2007-03-10 19:45:00 · 28 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so would it be the girl to blame?
2007-03-10 19:50:49 · update #1
I'm not saying I'm going to do that I was just asking what you guys think about people who have sex on first dates
2007-03-10 19:54:56 · update #2
Its really your perogative. I, personally, don't because I only have sex with someone that I know, 100% sure, would be a good father....(you know, just in case I get pregnant).
2007-03-10 20:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Abby C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start having sex there is so much less time to get to know the other person. That is because once you start it is expected to be the norm. If you wait you will have a chance of finding out if you like this person as a companion and as a friend. And ultimately both of you could decide when the time is right for the two of you.
That being said, no one else can judge if it would be wrong for you to have sex on the first date. For me it would be wrong. It is dangerous to take chances with your health and the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy always exists unless you are post menopausal. Not worth it!
2007-03-11 05:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by HelpingHand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have sex with a girl on the first date, odds are I won't want to date her anymore. Just see her a few times afterwards for sex. Then she'll want to go out and do something, but I've already made the conquest. Why spend money on her? So in other words, if you like the guy, don't have sex. Just masterbate thinking about him. At least wait 5-6 dates. Make him want it.
2007-03-11 04:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? are you looking for blame? Why would you even ask this unless you have made plans already? On the first date? This is crazy, I surely wouldn't want a daughter or grand daughter to run out and have sex with some guy on the first date and if she did I'd have a name for her. They wouldn't print it.
2007-03-11 05:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally: yes. As a matter of practical concern: yes if you have any desire at all for a meaningful relationship.
Why: because as a woman, you will develop a bond from having sex that he will not. For him, it will short circuit the important "getting-to-know-you" part of developing a relationship. First and foremost above all else, you'll be a booty call. If he enjoys it, you'll be the first one he calls when he gets horny because he knows you're an easy lay. This is true, even if he doesn't really like you.
Everytime you do it with him you'll feel even closer to him but to him you're still just a ______. You can fill in the blank. Sex by itself does not make a man feel any closer to you. It's just physical gratification-nothing emotional about it.
Additionally, you're putting yourself at risk of unwanted pregnancy and STD's from someone you don't know well.
2007-03-11 05:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its wrong to have sex on your first date. Even you have many dates already its wrong. Married first before sex especially your the woman. Guy having sex is nothing lost with him not like the woman... How about if the guy nothing seen after having sex with you... Your the losser...
2007-03-11 04:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by edsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every little boy wants instant gratification--sex sex sex---how can it mean anything on a first, second, or third date??? Come on--get a grip--you want a baby or a disease??Yes it is wrong to have meaningless sex--he has the fun and you get the bad reputation. Is that so hard to understand???
2007-03-11 04:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a gift from God.
Premarital Sex is not the Devil.
Sex is beautiful and if you feel a connection the first date, let it flow.
Well as long you as youre not a skank hiding an STD
2007-03-11 05:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It makes the person look really cheap & easy. They probably are if they do sleep with a person on the first date. Sex is a gift from God, not something for people to exploit.
2007-03-11 04:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, sex is not wrong on the first date. Sex is an action that relives stress. Sex is just that.
2007-03-11 07:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by SunShine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋