For whom we r living? i feel i have been treated like animal from each and every person in the world .?

Question

when i was in school there was a girl who always use to abuse me. she made my use to make a friend she like . she used me to such a extend that i started fearing from her . earlier i was very punctual in the class . i use to reach school even before time when no one has arrived .bcoz of her i started missing my auto and daily going late to the school. for that i daily use to get scholding from my father . in college also i have been treated like animal by every student . after finishing my graduation also i dint got any relaxtion and my past followed me to abuse me everywhere . yesterday when i was very happy that i got a job finally my mother started fighting with my father and with any reason started blaming me. i wanted to give happiness to my mother but she thinks something else .for whom i should earn...............and live for............just for poors

Answer 1

You allow yourself to be bullied by people. Stand up for yourself. You have no confidence in yourself, since you were a child and it just became a vicious cycle.

Answer 2

I can assure you that if this girl who you dealt with continue with her ways it has came back on her more than you can imagine. What ever you do in life don't assume people get away of mistreating others. These people that hunted you is getting 1/3 more worst for the way they hurt you emotionally. You know the saying, what goes around, comes around! It is true! Sometimes ones feeling can effect the perpetrator. For example, you express you felt people treated as an animal. The ones who treated you in this manner are being treated worst than an animal.

It sounds like in the heat of an agreement your parents took the opportunity to switch their angry toward you! The best time really talk to them when everything have stemming down. Invite them both to dinner and discuss this matter openly. It is then you raise your concern (in love) on how you felt when you delivered the news of a job, and how happy and proud you wanted to share that with them. Express from your heart how it felt when they turned on you. Assure them that when they get into these argument fits again, your name should be mention unless you are part of the subject.

Please understand why it's important to love God first, with all your heart and soul. He knows what's best for you! People, including parents are not be put above God! I know that God is very excited about you new job, and guess what? I am too. Congratulations.

God Bless

Answer 3

Of course you know to check your appearance, dress, smell, teeth excetra and to act confident. People go after anybody that appears different than them and too many people get their own ego's and confidence by putting down others. In school they often attack someone who is poorer, or fatter, or shyer or looks like a nerd.

If however it is following you through life and in your own family when you have something important to say , realize also that people go by what is usually referred to as an invisible aura around a person, this is a protection from God, therefore peoples answer to seek religious blessings to get this aura are correct . Make sure you are attending Church and receiving all the blessings from God that you can. God might want to protect you, but can't because of some addiction you have, which allows demons to make people target you, even people who attend church will be influenced by these demons and think you are bad, when it is they that are being bad and targeting you. Demons only tend to go after the really good people, trying to wear you down. So even if its cigarette smoking, what ever you're inate feelings are of the something you must give up thats bad or the something you must do --follow them . An example you might have noticed -- girls that have kept their virginity until marriage are protected by heaven all their lives, people notice an aura around them and treat them better than other women. This aura is in honour of Mary. A lot of these women however are not nice, and act superior and put others down. No matter how rotten they are people accept them and treat them well. They have the protection from heaven and the aura. A lot of them don't even love their own husbands. God however does not judge them by the aura. He judges them harder, because with heavens protection, they should be more conciderate of others, and when they die they go to hell. He will judge you more easily because you had it hard. Do everything you can to get his protection and if you get it remember to treat people well yourself. Best Wishes. Remember also that most the people that have life easy go to hell --and most people that have it hard go to heaven.

Answer 4

People hurt and disappoint us all. I undertand your pain. I have had a hard life and feel very hurt too. It is how life is sometimes, but one day maybe things will be better. For now, just know that the only one who will ever love you NO MATTER WHAT is God.

Live for GOD.

He loves you SO MUCH and knows all of your pain.
He has watched you go through all of these things, and has never left your side.

He is waiting for you to acknowledge him and tell him you will live for him and only him.

Answer 5

I believe this is your second letter about this abuse, or you think it's abuse.
Have you asked yourself what have you put into these relationships to warrant this type of treatment? You, after what you say, have years of college of which I doubt from your letter, should have the knowledge to get in touch with a consular and seek help.

Answer 6

it wasn't because of her, it's because of how you let her affect you. you can't blame her for your lack of character. women don't want weak men, are you sure you are being as manly as you need to be? you sound like a whiny bawlbag if you want my opinion, even if you don't I will give it to you, you need to know. I always say that if people consistently treat you poorly, you are teaching them how to treat you, what you are willing to accept. they aren't treating everyone that way only you, it must be you.

Answer 7

I wish you well in your new job and future life. There, no abuse from me!!