We both like each other, shes given me all the hints, but im too stupid to ask her out, but im now to a point where im going to do it, but i want to do it in a special way to at least let her know i care for her. The thing is ,shes always stressed from study, and is always telling me this too, so i was thinking of getting her something to remind her to stop stressing out, like a cool gift she can look back at?.....need ideas. Its gone out of control, as i think she thinks i dont like her back, cause ive never really showed her any signs, apart from being around her, and shes always giving me hints....what should i do, she started asking me bout whether she should get back with her ex or not, and other stuff as well....but she flirts with me heaps.....i need to do something to show i like her though, it looks as though she thinks im not into her, which is totally the opposite, whats a good gift to get for a stressed girl?
2007-03-10 19:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by d p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm.. thats a tough one. But if i was u, i would make a book and be creative. Buy a book, like small one, and decorate each page. Like for example: Find a poem that expresses how much you feel for her and put it on one of the pages. Then maybe on another page, you could tell her what you like about her. Look in magazines to find certain words so they stand out and that she can remember them. For example: if you find in a magazine ''beautiful'', you could use that.
Try to be romantic aswell... hope this helps... if you need any other ideas... let me know...
2007-03-10 19:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should get her a small gift to show her you care. Don't be afraid, girls LOVE that stuff!
Go to hallmark or a little store and pick out something, and don't be afraid to ask for help from the store clerk.
How about a journal, you know, a diary, for her to write her thoughts. You could write on a card "for you to write your thoughts in, you're terrific!"
It is a VERY thoughtful gift, without looking like your trying to be overly romantic or expecting something from her.
I really think that that would be a great gift for you to give her, and she would think of you everytime she wrote in it!
2007-03-11 04:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--cool yourself off ----she is time wasted--you will not be of any value to each other--you said she is a student--stress??? That's her problem--go relax with someone available--you are not a psycologist--don't play at being one--what rewards will there be for you??? Waiting around all the time??? Not cool---get a grip and move on. Make your moves on available girls that are more your style.....and if she is going to talk about an ex--you will be the hurt puppy---is that what you want??NO-----Smile, be nice, have fun, good luck
2007-03-11 04:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One suggestion is to make up a de-stress basket for her. Include items such as bath oils or foaming bubbles, some candles, a ball especially made for de-stressing, a CD for easy listening such as the sounds of birds or moving water, and some form of fragrance or scent and any other things you think she might enjoy. Another suggestion is to give her a nice book such as a book of comedy or a special comic book such as Charlie Brown. Good luck.
2007-03-11 04:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by HelpingHand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this gal is looking for a shoulder to cry on and, has found one. She doesn't seem to interested in you except a brother figure, someone to listen to her.
You'd better get used to the idea that she's using you.
2007-03-11 04:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers will make anyone happy and itll show you like her too. get her pink roses red roses may make her think you love her and that may scare her.
2007-03-11 04:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by oneandonlyness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋