3 in Singles & Dating

Does he want me??? That way?
My crush and I were in my room using the computer.
He asked if the cat always sleeps on my bed.
I said yes.
He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat
or there would be no where for him or something.
I said "Are you in my bed?"
He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

Does his statement mean he wants in my bed?

2007-03-10 19:28:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Perhaps someone you didnt consider at first.

2007-03-10 19:28:22 · 1 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if i should tell him or not. I'm kind of embarrassed..
should i ask my friend to tell him....so i won't be embarrassed?

2007-03-10 19:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all,

Help! I am in a date. Being a nerdy engineer, my brain is swamped by numbers and computer stuff. My readings include those very manly topics such as finance, business, war and politics, as well as computers and maths. This creates a huge problem when I hang out with girls. I was both nervous and nerdy and the girls don't find me interesting. How can I make my mindset more socializing and how can I make myself more interesting in front of the girls? What shall I read in leisure time? I really want to be able to carry out fun conversations... Thanks a lot!

2007-03-10 19:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering, if you have sex with someone before marriage...do you always remember them and and think of them when you think about your first time? do you feel like he/she will always be a part of you and vice versa? do you repent not being able to tell your loved one you saved yourself just for them and that you loved them and thought of them years before you met them, and that saving youself is the best gift you'll ever be able to give them?

im young and just curious to get some good answers. please gimme you thoughts and opinions.

2007-03-10 19:26:40 · 23 answers · asked by Alpha7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 19:26:30 · 31 answers · asked by kate06 1 in Singles & Dating